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submitted 2 weeks ago by Draconic_NEO to c/newcommunities@lemmy.world

For those who don't know what gender abolition is. Gender Abolition, also known as post-genderism is the belief that gender stereotypes are harmful and restrict people's ability to present the way they want that makes them feel happy. Gender abolitionists seek to eradicate gender stereotypes and restrictions associated with them to create a more free and accepting world.

For clarification, Gender abolitionists do not agree with TERFs or any similar rhetoric, anyone from those groups claiming to be "Gender Abolitionists" or "Gender Critical" are not real gender abolitionists and are appropriating the term. Real Gender abolitionists believe that people have the right to bodily autonomy and self-identification. That means in short, Gender abolitionists respect and stand up for trans rights.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I recommend checking out

!genderabolition@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[-] Draconic_NEO 7 points 3 weeks ago

Well considering this instance does block Hexbear, they probably don't want to leave it up to chance like that. Which is why I'm letting them know.

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Community is open for business (self.genderabolition)
submitted 3 weeks ago by Draconic_NEO to c/genderabolition

As of right now I have disengaged the community's lock and people are free and able to post here. On Federated servers this change may take a while to propagate, especially ones physically farther away from lemmy.blahaj.zone.

Please make sure to follow the rules of the community and lemmy.blahaj.zone when posting.

[-] Draconic_NEO 9 points 3 weeks ago

Really hoping they do. This could go very badly if they switch to the new domain and all the servers who defederated them are now suddenly federated again.

It would be good if Lemmy had an option to do it by IP as well, though I guess one already can by using their server's firewall to block all traffic to that IP on the Lemmy server.

[-] Draconic_NEO 27 points 3 weeks ago

Admin ping to bring awareness of this situation.

CC: @ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone @supakaity@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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submitted 3 weeks ago by Draconic_NEO to c/main

Their new domain is chapo.chat. We should probably block it now so they don't get a chance to use it to bypass defederation of their server by other instances.

After all they were defederated for good reason.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by Draconic_NEO to c/main

!GenderAbolition@lemmy.blahaj.zone which was largely created as a backup of the subreddit by the same name is current name is looking for moderators.

In case anyone isn't familiar with what gender abolition is, here's a brief overview. Gender Abolition is the belief that gender roles and gender stereotypes are harmful to people's freedom of expression and must be eliminated to create a more free and accepting society. Gender abolition is sometimes referred to as post-genderism or gender anarchy. More info in the community sidebar.

If anyone would like to help moderate please leave a comment here. Currently we are prioritizing people with accounts on lemmy.blahaj.zone but we will accept moderators from other instances as well.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by Draconic_NEO to c/genderabolition

Our community is currently looking for mods. When we get a sufficient amount of community moderators we will open to the public for anyone to post and comment here.

If you are in any way interested in helping us out moderate this community, please comment below.

If you currently moderate the subreddit r/GenderAbolition please leave a comment here and send a message from your mod account to u/Toothless_NEO.

[-] Draconic_NEO 7 points 1 month ago

Maybe we should have one like that here for specifically queer related and queer friendly groups, since exposure on this instance would greatly help those groups out.

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submitted 1 month ago by Draconic_NEO to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org
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submitted 1 month ago by Draconic_NEO to c/lgbtq_plus
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[-] Draconic_NEO 4 points 2 months ago

I will share that dragonfucker has significantly harassed me and sent death threats toward my way, it was through an alt account so I guess one could say that it could've not been drag, but the circumstances surrounding it were suspicious enough that I'm almost certain that this alt was the same person/dragon as dragonfucker. The community that was created to harass and target me !fuckdraconicneo@discuss.online along with the alt is gone but since I was pinged on every account and I have email notifications enabled I still do have all the messages I received, as well as screenshots of DMs from the user account, none of them are pretty.

I'm not a fan of gatekeeping people's identities and I REALLY don't think we should do that. I do think we should understand the kind of person drag is though, and acknowledge that these types of things like the death threats, the harassment, and encouragement of suicide have no place here, in a safe space no less.

[-] Draconic_NEO 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I think drag is talking about using the API or network tab in browser to create bans when a person hasn't posted in a community before, as far as I know there's no way to create fake modlog entries, other than doctoring screenshots of the modlog (something you'll be busted on very quickly) or possibly by screwing with the database as an admin (something that you'll also be busted on since it won't federate).

Comment removals can't be faked or screwed with unless doctored, because the comments removed must actually exist to appear in the log.

[-] Draconic_NEO 9 points 2 months ago

My issues with dragonfucker are to do with the fact that drag decided to make an alt account and proceed to spam me with insults, porn, and even death threats. Creating a community to harass me publicly and pinging me on every fediverse account I owned.

I know I couldn't actually prove it was drag who did it, Lemmy has awful tools to identify users, and drag denies all accountability, but the circumstances of it were so suspicious that I'd be willing to bet money that dragonfucker was the person behind it, or someone close with drag.

I'm not going to lie when I got the ping under the post asking for admins to help track me down so I could be tortured and killed I did get very scared that someone would show up at my home and I did actually contact the police about it. Though ultimately nothing came of the investigation.

It makes me very sad and also afraid that no one is addressing the real issues, instead choosing to complain about pronouns and debate the validity of other people's genders. Which as an Agender person also makes me feel sad and also kind of unsafe.

[-] Draconic_NEO 5 points 2 months ago

I think this page gives some good info on Neopronouns for those who might not be entirely in the know about them.

[-] Draconic_NEO 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I'm in agreement with this, but I think people should complain about the trolling behavior and the abusive behavior, and not about the pronouns, because the trolling and abusive behavior is the real problem. Not people using different pronouns or having non-standard identities.

[-] Draconic_NEO 3 points 2 months ago

How so? They seem like a nice person, what is it about @Grail@aussie.zone that people have such a problem with? I can agree that the article isn't perfect but I see people acting like They are some kind of horrible person or something.

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submitted 2 months ago by Draconic_NEO to c/nonbinary

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/20125127

Found this article on medium while scrolling through some comments in a post here. I recommend you go read the article, it's very insightful. It basically talks about how some cis people are likely Agender due to their lack of an internal sense of gender, or them not ever thinking about gender. I know that this isn't the only experience of being Agender. Agender experiences can be quite varied and different, and not all Agenders will relate to not experiencing or understanding gender, for some it's just a different feeling of gender, or a different type of feeling.

I do know that a lot of Agender people do though which is why I decided to post this here since I feel it could maybe help some people, or maybe just be an interesting article for people to read

Anyway what are your thoughts on this idea? If you have any thoughts or anything you'd like to add please share in the comments.

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submitted 2 months ago by Draconic_NEO to c/aroaceagender

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/20125127

Found this article on medium while scrolling through some comments in a post here. I recommend you go read the article, it's very insightful. It basically talks about how some cis people are likely Agender due to their lack of an internal sense of gender, or them not ever thinking about gender. I know that this isn't the only experience of being Agender. Agender experiences can be quite varied and different, and not all Agenders will relate to not experiencing or understanding gender, for some it's just a different feeling of gender, or a different type of feeling.

I do know that a lot of Agender people do though which is why I decided to post this here since I feel it could maybe help some people, or maybe just be an interesting article for people to read

Anyway what are your thoughts on this idea? If you have any thoughts or anything you'd like to add please share in the comments.

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submitted 2 months ago by Draconic_NEO to c/agender

Found this article on medium while scrolling through some comments in a post here. I recommend you go read the article, it's very insightful. It basically talks about how some cis people are likely Agender due to their lack of an internal sense of gender, or them not ever thinking about gender. I know that this isn't the only experience of being Agender. Agender experiences can be quite varied and different, and not all Agenders will relate to not experiencing or understanding gender, for some it's just a different feeling of gender, or a different type of feeling.

I do know that a lot of Agender people do though which is why I decided to post this here since I feel it could maybe help some people, or maybe just be an interesting article for people to read

Anyway what are your thoughts on this idea? If you have any thoughts or anything you'd like to add please share in the comments.

[-] Draconic_NEO 6 points 2 months ago

I never saw that article before but I do like it, I have noticed that a lot of people who I know that identify as cisgender don't seem to have an internal sense of gender or pay much mind to gender but I didn't think anyone else thought that too. It's nice to see my idea isn't as unpopular as I initially thought.

[-] Draconic_NEO 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

That MAP shit people regurgitate to try and defend or excuse pedophilia isn't a valid sexuality, pedophilia is a heinous and disgusting crime. Pedophiles aren't marginalized people, they are dangerous people who need to be locked up for the safety of others.

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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Draconic_NEO to c/main

Lemmy's 0.19.6 introduces some bug fixes but it also introduced a nasty bug which breaks image rendering in many posts See here and since this instance hosts a lot of image based content it would probably be a good idea for us to hold off on upgrading until this is fixed. I do not know yet if this bug will apply retroactively, as in, if all posts made or affected by this will be fixed once a fix rolls out or if they'll be screwed up forever or until editing or re-posting.

I encourage people in instances which have not updated yet to cross-post this to their instance's meta community or ping their instance admins to let them know.

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