Me moments before I use the correct pronouns to roast someone's bad take

Everyone is they/them unless specified differently

isn't they/them until proven otherwise is the safest, in any case such information isn't provided.

The only thing Lemmings need to know about me is my username.

I'm always torn over that for my various accounts.

On one hand, I genuinely don't object to any pronouns being used for me, even in person. At most, if someone is being a jerk, I'd object to their motivations.

On the other hand, there are communities and instances (as well as other forums away from the fediverse) where having something there is a sign of support for those that do have pronoun preferences in a world that's really shitty towards such.

From my end of things, the act of leaving them off and accepting any that come is a statement that I don't see any gender applied to me as a negative thing. It isn't a bad thing if people think I'm a woman, a man, non binary, cis or trans.

So I end up in decision paralysis and just don't put anything there at all.

Always surprised who has them listed, and sometimes what they are.

The technology is not here yet.