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[-] Shotgun_Alice@lemmy.world 141 points 3 months ago

TERFs will try to blame trans people for this.

[-] destructdisc@lemmy.world 103 points 3 months ago

They're already blaming black people for it because the perpetrator happened to be black

[-] WhatAmLemmy@lemmy.world 72 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

"This never would've happened in my christian fascist dictatorship... The perpetrator should've been white!"

[-] Witchfire@lemmy.world 39 points 3 months ago

"and state sponsored!"

[-] jsomae@lemmy.ml 6 points 3 months ago
[-] destructdisc@lemmy.world 8 points 3 months ago

Assholes. Transphobes included

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[-] Miaou@jlai.lu 7 points 3 months ago

Y'all Yankees spend more time complaining about TERFs than homophobes it seems

[-] SCmSTR 11 points 3 months ago

Why do you think that is

[-] Resol@lemmy.world 124 points 3 months ago

Transphobia also hurts cisgender people.

I would know. I was hurt by it too. It doesn't involve bathrooms btw.

[-] aow@sh.itjust.works 40 points 3 months ago

I'm not sure this had anything to do with transphobia. The attackers just sound homophobic; they probably saw her hair and don't know or care that the slur they picked isn't for girls. It's sad that she's going through this. Their girlfriends robbing them after they had been beaten down speaks volumes about what sort of people they are.

[-] Resol@lemmy.world 24 points 3 months ago

It generally really sucks to be a victim of a hate crime.

[-] Ledericas@lemm.ee 22 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

oh yea it does, one of my family members was misgendered as a man when she went into the womans bathroom one time, eventhough she isnt, by an demographics that have a wierd reaction to asian people.

[-] Resol@lemmy.world 22 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

The more stories about this I hear, the more I just question the reason why gender norms even exist. And I mean that in general.

Like, what do you mean men shouldn't act flamboyant and vulnerable? What do you mean little girls should always be seen playing with Barbie dolls (or in the context of my country, Fulla dolls)? Growing up, I never understood why making this distinction beyond the biological and sexual stuff was even necessary. Aren't we all humans at the end of the day?

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[-] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 9 points 3 months ago

This looks more like homophobic cunts rather than transphobic cunts.

[-] eugenevdebs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 22 points 3 months ago

The venn diagram is a near circle.

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[-] ajoebyanyothername@lemmy.world 94 points 3 months ago

But 'you can always tell'...

[-] kkj@lemmy.dbzer0.com 22 points 3 months ago

This was a homophobic hate crime, trans people weren't mentioned. The bigots actually guessed correctly in this case.

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[-] SnotFlickerman 77 points 3 months ago

This woman will never feel safe using a public restroom again.

[-] Sidhean@lemmy.world 23 points 3 months ago

Not should anyone, in places like this! Yokes! Yikes, even!

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[-] Shawdow194@fedia.io 64 points 3 months ago

"This should have never happened just because I am the way I am, and it should have never happened just because I was just trying to use the bathroom. But I don’t want people to be scared to stand up for themselves because they think that someone will hurt them all the time,” she told LGBTQ Nation. “I want to be seen as someone that is strong because they tried to ruin my life, but instead, they ruined their own.”

[-] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 50 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

How sure are we that she was attacked because she was perceived as trans? This could be a simple mugging.

EDIT- nevermind I actually read the article, this was a hate crime

[-] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 10 points 3 months ago

It sounds like it was more of a general biggotry thing than Trans, specifically m

[-] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 46 points 3 months ago

Awful, just awful.

Y'all, don't go anywhere without some means of self-defense. A pocket stun gun costs $20, or if you live in a country where they're banned, carry a pocket corkscrew with a foil cutter on the end.

[-] ProdigalFrog@slrpnk.net 42 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Stun guns, while potentially being intimidating to a lone attacker, are surprisingly ineffective if actually used for defense.

Pepper spray, specifically the type that uses a stream instead of a fine mist, is far more effective at stopping an attack and giving an opportunity to escape.

I recommend POM pepper spray, personally. The smaller versions are 50 state legal.

[-] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 3 months ago

Yeah I've been hit by a few stun guns, but not the police kind. It hurts sure and it makes a scary noise, but if I were intent on violence they would not stop me.

[-] 0x0@lemmy.zip 11 points 3 months ago

The police kind might actually kill you.

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[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 9 points 3 months ago

I have a slock, which is a lock on a piece of pantyhose. It can be untied and left in my bag and nobody will know what it is at an airport.

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[-] StarlightDust 36 points 3 months ago

This is more common still for trans people who are earlier on in their transition but the media doesn't talk about it. This violence was intended for a trans person so why do people only care when it impacts the cis? This ultimately says that violence towards trans people is ok but that it is a problem when those who aren't trans are impacted.

[-] driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 15 points 3 months ago

This is more common still for trans people

Not sure about this. There's way much more cis women that trans women, so attacks on "trans women" could have more cis women victims just because of the number if cis vs trans women.

[-] ArtemisimetrA@lemm.ee 7 points 3 months ago

Purely as numbers, this isn't crazy, but since the size of affected demographics is so different, you have to look at proportions rather than just figures

[-] 0x0@lemmy.zip 14 points 3 months ago

This violence was intended for a trans person

Did you read the article?

When she confirmed that she was indeed a lesbian woman, one of the individuals hit her

So, no.

And I've see n similar reports that did indeed involve trans people so... also no.

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[-] howrar@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 months ago

This ultimately says that violence towards trans people is ok but that it is a problem when those who aren't trans are impacted.

For the people you want to reach with these kinds of stories, it is. I don't think there's much use in preaching to the choir.

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[-] Peppycito@sh.itjust.works 16 points 3 months ago

cis lesbian

I guess I don't know what cis means. Pretty sure I'm clear on lesbian, but I guess you never know.

[-] destructdisc@lemmy.world 48 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

A trans woman who's attracted to other women would be a trans lesbian, if that's what was tripping you up.

[-] spooky2092 41 points 3 months ago

Cis = cisgender = she was assigned female at birth and is not transgender

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[-] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 24 points 3 months ago

Cis is short for cisgender. It's the antonym of transgender. Has nothing to do with sexuality.

Cis-het would be cisgender, heterosexual.

[-] StarlightDust 16 points 3 months ago

Trans comes from "on the other side" as cis comes from "on the same side".

[-] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 9 points 3 months ago

I think a lot of people don't. The word 'cis' seems to have been invented because some people object to the term biologically-female or biologically-male, but that's generally what it means.

[-] Witchfire@lemmy.world 24 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Cis and trans have existed since Ancient Rome was a thing

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[-] pack_of_racoons@sh.itjust.works 18 points 3 months ago

To add, cisgender is not that new of a word, it's been around since the 90s in English. Using the term "biological male/female" is an immidate red flag as it carries with it the insinuation that trans identities are not ligitimate; you could just say "not trans." Hence the heavy use by right wingers and bigots.

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[-] Sarmyth@lemmy.world 14 points 3 months ago

It's a nasty can of worms that never should have been opened.

[-] Tiger666@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 months ago

And so it continues...

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