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[-] Objection@lemmy.ml 4 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Yes, it's true in some cases.

It's not really that surprising. Just as there are straight men who are misogynist there are people who are attracted to femboys, trans people, and/or other gender nonconforming people who hold prejudices against the same group. It's massively oversimplifying human psychology to think it just comes down to a single linear axis of like/dislike. For some people, it might be that simple, but it's not always the case.

Take the song Hellfire and replace Esmeralda with a femboy, everything else can stay the same.

[-] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 16 points 17 hours ago

I think femininity itself is the more fetishized component, so it just means the femboy is successfully femming.

Especially when you consider how right wingers tend to interpret gender roles.

[-] Nyticus@kbin.melroy.org 15 points 18 hours ago

Femboys don't even need the right-wingers' help at all. They fetishize themselves and it is in of itself a fetish. I would know given by the amount of furry porn that encircles around femboys in general. And unfortunately, they are some of the loudest and pretend all femboys want to just be cock-slaves and cock-sleeves.

[-] erin 4 points 4 hours ago

I don't love the take "men dressing feminine is a fetish." Are tomboys a fetish? Just because some people choose to engage in fetish and also are femboys doesn't make it "in and of itself" a fetish. It isn't.

[-] Bytemeister@lemmy.world 10 points 18 hours ago

Kinks transcend political ideology. Roger Stone was famously into getting cuckold.

[-] endeavor@sopuli.xyz 15 points 22 hours ago

Oh yeah, the most radical and anti lgbtq people tend to jerk off to boipussy feminine penises and rape other men. No, to them this is not gay.

Yes entirety of 4chan is deficated to femboys and russian army training involves forced male on male intercourse as hazing.

[-] Ledericas@lemm.ee 22 points 1 day ago

The term ammosexuals comes up alot, and yes they festishize everything because they are so sexually repressed and frustrated.

[-] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 20 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Just saw a dude dumping used motor oil on his lawn exclaiming about being proud or "dgaf" about libs, on Reddit. People snooped his profile briefly and found out he was a big fan of showing his butthole and trying to find weird sexual encounters.

I think it's true that any conservative is part of the party cause they are repressed.

[-] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 19 hours ago

I think it’s true that any conservative is part of the party cause they are repressed.

Every conservative i know personally is ultra repressed, so at least anecdotally, this tracks.

[-] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 4 points 18 hours ago

I've met some that were malleable, but the moment I brought up some gay shit (I'm cis het btw) they shut the fuck up.

I wish I was who I am now in grade school.

[-] Sanctus@lemmy.world 155 points 1 day ago

Everything is fetishized by the right, especially the things they claim to hate.

[-] kittenzrulz123 13 points 1 day ago

Yup, as a trans person I have personally experienced this

[-] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 71 points 1 day ago

So much temptation, I must ban EVERYTHING that makes me horny!!!

[-] bizarroland@fedia.io 42 points 1 day ago

I think it was Jesus that said, "It's better to ban an entire nation from existing than it is to work out your own sexuality with fear and trembling".

[-] JayGray91@piefed.social 8 points 1 day ago

Mega Frollo energy

[-] 9point6@lemmy.world 27 points 1 day ago

I mean it's the logical conclusion of "everything the right says is projection"

If a right winger wants to ban something you can find as a category on pornhub, that's what they've been clicking.

[-] djsoren19 85 points 1 day ago

I don't think it's widespread or mainstream, but speaking as a femboy, we are fetishized a lot in general. Even normal people often just assume I'm hyperhorny, like the only reason I'm femmodeing is because I want cock. The creepy part about the right-wingers is they see us as "failed males" and specifically get off on the idea of asserting their dominance over us. There's also a lot of dehumanizing and degradation that I see those types engaging in, beyond the typical "slut" that normal people do. They want to sexually abuse and violate femboys to feel better about their own fragile masculinity.

I'm very glad I live in a solid blue state and can go out safely, I think if I lived in a right-wing state I wouldn't feel safe going femmode outside.

[-] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 12 points 1 day ago

What is a femboy honestly? A straight? feminine man?

[-] djsoren19 37 points 1 day ago

Just an effeminate man. I don't know if sexuality has much to do with it, but I'd say the majority of femboys are gay/bi with a minority being strictly heterosexual. To be real blunt, imagine the exact inverse of a tomboy, and you're probably pretty close to a femboy. I like some p girly things, I like to wear skirts and dresses, but I also have a masculine side to me.

[-] DoubleDongle@lemmy.world 4 points 21 hours ago

Boy in skirt. Often a half-closeted trans woman, but not necessarily so.

[-] palordrolap@fedia.io 24 points 1 day ago

Imagine you're a horrible misogynist who has the drive to have sex with a woman, but you don't like the idea of actually having to touch one. If only there was something feminine but not a woman. Something that could understand a man in the way only a man can, but at the same time is not quite as strong and powerful as a man...

[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 53 points 1 day ago

Yes - there is a lot that has been written about the homoeroticism of fascist movements. For years, it’s been a meme that “traps aren’t gay.” Nick Fuentes has sex with submissive puppy boys or something.

Fascism is libidinal. The Nazis who tortured gay men in concentration camps were also very eager to have sex with them. It goes back to Roman or even Bronze Age sexual mores, where sex is an act of aggression and as long as the “superior” is in the penetrative role, then it is okay.

