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Someone just asked the opposite of this question here and I was wondering if there are cases were you're just not interested in something but you know the community is great nonetheless.

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[-] setsneedtofeed@lemmy.world 1 points 28 minutes ago

Not particularly into guys, but I love women who are into them.

[-] rippermonty@feddit.uk 2 points 6 minutes ago
[-] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 minutes ago

No, not really. Do you need a diagram and flowchart?

(Come to think of it: An awesome use case for gen AI would be a bot that generates memes and weird images on demand)

[-] Reyali@lemm.ee 2 points 1 hour ago

Sex. Neurodivergent/nerd social circles often have a lot of kink/BDSM and otherwise sex positive people, so my friends group is pretty open about sex.

I’m on the asexual spectrum and would rather forget that sex is a thing, but I love my friends and as long as everyone is consenting and safe, I’m happy for them. I sometimes get awkward when sex convos happen around me, but hey, I get awkward with many other convos too.

[-] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 hours ago

Grand strategy games aren't for me, but I love reading the insane stories from CKII and Dwarf Fortress.

[-] sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 hours ago

Horses. Let’s say she was rather liberal regarding stuff.

[-] spittingimage@lemmy.world 8 points 3 hours ago

Boardgaming. I play an occasional boardgame with my friends, but I'm not searching youtube clips for strategies, importing first-print Euro games in the original German and printing English-language stickers for the boards, or watching Essen livestreams every year.

[-] VirtigoMommy@sh.itjust.works 8 points 4 hours ago

Metal and punk music, not my style but def my scene

Skateboarding/ bmx/ rollerblades / scooters- have a fucked up knee so I don’t like to anymore but I love the energy the crowd brings

Street racing- car scene is dying and wifey doesn’t let me any more 🙃

Graffiti art- I’m just bad at it

Furries - not my thing but they’re fun folks

Larping / roleplay/ dnd - same

[-] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

One that’s less relevant now, but throughout my life has been relevant: Juggalos.

I was a big metalhead in school, and i had a bunch of juggalo friends. I liked a couple of their songs well enough, but I found the “culture” grating. Still, those mothafuckas were the most accepting and tolerant people I knew. Tolerant of anyone’s way of life, except they fucking hated bigots. In the 90s, being accepting of queer peeps really wasn’t in vogue (to put it lightly) but juggalos welcomed queer peeps as friends with open arms.

[-] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 10 points 6 hours ago

Pineapple on pizza. You're wrong and I wanna fight you but we can still be friends and have a good time over drinks.

[-] Trail@lemmy.world 8 points 5 hours ago

No I am not wrong. And I can raise you with pineapple on burger.

[-] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

ranked competitive sex

edit: oh and also trans girls, now that i think about it.

[-] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 51 points 12 hours ago

Furries are cool people ~~and the backbone of modern society~~

[-] blackstampede@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 hours ago

I like furries because I appreciate modern technology. If all the furries went to lunch at the same time, we'd be eating each other in the streets before they made it to the diner.

[-] Lv_InSaNe_vL@lemmy.world 46 points 11 hours ago

This. To be clear I have absolutely no problem with furries existing and I believe anything less than letting y'all be would be tantamount to treason.

But God damn I just cannot understand it. I don't get it. And it weirds me out.

Like I said, I would actually fight to defend your right to wear your fur suit out in public. But I'm also going to make fun of you because man it's just weird.

Although I did have a coworker (I work in IT so this isn't actually that surprising) who was a furry and he tried to meow at me one time when I called his name. Don't do that. That was weird. Just tell me what you did to fix the computer man.

[-] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 10 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

I was never into furry stuff, but I hung out with an online furry community way back in 2006. Furries are cool. Furryism is just not for me.

[-] i_dont_want_to 7 points 11 hours ago

Same, lots of great people and a nice community. As a whole, they're very accepting folks too and have no problems with the respectful non-furs.

[-] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 11 points 9 hours ago

I don't like to dress in a slutty outfit and go out in the public

[-] OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world 55 points 12 hours ago

Lesbians. Hate that they aren't into me, but damnit I get it.

[-] red@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 hours ago

They also have more in common with you than any gay person ever will.

[-] Walk_blesseD 3 points 1 hour ago

Huh??? But we are a subset of gay people???

[-] OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world 1 points 46 minutes ago* (last edited 46 minutes ago)

I think they mean gay as in gay men. A lot of people see gay as strictly masculine and lesbian as strictly feminine.

Which is ironic cause it should kinda be the other way around depending on your point of reference

I'll be honest with you I don't even know what I was trying to say originally I just wanted to make that masculine/feminine joke

[-] OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Not really but that would be hilarious

[-] OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago
[-] wuzzlewoggle@feddit.org 94 points 14 hours ago

For me it's Metal music. It's just absolutely not my genre but an overwhelming amount of metalheads I met were just the nicest, most wholesome and fun people all around.

[-] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 40 points 14 hours ago

We trash and bash in the mosh pitts, and get out our aggression. But if someone falls, you YANK them up. Many times I've fallen, and then suddenly felt myself lifted high into the air by the hand of god. Then I can see who lifted me, and it turns out it wasn't god. It was a long haired, bearded, tattood muscleman. Which makes sense. I'm like 300lbs. If you're suddenly yanking me up effortlessly, you're a big muscle man. And then there's other times I see women fall. I yank them up. I'm doing the right thing, I KNOW I'm doing the right thing, but the whole time I'm just like "Sorry sorry sorry sorry." because you don't aim where you grab. You grab and yank up, by whatever you can. You don't want the pitt to come her way and stomp her head, not knowing she exists down there. So yank, but also "Sorry sorry sorry sorry". I've yet to have any women mad at me for doing it, they get it, but MAN it feels weird just grabbing a woman like that.

