If you’re not into kissing anon dudes you’re just not into it. There’s nothing wrong with that; in most sauna scenarios if you let people know your limits they will respect them. So next time a dude leans in to lock lips tell him “no thanks; let’s just suck dick instead.” Or whatever you’re there for.

Human sexuality is a complex thing. I'm pan, and I've been with my share of guys over the years (I am a guy). Am not going to get into the weeds but suffice to say, I've done all sorts of things with guys, however kissing is something that I don't tend to, because I find the sensation of kissing stubble or a beard unpleasant, and asking someone to shave directly before they kiss me seems unreasonable!

So I'd say if you straight up find it unpleasant, that's probably not likely to become finding it pleasant via repeated exposure. Just my opinion of course. You can always be straight up with people and say "I'm not into this, I'd rather we did x instead" and it's their call if they're happy with that or not.

As others have said if you don't like kissing then you don't like kissing and importantly others should respect that boundary.

Would it be possible perhaps, if you are with a person who respects your boundaries and overall makes you feel safe you could be more open to kissing, however and this is big you don't have to "get over it" and you should only try that if you are doing it for yourself and not others.

Sometimes I feel like the only one. It just grossea me out. I don't know why. :/

I gave in and made out with a dude during a hookup two months, though. Got. Fucking. Mono. -_-

I can't say for most people, but I would totally get it and have no trouble respecting this boundary if you just were honest about it. Some things humans do is gross. Sometimes even too gross for other humans. 😅

Your experience was the opposite of mine, no kissing taking place at all, just pure focus on the johnson.