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[-] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 101 points 6 months ago

This is what happens when you fail to reign in scam calls in any way for a decade plus.

[-] jdnewmil@lemmy.ca 41 points 6 months ago

Believe it or not, this is a perfect time to leave a voice mail. The not answering spam calls I am normalized with, but the refusal to use voice mail for important calls is inexcusable.

[-] storcholus@feddit.org 17 points 6 months ago

I would not listen to it. Just send a text

[-] couch1potato@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 6 months ago

I don't have a voicemail set up specifically because I don't want to dial in to check it. If you're a real person just text me to get my attention.

[-] JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

Dialing into your voicemail isn't as common anymore. I think my carrier still allows me to do that, but mostly it's all handled on my phone nowadays

[-] ICastFist@programming.dev 6 points 6 months ago

Dunno about other countries, but in Brazil you have to pay to listen to your voicemail

[-] jdnewmil@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 months ago

Never had that in the US AFAIK, but we used to have to pay by the SMS text.

[-] ByteJunk@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

There's people out there who haven't disabled their voice mail? Wild...

[-] QualifiedKitten@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

I tried many years ago and couldn't figure it out. I've been hoping it will eventually fill up one day so people just can't leave messages anymore, but as I type that out, I realize that's probably highly unlikely to ever happen.

[-] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 months ago

My voicemail box is full because I don’t have the heart to clear it, I have a bunch of old messages from my father who passed

[-] LemmyFeed@lemmy.world 4 points 6 months ago

You should try to get those saved somewhere else, they won't last forever in voicemail and you could lose them.

I wish I had saved some of my father's messages 😔

[-] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 months ago

It’s been like 13 years so either they are there or they’re gone. I can’t bring myself to listen to them, it’s too sad

[-] sexual_tomato@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 6 months ago

Three decades, easily

[-] ptz@dubvee.org 93 points 6 months ago

I'm totally with the hiker on this one, and this illustrates why spam calls are more than just a nuisance.

[-] FundMECFSResearch 42 points 6 months ago

Yep. I’m lost, 2% battery left, I aint answering a call from an unknown number. Imagining dying of thirst having wasted your last battery on a telemarketing call.

[-] ptz@dubvee.org 21 points 6 months ago
[-] CuddlyCassowary@lemmy.world 89 points 6 months ago

Why didn’t they text? Cultural norms aside, texts usually go through more easily than calls in spotty areas. But yeah, I’ll take hypothermia and exposure over answering an unknown number any day.

[-] half_fiction@lemmy.dbzer0.com 30 points 6 months ago
[-] CuddlyCassowary@lemmy.world 12 points 6 months ago

If you want to be rescued sub to my OnlyFans site.

[-] danc4498@lemmy.world 5 points 6 months ago

Click this link to claim your unclaimed property and get rescued.

[-] mipadaitu@lemmy.world 7 points 6 months ago

Modern search and rescue tools actually do send a text with a link to ping your exact location. The text is intended to be customized to the situation so they know it is legit.

Clark, your mother Martha is worried about you. You are not in trouble. Please contact Metropolis PD to let us know you are safe, or click this link to share your location so we can come get you.

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 7 points 6 months ago

I know this trick, it's a virus

[-] CuddlyCassowary@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

Nice try hungry bear.

[-] Canonical_Warlock@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 months ago

If I saw that show up on my phone then I would immediately assume that there's a warrant out for my arrest. That message would be more likely to get me to huck my phone in a stream than click the link.

[-] mipadaitu@lemmy.world 4 points 6 months ago

That's your prerogative. Nobody is making you get saved. It's not illegal to be missing.

At least you know that folks are looking for you and can make a decision based on that info.

But if you were actually injured and/or stuck somewhere, you might be inclined to click that link (or call your mother.)

[-] dickalan@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

I’m calling bullshit. If you were actually waiting to be rescued, you would not be turning down any phone number, you would still be able to communicate with that person that you were lost.

[-] edgemaster72@lemmy.world 47 points 6 months ago

I wouldn't expect rescuers to be calling me (assuming this is legit), so yeah, I probably wouldn't answer either

[-] srecko@lemm.ee 8 points 6 months ago

Cmon, of course they would. They use every tool available and the phone is right there.

[-] Mac@mander.xyz 32 points 6 months ago

"every tool available" okay text me then

[-] edgemaster72@lemmy.world 10 points 6 months ago

Well then since they presumably got the missing person's number from someone that knows them and knows they were missing, maybe they should've called from that person's phone

[-] nmarus@lemmy.ml 37 points 6 months ago

In this day and age, people should learn how to text. That guy almost had to have an awkward voice conversation. 😳

[-] BorgDrone@lemmy.one 26 points 6 months ago

Weird story. If they needed rescuing and had cell coverage why would they need to wait for an incoming call?

[-] int_not_found@feddit.org 30 points 6 months ago

Iirc He wasn't lost. Somebody told the authorities, that the guy was missing and that he wanted to go on a hike. So they called him to see if he really was lost. He didn't answer the call, so they presumed he was injured or lost his phone. With this information they declared him lost and started a search.

[-] ikidd@lemmy.world 35 points 6 months ago

Then this is perfectly normal. Why would I answer a phone number I don't recognize when I'm out enjoying solitude? I imagine it was on DND and he never even saw the call.

What a weird article.

[-] int_not_found@feddit.org 17 points 6 months ago

I looked up a full article.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2021/oct/26/hiker-lost-on-us-mountain-ignored-calls-from-rescuers-because-he-didnt-recognise-the-number

He did lose his trail, but wasn't at the point where he wanted to call for help. It looks like he wasn't aware that, if a lodge host at popular hiking spots asks about your plans for the day, it isn't just small talk.

[-] Crashumbc@lemmy.world 10 points 6 months ago

It was put out by "bigspam" to encourage you to answer their calls!!!

/s

[-] RangerJosey@lemmy.ml 23 points 6 months ago
[-] werefreeatlast@lemmy.world 20 points 6 months ago

....Dear Trevon, we've been trying to reach you about your car insurance..

[-] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 18 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I will pay extra and tip the rescuers if they txt me.

[-] Renorc@lemmy.world 11 points 6 months ago

So a guy is lost and has phone service? Why didn’t he just call out for help? Never mind the whole issue of not answering unknown numbers. He had service and didn’t use his phone? This whole story is BS.

[-] lseif@sopuli.xyz 4 points 6 months ago

90% of missing hikers get lost in serviced areas.

[-] ByteJunk@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

Pure curiosity , I wonder how many of those are capable of making a call when they need help?

It's great to have service at the bottom of a ravine, but if I cracked my skull falling there, it's quite a misleading stat

[-] tlou3please@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I sometimes go solo wild camping and I've had a few moments where I've thought "shit, I'm actually in trouble here". My country is small so even in the wilderness you can usually get signal of some sort. But I never called for help, due to a mixture of embarrassment and not wanting to waste time and resources for a problem I created myself. Not including the countless times I've simply gotten lost.

I always got out fine by myself in the end, but I can totally see how people end up in some pretty bad situations or maybe even dying without calling for help.

[-] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 7 points 6 months ago

I mean, did they leave a voicemail?

[-] DrSleepless@lemmy.world 4 points 6 months ago
[-] Slovene@feddit.nl 2 points 6 months ago

Is that why Julian Sands died? ☹️

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