[-] GoodLuckToFriends@lemmy.today 4 points 1 day ago

Where can I find these submissive puppy boys? It doesn't seem like it should be hard to convince one of them to wear one of those rape prevention reverse condoms, just in case...

[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Where can I find these submissive puppy boys?

blahaj.zone

[-] kittenzrulz123 6 points 1 day ago

You can also find catboys here :3

[-] FreedomAdvocate@lemmy.net.au 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It seems to be a common left-winger fantasy that right-wingers are secretly obsessed with gays/trans/femboys/queer/etc sexually. Doesn't seem to be based on any truth, just your typical left/right wing rubbish.

[-] Hegar@fedia.io 3 points 11 hours ago

"FreedomAdvocate" just immediately sounds like a troll account. Aaaannnnd the comment history is almost nothing but trolling. Surprise surprise.

[-] FreedomAdvocate@lemmy.net.au 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

What you define as trolling is apparently very different to what actual trolling is.

Why does almost every “progressive” think that anyone saying things they disagree with is “trolling”? Genuine question. Is it because you can’t fathom anyone not sharing the same views as you, so you think that they must be deliberately saying argumentative arguments to try and get a reaction?

[-] Hegar@fedia.io 1 points 7 hours ago

Yes, pretending you have questions when you just have insults is a great example of trolling.

[-] FreedomAdvocate@lemmy.net.au 1 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

What are you talking about? Where did I "pretend I have questions but just have insults"? Where did I even insult anyone in my post that you replied to? Here it is, please show me:

It seems to be a common left-winger fantasy that right-wingers are secretly obsessed with gays/trans/femboys/queer/etc sexually. Doesn’t seem to be based on any truth, just your typical left/right wing rubbish.

Insult......where? You just saw an opinion that you didn't agree with and therefor didn't like and just went straight to "they're trolling".

[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)
[-] FreedomAdvocate@lemmy.net.au 4 points 1 day ago

Cool, so you found what.....6 people who might possibly be gay or like some strange stuff? And that then means that all "right-wingers" are the same? So if I was to find say 6 instances of a left-winger being a pedo, does that mean that all left-wingers are pedos?

[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago
[-] FreedomAdvocate@lemmy.net.au 2 points 1 day ago

Homophobia is absolute rife in the left-wing community btw.

[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Which is why you provided examples. I wonder if there is an explicit historical difference in party platforms.

Was is it Clinton who ignored the AIDS epidemic until it became a crisis and told a supposed friend to fuck off when they were dying?

[-] FreedomAdvocate@lemmy.net.au 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

You actually want me to provide 6 examples of left-wing homophobia, or pedos, or anything else like that? You seriously don't think that any left-wing people do bad things?

The point is that there's no "right wingers are all closet homosexuals", just like there's no "left wingers are all closet pedos". How did you not get that? Are there some, even lots, on both sides? Absolutely.

[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

You’re right in that individual examples prove nothing, but the evidence suggests something larger at play.

I’ve provided examples of individual and institutional homophobia - you’ve failed to even suggest evidence of the former. I would not deny that individual “left wingers” (idk if you distinguish between leftists and liberals in the same way I do) that are homophobic - but I don’t think I’ve seen any evidence that progressive ideologies are institutionally homophobic. Feel free to provide some evidence though!

[-] FreedomAdvocate@lemmy.net.au 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

But your "evidence" isn't indicative of all "right-wingers". It's some small study of "homophobes". Many on the left are homophobes, seemingly more and more these days as "trans rights" and gay rights don't mix very well.

https://quillette.com/2019/01/31/homophobia-and-the-modern-trans-movement/

[-] Objection@lemmy.ml 1 points 6 hours ago

“trans rights” and gay rights don’t mix very well.

Classic right wing "divide and conquer" tactics, try to drive a wedge between trans and gay people, pick off the trans people first, then come for the gays next. This nonsense is exactly why the LGBT acronym was made in the first place, because we (the vast majority of us, anyway) stand together in solidarity and reject this idiotic nonsense.

[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Boo-boo, I’m a trans man. Telling me that being trans is homophobic is not the move.

Radicalized theories of transgender identity also now serve to promote the idea that gender and sexuality are not only different, but unconnected. In one narrow sense, there is some basis to this: All men are not sexually attracted to women, and vice versa—which is why separating desire from gender is important. But it’s one thing to say that your gender doesn’t predict who you will be sexually attracted to (which is true), and quite another to say that gender has absolutely nothing to do with sexuality, which (as I will illustrate by way of autobiography later in this essay) is false.

Holy shit, they gave this dumbass a PhD?

Amazing that your same source (different author) has an article praising John Money. The guy who made David Reimer pretend to have sex with his brother to convince him that he was a girl. That’s fascinating - usually “TERFs” like to bring up Money to condemn “the trans movement.”

[-] Meron35@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

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[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

A “drip drip” is a usual consequence of hot sweaty mansex.

[-] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 29 points 1 day ago
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[-] Lasherz12@lemmy.world 28 points 1 day ago

They definitely are, although the most fetishized thing by them is black bulls cucking white men. Seems easy enough to see their criteria is things that flare up their enormous sexual insecurity. Femboys stuff fits that criteria for some of them.

[-] boolean_sledgehammer@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

They're about as fetishized as cuckolding is in right wing circles. The way those dorks toss that term around tells me enough to know that a lot of them are harboring a deep-seated desire to watch some dude rail their wives like they never could.

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[-] figjam@midwest.social 14 points 1 day ago

4chan has a lot of gay/trans porn for how right they slant.

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