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Marcus, from Tottenham, North London, had been enjoying a holiday with his parents when he met a fellow Brit at the same hotel. A holiday fling sparked and the pair spent time together until the girl, also from London, flew back to Britain.

In Dubai, if an adult has a sexual relationship with a person under 18, they can be prosecuted for having a sexual relationship with a minor. The relationship would be legal in the UK.

Marcus and his parents were set to fly back shortly after - but their plans were thrown into chaos when police knocked on their hotel room door. The "terrified" teenager was then reportedly hauled in for questioning without any explanation and held at the Al Barsha Police Station, DID said. He spent three days there, during which time he was not allowed to make a phone call or speak with his parents, it is claimed.

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[-] BetaBlake@lemmy.world 273 points 1 month ago

You Europeans really gotta stop vacationing in fucking Dubai, there are way cooler places to fly to.

[-] RubberElectrons@lemmy.world 52 points 1 month ago

100%, I hated every minute of my layover wandering that shit-quality SimCity attempt, the bubble popped real fast once I talked to some locals.

I can't wait for the sand to bury that cruel slave labor shitberg.

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[-] JasminIstMuede 268 points 1 month ago

I will never understand why this place is idolized by so many people...

[-] someguy3@lemmy.world 126 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Or why you'd even vacation there. How tf did they convince people to vacation in a desert?

[-] kautau@lemmy.world 34 points 1 month ago

FOMO. makes it seem exclusive. For whatever reason at least 50% of humans are just wired to want to feel better than everyone else. The actual experience itself doesn't matter as long as they can brag about it knowing that others weren't able to achieve it. Dubai literally has ice shipped in from melting glaciers so that rich people can put it into their drink https://arcticice.ae/

Seriously, it’s like worse Vegas, and I don’t like Vegas at all

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[-] mayhair@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 1 month ago

A bit of an unwarranted answer, but many richer Pakistanis go there to buy stuff that isn't easily available back home. Hence, they become cash cows for the ginormous malls over there (seriously. If you think American malls are big, you haven't been to Dubai). It's basically the closest foreign city we have direct flights to, due to our sanctions and all with India. For example, I got my Nintendo 3DS, and later the phone that I'm currently using (Samsung Galaxy S21 Ultra), from malls in Dubai.

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[-] Sakychu 50 points 1 month ago

If you are talking about social media it is likely that they aren't allowed to post something negative about the country or else you can be fined. If you are working as an influncer in Dubai you'll need to obtain an license which regulates what you can post but you basically pay no income taxes

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[-] sensiblepuffin@lemmy.world 25 points 1 month ago

For the Middle East, it's relatively progressive, from what I understand. That being said, that's a low low bar.

[-] Nanook@lemm.ee 34 points 1 month ago

I first thought you wrote “from the Middle East” yeah no. Dubai is Saudi Arabia with better PR.

[-] Nollij@sopuli.xyz 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

They have a pretty open love for western money. If you have the funds ($$$$$$$$), you can do pretty much whatever you want.

But if you aren't extremely wealthy, you get to experience the oppressive true nature of the place.

Guess which group goes to Dubai and tells people about their experiences.

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[-] Phoenicianpirate@lemm.ee 135 points 1 month ago

Fuck Dubai.

Signed me, who grew up there.

[-] klemptor@startrek.website 11 points 1 month ago

Man I'd be interested to hear about that. Any interesting insights?

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[-] beansbeansbeans@lemmy.world 118 points 1 month ago

Dubai is a terrible place. People need to stop going there.

[-] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 30 points 1 month ago

I even worry about transiting places like this.

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[-] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 83 points 1 month ago

Hard to feel sorry about anyone travelling to Dubai.

[-] raspberriesareyummy@lemmy.world 26 points 1 month ago

Correct for adults, but this was the kid travelling with his parents. It's likely that the decision was the parents' - also, most kids are not very well-versed in politics.

[-] victorz@lemmy.world 15 points 1 month ago

You don't have to be rich to travel there. My brothers and their mother traveled there, not rich by any means. I'm probably more well off, but I haven't been there. 🤷‍♂️

But maybe that wasn't your point? Sorry if I assumed incorrectly!

[-] Jumi@lemmy.world 29 points 1 month ago

They meant traveling to a pseudo-religious dictatorship

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[-] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 month ago

I think you're right, but also it says something about the personality too. I know great, respectable people in their own way who have gone there, but in general I agree with the vibe that it's for "rich people who don't care about inequality"

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[-] Nollij@sopuli.xyz 61 points 1 month ago

I'm curious how the authorities were even aware of this occurring. The article says they were on holiday, so it's not like there was much time. How did anyone notice their ages? Was it just fishing for a charge because of unrelated reasons?

[-] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 86 points 1 month ago

Either

  1. They're always watching. I'm in tech and was taught in my security training - when traveling to countries with extremely strong surveillance, assume you are bugged. Family could be high valued and they wanted something from the parents. Probably a bit too tinfoil hat.

  2. Vengeance girl's parents could be assholes/racist. As a dude, Ive had my share of "mommy & daddy doesn't like me for taking their precious flower". Multiplier in effect if they have a problem that I'm a PoC.