Pushing, shoving, looks like a massive fist fight but it's all love. We're trusting them with our life. They're trusting us with theirs. We all get super violent, and have a good time. Then the show lets out, and we're like "Oh, you wanna go get some late night eats? Anyone know a good gyro spot?", and we're just friendly for the rest of the day. We're like the Canadians of music genres. Violent when we play, and friendly the rest of the time.

[-] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 8 hours ago

Funny. For me mosh pitts don't have association with metal. I married an ozzy fan though.

[-] HoneyMustardGas@lemmy.world 21 points 14 hours ago

There is research and papers showing that heavy music in general can actually be therapeutic and make someone calmer, rather than the perceived opposite effect. It can be a great outlet. I listen to metal, heavy music, all the time but when I have used it as a coping mechanism, i.e. an outlet for stress, it has definitely allowed me to release such tension. Not only that, but singing/screaming to vocals along to the music surely does release all of energy, and while there are outsiders who might perceive the music as 'angry' the incorrect connection they're making is that anger is an energetic emotion, as in unreleased energy/tension. Metal isn't angry music, it is energetic. That is why it makes such good workout music. It stimulates and satisfies that part of our lives, letting us be some of the 'nicest, most wholesome and fun people all around'.

[-] insaneinthemembrane@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

And I've always loved that mostly the lyrics are not like a lot of music that is just... I love you, I stalk you, I am nothing without you ... Puke

[-] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 5 points 10 hours ago

You’re all in it together. That’s just the whole vibe

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[-] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago

That's funny. That was the first thing that popped in my head. I don't know how to pronounce any of your favorite Scandinavian bands' names, but I think we'll get along just fine.

[-] LouNeko@lemmy.world 50 points 14 hours ago

Books. I'm dyslexic as fuck but heavy readers are mostly chill people.

[-] Plum@lemmy.world 20 points 13 hours ago

Did you ever get into audio books? It's nice to have someone else read to you at bedtime or during a commute.

[-] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 13 hours ago

Ooohh ooh audio books are my bag baby yeah.

Podcasts too.

It's all about timbre and accent. I could listen to the right voice read the phone book.

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[-] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Meat-eating and political apathy. Few people are vegetarians at this point in history, and activism tends to attract defective personalities.

If it sounds like I must be a misanthropic bastard that hates everyone, unfortunately, yeah, I think I do at this point.

[-] stinky@redlemmy.com 9 points 10 hours ago
[-] hactar42@lemmy.world 1 points 14 minutes ago

You should read the NOFX autobiography, the open line is...

The first time I drank piss was on a fire escape overlooking downtown Los Angeles.

[-] IndiBrony@lemmy.world 6 points 10 hours ago

Surprising from a user named stinky. I guess you're more the type who don't frown when you go down to brown town.

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[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 41 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Smokers. They have decades of being able to strike up an angry conversation in a street with an absolute stranger, whilst never letting it escalate, because, fuckit, brotherhood of smokers.

Plus a healthy appreciation of nature. Sure you can smoke and look at your phone, but you still have to be outside and that means glancing up from time to time to look at the scenery, the night sky, to wave at your neighbours, etc.

Good people smokers, filthy habit.

(Vapers dont count, cos you can't really share a vape concurrently. Also a lot of them take pride in their devices which I find weird. Real smokers have a decent sense of self-hatred at their habit)

[-] Tiger@sh.itjust.works 11 points 11 hours ago

Fuck yeah, I miss it. Smokers are my people. Risk takers, nihilists, indulgers, hedonists, adventurers, rebels, fun-havers… but I’ve gotten domesticated and want to live a long and clean life. Sigh.

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[-] JayGray91@lemmy.zip 4 points 9 hours ago

Old school vapers at least, ones that still roll their own coils and rewick their rebuildable atomizers, would almost always have a device that they have customized themselves, or gotten a very beautiful custom mod.

Also vaping is a bit different in that you could vape using a device akin to smoking, or you could be vaping up a storm cloud like a shisha or bing would, or anything in between.

It's a personal thing. At least in the opinion if this vaper.

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Eggs. Never much liked eggs outside of scrambled or omelets and I only really tolerate those but I know pretty much everyone else likes them so 🤷

[-] HoneyMustardGas@lemmy.world 17 points 14 hours ago

Marijuana Aficionados. I've been straight edge my entire life but always hung out with them. Now, it is more common since legal restrictions have been lifted. The community in general is well, chill.

[-] Plum@lemmy.world 12 points 13 hours ago

My dad gave me advice a hundred years ago, and it's probably a George Carlin bit or something, but there's a difference in philosophy between drunks and stoners. A drunk will pound a beer, or sip from a personal flask, or bring their own six pack to a party. A stoner's first impulse is to light a joint and find someone to pass it off to. It's communal, and it brings others into the circle, where alcohol is isolating. Obviously it's a generalization, but it sort of fits.

[-] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 8 points 9 hours ago

Real stoners always load a full bowl.

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