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I hate kissing and sex?? (lemmings.world)
submitted 5 days ago by CaptainsLog@lemmings.world to c/aroace
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The only thing I want to do with my girlfriend id hold hands or hug. For some reason, sex and even kissing feels weird to me. I love my girlfriend, but I don’t wanna kiss her and it makes me wonder if she’s just a best friend/platonic partner. Is it possible I’m aroace? I need advice.

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[-] Jumi@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago

Hard to give substantial advice when it's not a lot of information you gave. I'm not saying you should give more, better keep it safe online.

Generally I think it's a good idea to not try to hard to put a label on yourself. In the end it's not that important if you're ace or something else but that you're comfortable with yourself.

Also, I think keeping your gf in the loop regarding your wants, needs ad feelings towards her is pretty important. Communication is key.

this post was submitted on 15 Jun 2025
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