[-] Dashmezzo@lemm.ee 47 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It was the mother of the girl. She got back to the UK found out about the boy and contacted the Dubai authorities. Apparently the girl was days off her 18th birthday too. It was in the news report when he was originally arrested.

Wrecked a young man’s life for some bullshit reason.

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[-] TexasDrunk@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago

I think either of those are super plausible. There will be people where they stayed who are happy to snitch, no bugs required. On top of that, the UAE has one of the highest concentration of surveillance cameras in the world. Like 30,000 in Dubai. Throw in some facial recognition cross referenced with the list of folks on vacation or on business in the city and it's real easy to find out who is spending time together, what their ages are, and what their kids will look like.

The second one happens all the time. Happened to me when I turned 18 before my then girlfriend. Her mom threatened me with jail and all kinds of shit even though it was perfectly legal and we were only a couple of months apart. She just didn't like me or the fact that I was dating her daughter. Would have probably been worse if I had been a PoC.

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[-] pandapoo@sh.itjust.works 32 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Did you read the article?

The girls mother reported him to the Dubai police.

Hopefully her identity is revealed to the public and she faces some consequences for her actions. Maybe it's already been leaked or released elsewhere, but it wasn't in that article.

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[-] atro_city@fedia.io 44 points 1 month ago

I won't say I'll never go to Dubai, but I will say I'll do my best to never end up there.

[-] theacharnian@lemmy.ca 23 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I wonder if there is a law in the UK that would allow the parents of the boy to sue the mother of the girl for snitching. Like, she weaponized the laws of another country that criminalize behaviours that are legal in the UK, for things that happened between UK citizens abroad. That sounds like something UK legislators might have the power and incentive to legislate, right?

Also, I would not fault the girl if she hated her horrible mother for the rest of her life.

[-] HowManyNimons@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago

£20 says she's white and racist.

[-] Cyyris@infosec.pub 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

As I'm reading this story I keep wondering...
How in the hell did the authorities even catch wind of this even happening?
Did someone report them?
Are all the rooms tapped and monitored Stasi-style?

[-] Dashmezzo@lemm.ee 15 points 1 month ago

Mother of girl reported him after they had left and he was still there.

[-] Idontevenknowanymore@mander.xyz 10 points 1 month ago

Teenagers in love are hardly subtle. Staff probably reported them.

[-] Aatube@kbin.melroy.org 10 points 1 month ago

Well, did you read it?

After returning to the UK and seeing pictures and chats, the girl’s mother reported the relationship to Dubai police, who then arrested Mr Fakana at his hotel, it is alleged.

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[-] nifty@lemmy.world 15 points 1 month ago

The comments in this thread are practically Islamophobic and naive.

When you travel to another country, just abide by its culture and customs.

Like you cant go to India and disrespect cows, or now eat beef in public.

The comments are also naive because they show how unaware the commenters are about what actually goes on in rich countries and events for affluent people.

[-] Makhno@lemmy.world 34 points 1 month ago

Uh yeah fuck Islam. Fuck the Judaism and Christianity too. See? Easy.

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[-] raspberriesareyummy@lemmy.world 23 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

When you travel to another country, just abide by its culture and customs.

WDYM? The prophet "married" a ~~13~~ 9 year old.

Edit: It's even worse.

[-] Tangent5280@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

Islamophobic? Nah. Naive, hell yeah. You should watch what you do like a hawk when you're going to places like Dubai. Have a good understanding of what is legal and what isn't, like eating outside during Ramadan - this can get you actual jailtime instead of a fine or a slap on the wrist like you'd expect.

[-] raspberriesareyummy@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

Dubai is a shithole full of rich assholes and their slave workers and influencers who are paid to paint it in pink online.

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[-] sheepy@lemm.ee 10 points 1 month ago

I really hope y'all ain't defending his actions. The age of consent is the age of consent. That he couldn't keep it in his pants is on him. It doesn't matter what the AoC in UK is when you're in another country.

The law not having a provision for such a situation is a completely separate issue. To criticise that is valid. It still doesn't give him an excuse to break it.

[-] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 53 points 1 month ago

The age difference is less than a year are you fucking insane, legality is not morality and we should always push back against unjust laws

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[-] ArtieShaw@fedia.io 36 points 1 month ago

The kid is 18. Were y'all assuming he was older for some reason?

[-] Uranium_Green@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 month ago

It creates an few different odd possibilities though, in the UK you can be married before 18, let's say an 18 year old wife and her 17 year old husband went on their honeymoon to Dubai, would they legally be allowed to consummate their marriage?

Would Dubai recognise their marriage?

[-] atzanteol@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 month ago

Simply don't visit Dubai then. Because "no".

[-] KoalaUnknown@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago

I too read every law of a foreign country before I visit them. /s

[-] ech@lemm.ee 14 points 1 month ago

This arrest is shitty and the comment above you is stupid, but you should absolutely be aware of the laws of wherever you go. Being a visitor somewhere doesn't bestow the right to ignore the law.

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