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Basic courtesy (lemmy.world)
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[-] grue@lemmy.world 93 points 4 days ago

Nobody posted the copypasta yet? I guess it's gotta be me, then.

[-] lka1988@lemmy.dbzer0.com 46 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I watched someone in a Costco parking lot shove his cart onto one of those berms at the end of a row, very obviously about to walk away from it. I was already frustrated, so I walked over and basically yanked it from him, saying something to the effect of "no don't worry I'll get it" in a very "you're part of the problem" tone.

It felt nice, I'm not gonna lie.

Edit: looks like the idiots who this meme is directed at are out in force lol

[-] pHr34kY@lemmy.world 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

My local Costco recently removed the coin locks. Almost immediately, trolleys were fucking everywhere except in the bay.

The coin locks never bothered me because I have a pick for them on my keys. And yes, I return the damn trolley every time.

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[-] Dezzillion@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago

Always cart corral or reserved police parking.

[-] JusticeForPorygon 56 points 5 days ago

In b4 someone unironically tries to defend not putting their cart back. There's always one.

[-] don@lemm.ee 26 points 5 days ago

There's always one.

Confirmed, it seems one did. Sigh.

[-] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 16 points 4 days ago

My husband wouldn't put the cart away.

But he has cerebral palsy which made walking back to the car without the cart for stability difficult when he was shopping alone. He actively liked if someone left a cart in the handicapped hatch mark area because then it would be close so he could grab that going into the store and be balanced against it.

He did know it wasn't ideal though, and I'd take the carts back when I started shopping with him.

[-] Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 4 days ago

Anyone parking in a handicap spot is the one type of person no one should judge when they don't put their cart away.

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[-] jaschen@lemm.ee 39 points 4 days ago

This is mostly an American thing. They/we tend to be more entitled and very selfish. Often making excuses for bad behavior with lines like "I'm keeping people employed". No stupid, you're increasing our groceries because of your selfishness.

Now I live in Taiwan and have visited many countries and found out that this is not the norm. Most people care about the community their live in and oftentimes put back their carts.

Another example of American entitlement. Americans often throw trash on the ground in parking lots because the trash cans are too far away or they can't find one. Again the same excuses, "Keeping these people employed".

In Taiwan(and Japan), if you can't find a trash can, you take your trash home with you. You actually have a hard time finding a bin in public here. But our streets are typically very clean. Because we care about the community and the people here are less selfish.

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[-] Remember_the_tooth@lemmy.world 46 points 5 days ago

The litmus test for civility.

[-] s12@sopuli.xyz 16 points 4 days ago

How else do I get my £ back?

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[-] turbowafflz@lemmy.world 40 points 5 days ago

You'd have to be some sort of lazy bones to not do something so simple.

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[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 days ago
[-] M0oP0o@mander.xyz 15 points 4 days ago

The most basic test to separate people from beasts.

[-] AbsoluteChicagoDog@lemm.ee 8 points 4 days ago

I'll never understand people who make doing free labor for a corporation some sort of top tier ethical standard.

Not lttering, following traffic rules, there are so many small ways we make our society better and yet people get so worked up over the one that is providing free labor.

[-] xenspidey@lemmy.zip 9 points 4 days ago

Um, not free labor. Preventing that cart from damaging cars

[-] Dempf@lemmy.zip 8 points 4 days ago

Sounds like we've got a lazybones on our hands.

[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 7 points 4 days ago

Not lttering

What do you think leaving a cart in a random spot is if not littering?

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[-] bss03@infosec.pub 19 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

There are some of you out there that really can't return the cart. Maybe it's your own mobility issues; maybe it's children, animals, or something else that you can't leave unattended in the vehicle; maybe you just ran out of spoons picking up your medical supplies; whatever reason--I got chu, fam.

When I turn around to return my cart, I always look for stragglers and bring them back. I'm forever alone, but healthy, so getting carts back to their "home" is the least I can do.

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[-] idegenszavak@sh.itjust.works 19 points 5 days ago

wowowow mister millionaires, who has so much money they need a "cart" to carry their things. I can only buy like 7 eggs from my salary, so I don't have this kind of 1% problem, I can carry them easily in my hands

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[-] noxypaws@pawb.social 3 points 3 days ago

fucking ALWAYS.

joke's on you, i use a shopping bag

[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 11 points 4 days ago

Well, put your bag back in the bag corral.

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[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 6 points 4 days ago

This is such a weak post. You really wanna be a good steward of carts? Get one from the corral on the way in instead of using one from the inside. Especially if it's not out of the way. Make the cart retriever's job even easier. Especially on super hot/cold days.

[-] neuracnu 6 points 4 days ago

This is the way.

Also, by taking a cart from the corral and bringing it in with you, you’re actively modeling a virtuous behavior you hope people emulate, which does more to correct the problem than whining online about it.

But it does make me wonder about us sometimes. How did we get this way? How did “Fuck everybody else; got mine” become the default way Americans think? Am I the weird one for being raised to be thoughtful about these kinds of choices?

I don’t claim to be perfect. I’ve had bad days when I take advantage that permissiveness-inconsiderateness that I see around me all the time, but I always know that it’s wrong, and that I’m doing an inconsiderate thing, but that my frustration affords me the grace to be selfish about this one thing.

One of the Academy Award nominated short films this year is Instruments of a Beating Heart, about a class of Japanese first-grade students preparing to perform Ode to Joy for the new first year students that will take their places. It’s primarily about the struggle of one girl, but set against the backdrop of Japanese grade school life, student responsibility and expectation-setting for young humans experiencing their first non-familial social environments. It made me think “Well, at least these kids are going to be alright.”

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[-] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 5 points 3 days ago

I do this, not because I'm courteous but because if I take one from the outdoor corrals I don't have to wait behind three grannies slowly selecting carts from the inside corral.

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[-] NastyNative@mander.xyz 2 points 3 days ago

So I used to put my cart back all the time but then I found out it creates jobs for people that cant get a job. Some one getting out of jail living in a half way home can use these jobs to get out of their situation. I no longer put it back.

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