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[-] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 65 points 2 weeks ago

The people pointing out the women killed by bears vs men stats a few months ago need to understand this as well lol

Like I am fine if you want to meme or dunk on men but once you bring bad stats into it that’s when I get serious.

[-] Vanth@reddthat.com 49 points 2 weeks ago

The first time I saw the man or bear question, I assumed it was a setup for victim blaming. Neither choice is going to be a win for the woman.

Based on experiences, she doesn't trust men so she picks bear? How dare she judge all men. So illogical!

Or she picks man? Then she should be prepared for an inevitable assault because eventually the man in the woods will be one of the bad ones and she should have known. She should have been more careful or just stayed home!

The whole thing was never a maths question. It was a rage bait question to rile up men who hate women and to give women an unwinnable binary choice. The only "winning" answer is to decline to play this stupid game.

[-] nondescripthandle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

The new women in mens fields trend is the same thing. Its there to agravate people by doing the thing people claim to hate just to a different group. Equality does not mean every one gets a turn at being the opresser and I can see why young people start to consider themself anti feminists if these two trends are the most interaction you've ever done with feminism. Which is likely since I don't really see any other big social media movements for it.

Maybe its not my place to critisize the way they choose to operate but all im saying is if you told me both of those trends were Russian plots to stoke anger at feminists I'd believe you easily.

[-] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 9 points 2 weeks ago

I assume that part of the intent with these type of scenarios is to draw attention to toxic masculinity by baiting out toxic responses, which is fine and obviously it's effective if that is the intent. However, any attempt to respectfully disagree with the premise was also treated as toxicity and that just made me not want to engage with feminists or the discourse at all, which seems counter-productive.

[-] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 7 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

All good points I hadn’t considered! However, some people did try to turn it into a math problem which I had to object to at that point, since they were doing it wrong.

[-] Atelopus-zeteki@fedia.io 2 points 2 weeks ago
[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

Appreciate the link, but damn is that low-effort surrealism

[-] nednobbins@lemm.ee 1 points 2 weeks ago

Tell me you're old without telling me you're old :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpmGXeAtWUw

[-] yesman@lemmy.world 26 points 2 weeks ago

It's obtuse to treat the bear metaphor as a math problem. It's doubly so to correct the work.

[-] pachrist@lemmy.world 15 points 2 weeks ago

But would you rather be alone in the woods with a statistician or a bear?

[-] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 weeks ago

Men kill more women than bears even adjusted per encounter.

[-] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 25 points 2 weeks ago

I'm not here to argue about the bear metaphor, but this claim seems spurious at best. Even if there's only 1 fatal bear encounter per 10 years, the number of bear encounters is so low that I don't think this statistic can possibly be true. Do you have anything to back up your claim, or is this just a gut feeling sort of thing?

[-] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago
[-] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

This seems to be comparing percent of women who've been attacked by a bear to the percent of women who've been attacked by a man, which... I mean, I guess? But a more fair statistic would be comparing the percentage of bear encounters that result in an attack to the percentage of man encounters that result in an attack. This is also comparing fatal bear attacks to non-fatal man attacks. Not to mention, their conclusion that a woman is safer in a forest with 260 bears than with one man assumes that the man is with them, and the bears just exist somewhere in the forest and may never see nor even be aware of them.

I agree with the conclusion that a woman has a greater chance of being victimized by a man than by a bear, but this whole argument just feels like it's designed to not stand up to critical analysis with the intent of labeling whoever tries to call it into question a misogynist, though, and I'm not going to get into all of that again.

[-] EldritchFeminity 5 points 2 weeks ago

The entire question itself I don't think was ever meant to hold up to any analysis. It's more about making a statement on how threatened women feel in public. Bear attacks are rare while women are acutely aware of how dangerous being out in public feels. Roughly 20% will be sexually assaulted at least once, half of them before the age of 18, and that number jumps up to somewhere around 40% for trans women specifically, but the stats don't account for the cultural pressure that's exerted on every other woman outside of the victims by things like victim blaming and the way that men act in regards to women and their bodies. A simple look at current American politics is a perfect example of why women would "choose the bear."

The whole thing kind of reminds me of the question about the walrus and the fairy that went around Tumblr earlier this year. It doesn't matter what the stats say about the likelihood of a fairy being the one knocking at your door. More people would be surprised to find the walrus on their doorstep because at least with a fairy, you just have to accept that magic exists and not figure out how the walrus got there or learned how to knock on your door.

[-] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 4 points 2 weeks ago

Sure, and that's fine - but if that's the case, why do we get long-winded explanations with stats and math like the one linked to earlier? Maybe not everyone got the memo that it wasn't supposed to hold up to scrutiny, but when someone writes something like that, apparently with the intention of it looking like an actual statistical analysis of an actual situation, they're opening themself up to analysis and criticism.

[-] EldritchFeminity 4 points 2 weeks ago

Honestly, I think you're spot on that not everyone got the memo. It feels to me like a game of telephone where people argued against women choosing the bear with logic and statistics, and then people came along to defend the original group using post hoc logic and statistics to justify choosing the bear. And both groups completely lost the context along the way that it's not about the statistical chance of being mauled by a bear vs a man, but about the 20% of women who will be sexually assaulted in their life and the culture that perpetuates and supports these conditions.

[-] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 1 points 1 week ago

I think that was inherently my problem with the whole thing. It may have had good intentions originally - using metaphor to draw attention to a problem in a way that might have gotten through to people who don't understand or reject more straight-forward discussion - and that's great when it works, but because of the absurdity of the premise, it ended up being a magnet for scrutiny and objections. As a result, there were three main kind of responses:

  • Accepting the premise at face value, and agreeing that a woman should choose the bear.
  • Objecting to the premise, because it is patently ridiculous if taken at face value.
  • Objecting to the underlying message.

Group 3 were the truly toxic responses, and they did a good job at highlighting the underlying message (or perhaps at highlighting a specific kind of person, who will just object to anything a woman says no matter what, or who refuses to believe that women are justified in their fear of men, or who are incels, or whatever else), but they, and the responses to them, kind of took over the entirety of the discourse surrounding it... it became about those people objecting and others objecting to their objections. At that point, it felt like the whole point was to shine a spotlight on toxic individuals, and the real message was lost to that.

[-] usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 weeks ago

That was an interesting read but it's not the math per encounter. They strangely used lifetime stats and ignored number of encounters so it doesn't answer that question.

Some of the other commenters who point out flaws in the math seem to get their comments deleted or downvoted so that doesn't help. It's a controversial topic which makes it really hard to just crunch numbers without being accused of picking a side or trying to skew the results.

Coming up with the stat that 10% of men will commit a rape in their lifetimes is wild though, and super sad if true.

[-] psud@aussie.zone 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The person doing the analysis also takes a statistic about intimate partner rape including where the woman believes actual rape happened and where the woman felt like he might have tried to, then immediately casts it as actual rapes against strangers by serial street rapists.

It's not in the least credible

[-] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

Do they? That’s hard to believe but if they did the stats right then feel free to share. How do you even measure the number of encounters?

[-] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 weeks ago

Unfortunately, Steve's data is wholly anecdotal. He's killed 8 of the 10 women he's ever met, see..

[-] NaibofTabr@infosec.pub 7 points 2 weeks ago

Wait why are we killing bears?

[-] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 weeks ago

Fits of jealousy.

[-] rebelsimile@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

yeah I think the way I always read that question was in the hundred duck sized horses vs one horse-sized duck sense. The average woman passes by, say, in public, hundreds of men per day in a city, right? I read that question (and the implication) that they’d prefer from a safety standpoint if each one of them was a bear, which is more of a video game premise than a situation anyone would survive.

[-] pruwybn@discuss.tchncs.de 27 points 2 weeks ago
[-] MonkderVierte@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 weeks ago

Important to note here that you should not stand on an open field (being the highest point) or below a tree (high point that might drop wood) during a thunderstorm.

[-] kittenzrulz123 20 points 2 weeks ago

"More people get bitten by New Yorkers than sharks"

Who lives around sharks all the time?

[-] psud@aussie.zone 2 points 1 week ago

I feel I'm not in that venn diagram, living in Australia hundreds of kilometres from the sea

Though I have visited New York, and wasn't bitten there, and as a kid I lived near a beach and spent summer in the Pacific and haven't been bit by any sea animals either

[-] son_named_bort@lemmy.world 19 points 2 weeks ago

I mean, coyotes can't catch roadrunners despite having access to unlimited Acme products. They're no match for humans.

[-] Piemanding@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 weeks ago

Sucks that the movie that was finished about the coyote fighting Acme in court for all their failing products got scrapped for tax purposes.

[-] Couldbealeotard@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Please quit with this tax write off misinformation.

They cut their losses. We don't know the details why, but for some reason they decided it would cost too much in money or reputation to continue with marketing and release.

Not everything is a billionaire conspiracy. Sometimes they just realise they made a film too shit to release, or some person in a suit just wanted to spite someone.

[-] Piemanding@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Never said it was a write off. The video I watched on it did say that someone who worked on the film said it was for tax reasons. It's a single source that might be incorrect, though.

Edit: Here's the video I watched on it. Says right on the title that it was for tax purposes and I don't think an attorney would get that part incorrect.

[-] booly@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago

There's no legitimate reason to intentionally take losses (or refuse to take revenue) for tax reasons, though.

If you lose $1000 and get a tax benefit worth $200 on those losses, it's still a net loss of $800, so you should rather get at least some money back. Getting $500 back might mean that you lose $500 and then get $100 back in tax benefits, so that your net loss is $400 instead. That's an improvement over losing $800, so it's worth doing.

More likely, the contracts around the movie had them needing to pay rightsholders, actors/writers/directors, and producers based on certain formulas on the gross revenue, or would be contractually obligated to spend a minimum on marketing and promotion if there was going to be a release, etc.

Taxes just alleviate the degree of losses (or reduce the amount of profit), which can change behavior around risk taking, but it wouldn't make sense to abandon a finished movie solely for tax reasons.

[-] rothaine@beehaw.org 18 points 2 weeks ago

Most car accidents happen within a mile from home

...because that's where you're driving most often

[-] GiveMemes@jlai.lu 3 points 2 weeks ago

I can beat this. My first accident was less than 50 ft from the property line of my father's house. Somebody pulled out from the stopsign on the corner of our property without looking :( (rip mercury mariner I still miss you)

[-] dragonfucker@lemmy.nz 3 points 2 weeks ago

90% of fatal accidents occur in the northern hemisphere

[-] FauxPseudo@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

Cow's outnumber people on my block. But there are fences between them and us. However geese outnumber people in my yard.
I have added goose wrestling to my resume.

[-] marcos@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

If vending machines ejected their beverage as vigorously as coconut trees, people wouldn't put them on the same category on those statistics.

[-] limelight79@lemm.ee 8 points 2 weeks ago

Well there was that one time the vending machine decided to attack, but in general, it's a human causing it to fall over.

[-] affiliate@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

sometimes humans cause me to fall over, but you don’t see me going around killing people

[-] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Getting an error message and a tiny thumbnail.

edit =finally appeared. My life's dreams are fulfilled and joy reigns in the land.

[-] hanke@feddit.nu 8 points 2 weeks ago

At least it didn't kill ya

[-] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 2 points 2 weeks ago

It came up this time. It's a good post and I'm glad I waited.

[-] Atelopus-zeteki@fedia.io 6 points 2 weeks ago

Having grown up around coconut trees, and gravity, I've long been aware that it's foolish shake that tree if you don't want to loose the fruit it holds over your head.

[-] technocrit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 week ago

Realistically it's carnists that murder the most animals by any statistic.

[-] CheeseNoodle@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Nah that'd be other animals, if you just count large mammals then yeh humans probably beat out everything else combined but predators of rodents, small sea creatures and insects almost certainly outdo us by orders of magnitude.

[-] AeonFelis@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago
[-] cliffracerflyyy@lemm.ee 2 points 2 weeks ago

It's hard to put into words how stupid that original take about coyotes in a corral even dares to be.

[-] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 1 points 1 week ago

Agadoo intensifies

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