248
It's not you (lemmy.zip)
submitted 3 months ago by Maven@lemmy.zip to c/comicstrips@lemmy.world
top 7 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[-] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 59 points 3 months ago
[-] Maven@lemmy.zip 46 points 3 months ago

I was reading it as a lesbian coming out story

[-] Siethron@lemmy.world 22 points 3 months ago

Saying "it's men" implies men are at fault for her not liking men. Saying it's women would imply she is attracted to women

[-] jaybone@lemmy.zip 15 points 3 months ago

But “it’s men” is kind of a pun on “it’s me”, which is the original trope this is referencing. Doesn’t really work with “it’s women”.

[-] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 10 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I take it as a way to bring attention to the topic for some more nuanced discussion to flow. I don't think the artist was trying to be sexist when making this.

idk that's just my interpretation though

edit: Here's another example that might get the double meaning across better

[-] Lazerouselaseras@startrek.website 29 points 3 months ago

Me when my first crush said she's gay

[-] Allonzee@lemmy.world 19 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

As long as both sexes see one another as vectors of acquisition (what do I get?!) and not people to connect with, it'll keep getting worse.

I'm of the opinion that it, like most core social constructs in modernity, have been poisoned by capitalism and the glorification of avarice that comes with it, when those infected with avarice should have their society pelting rotten produce at them. A romantic partnership is supposed to be a commune of love and cooperation, not a good girl "marrying up," not a good boy acquiring a "trophy."

As long as we keep looking at each other through the prism of material gain and ambition and greed instead of love and intimate connection, few will be happy, whether alone or in a business partnership with a spouse that's abandoned the millisecond "for worse" aka life inevitably arrives.

this post was submitted on 23 Apr 2025
248 points (100.0% liked)

Comic Strips

18521 readers
1539 users here now

Comic Strips is a community for those who love comic stories.

The rules are simple:

Web of links

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS