I'm a big fan of hot drinks during the holidays. Hot toddies and mulled wine are both good, but my favorite is mulled apple cider with bourbon.

I use a couple cinnamon sticks, cloves, allspice, and nutmeg, thrown in a pot with about a 1/2 gallon of cider and heated without boiling for about an hour. Served in a mug with 1-2 oz of bourbon or other whiskey and garnished with apple and/or orange slices, plus half a cinnamon stick if you're feeling fancy!

Gløgg is the go-to Christmas drink in my country. Not exactly a cocktail, but I figured I'd mention it, since you talked about previously making eggnog.

Here's one of my own (its a minor variation on this; https://youtu.be/nEQjcLZ-DaE?si=Ug4CMykM_RDjPdTa)

I call my variation a Northern Soul.

• 1.5oz rye whisky (I reccomend the Crown Royal Northern Harvest Rye)
• 0.5oz Cointreau
• 0.25oz Maple Syrup
• 1oz Half and Half Cream

Shake over ice, strain into a chilled coupe. Dust the top with burnt cinammon (take a pinch of cinammon between your fingers, sprinkle it through the flame of a blowtorch and onto the surface of the drink. You can also use a match or taper as long as you're careful not to get ash in the drink, and this can be done in front of the guest for added showmanship). Optionally, express an orange peel and rub it on the rim, to really amp up those orange notes.

This gives you the Christmassy feel of ice cream and cinammon, but without the heaviness of egg nog. The half and half sounds like a lot, but with the dilution from the ice it becomes more like drinking chilled milk, and orange brightens up the taste and keeps it from being over bearingly sweet. Well, in my opinion anyway, but obviously I'm biased.

A hot toddy is a good winter drink, there are various recipes but the main thrust is whisky, honey, hot water and winter spices. Maybe some lemon and herbs.

Snowballs are popular for some reason, advocaat and sparkling lemonade. Probably no good if you don't like nog.

The white russian is probably a good move if you want something rich but don't like eggnog.

There are all kinds of punch suitable for winter, sloe gin (even if you don't like gin, sloe gin is a different beast) is a good move, other hedgerow fruits, cider and or a sweet, fruity red wine.

Mulled wine is always a good move for large groups.

My bf makes these for his family during Christmas.

https://ournourishingtable.com/festive-cranberry-rosemary-cocktail/

It translates into a batch cocktail very well and if you're willing to put in the effort to garnish as shown, it's a really quite pretty glass.

I do make fancy cocktails for Thanksgiving but Christmas is more wine or bourbon here.

Strongly agree with coquito, yum. Cranberry stuff seems Christmasy, my mom used to make (besides the wassail) a sparkling cranberry vodka punch. It's funny I never really thought of her as a cook, or much of a drinker but she did make punch or sangria for holidays.

Tepache is also a nice Christmas drink, pineapple cinnamon.

Whiskey and amaretto, strong but that seems a nice holiday flavor, a Godfather or similar might be a good one to pop in the freezer.

If you like egg nog and want to try something kind of similar, try Coquito. It's spiced coconut cream and rum. It's got a similar texture without any eggs and a lot of those holiday spices. Here's a recipe. It can be batched up and stored for a week or two in the fridge.

The other one I like is Amaro Caldo. It's just hot water and your favorite amaro. I prefer to use tea instead of plain water. A black tea plus an ounce or two of Montenegro is really tasty.

Midwest holiday staple: https://midwestniceblog.com/brandy-slush-recipe-wisconsin/

It sounds weird, but I promise it's great.