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For me, it was that the Internet never forgets and that you should never enter your real name. In my opinion, both of these rules are now completely ignored.

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[-] a_baby_duck@lemmy.world 7 points 2 hours ago

Read -> Comprehend -> Post

[-] AAA@feddit.org 13 points 2 hours ago

The same people who warned us about the dangers of the internet and not to believe everything, are now the ones readily falling for and spreading conspiracies and lies from social media.

It's tragic.

[-] Lennnny@lemmy.world 15 points 10 hours ago

Don't meet people from online.

[-] distortwave@lemmy.ml 44 points 19 hours ago

Don't share your personal information online.

Yeah that's definitely not being followed anymore.

[-] HurlingDurling@lemmy.world 13 points 18 hours ago

A/S/L should be replied when you join a chat room

[-] Default_Defect@midwest.social 3 points 9 hours ago
[-] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 44 points 22 hours ago

Don't give your credit card details over the internet.

Nowadays people have them saved in their damn browser for convenience.

[-] danafest@lemm.ee 8 points 18 hours ago

Credit card usually isn't so bad. It's usually pretty easy to dispute charges etc, debit card on the other hand...no way that's getting saved

[-] humblebun@sh.itjust.works 1 points 8 hours ago

Have you had any experience with that? I keep hearing it, but usage of a credit card is expensive af

[-] winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 4 hours ago

It's only expensive if you don't pay it in full every month. I've had my credit card for years and have paid $0.00 total for it whilst it generates at least 1% cash back or more depending on where used. Not much, but it adds up and makes it beneficial.

[-] 31337@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 hours ago

I have. My bank did a chargeback like they would if it was a credit card. I was told it would've been a lot harder to get my money back if my PIN was used. But, I've only seen that option available for in-person purchaees.

[-] KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml 51 points 23 hours ago

"Don't believe everything you read on the internet." -Abraham Lincoln

Social media, a gorilla getting shot, two US elections, and GenAI later, we have completely fallen off this one simple rule.

[-] NostraDavid@programming.dev 15 points 22 hours ago

The amount of boomer bait on Facebook is staggering. The amount of Boomers falling for obviously AI-generated shite even moreso.

[-] penguinsAreRapists@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago

The amount of millennials falling for boomer bait is also staggering

[-] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 3 points 8 hours ago

I personally have the opposite issue. Things often sound way too much like satire these days when they get referenced or pop up in memes, then I find a reputable article talking about it. Everything sounds like !nottheonion@lemmy.world

[-] Zorsith 34 points 1 day ago

Basic forum etiquette. It's horrifying at work seeing teams "teams" (forums) used like chats, all the cross-posting and thread necromancy, people completely unable to keep topics confined to the appropriate sub-forum, etc

[-] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 42 points 1 day ago

You should use the Internet to get info out of it, not put your info there. If you do want to put info, it should never be traceable to you.

I just don’t get why people want so much of their life online…

[-] RaoulDook@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

It went from "don't post pictures of yourself or your real name online because you might get strangers' attention" to everyone trying to be their own version of a Max Headroom talking head to try to get the attention of all the strangers. Selfies, video selfies, talking head videos, reaction videos... all garbage.

[-] ace_garp@lemmy.world 8 points 19 hours ago

The rules for abbreviations.

IIRC YMMV bc IANAL

Netspeak fluency has generally given way to textspeak.

[-] nairui@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

If I recall correctly your mileage may vary because I anal?

[-] targetx@programming.dev 6 points 8 hours ago

It means "I am not a lawyer", usually at least ;-)

[-] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.ml 27 points 1 day ago

Don't talk to strangers.

Searching things is easy so don't post something without checking it. People now don't make the slightest effort to verify a rumor or conspiracy crap.

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[-] Didros@beehaw.org 28 points 1 day ago

I learned as a kid playing star craft that there are noobs and newbs. Newbs are people new to a game who need help learning. And a noob is someone who has played for a while and refuses to learn and would rather troll.

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[-] Jordan117@lemmy.world 85 points 1 day ago

When you share something cool, link back to the original creator or where you found it from.

[-] hightrix@lemmy.world 13 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

I’d argue this is the opposite of what was asked.

In the early days, no one would post sources or attribute “stuff” to anyone. We’d all just share what we thought were cool pictures.

Now, everyone gets mad when you dont post the name of the artist and their socials.

[-] Jordan117@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago

This might be more of a blogosphere-era thing I guess. Even when most people blogging did it for pleasure rather than work, it was always considered polite to "hat tip" (h/t) the source of a given link, if you happened to find it on someone else's site.

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[-] 58008@lemmy.world 25 points 1 day ago

As in real life, it's pretty sound advice to ignore, block or otherwise disengage from trolls and other forms of belligerents. Even in the '90s when I first started using the internet, the phrase of the day was "don't feed the trolls". But people just can't help themselves. They will even reply saying "I know you're a troll, but...".

The Steam forums are a great example, where every other thread is a fake "is this game woke??" screed. The fact that you can be rewarded for being a cunt there with jesters (which translate into points that can be spent to buy profile items) just makes it a thousand times worse. You get 'paid' to be a troll on Steam. It's insanity.

The only anti-troll weapon that works or is needed is oblivion. Let their steaming turd of a post curdle in solitude. Don't even downvote it. Being downvoted is a victory for them, an acknowledgement that they exist and that they've gotten your attention and that they've annoyed you. Shadowban them from your mind. Block them so that no future posts of theirs will infect your screen. Report them so mods can remove/ban them. Just don't engage directly with the post or the user. Don't say "blocked and reported" in the troll's thread/post. Just do it silently.

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[-] tias@discuss.tchncs.de 47 points 1 day ago
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[-] Stern@lemmy.world 92 points 1 day ago

Don't feed the trolls.

Of course nowadays its nearly impossible to tell whos spouting racial slurs to get folks mad and whos doing it because they're just an asshole.

[-] digdilem@lemmy.ml 5 points 20 hours ago

More recently, this behaviour is known as "driving engagement"

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[-] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 65 points 1 day ago

When reading a long text, disconnect from the internet as soon as it has loaded so you don't pay for the time you spend reading.

[-] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 12 points 23 hours ago

Most of them. Don't believe everything you see, don't give out personal information or real-life pictures... the usual.

[-] Sanctus@lemmy.world 107 points 1 day ago

Dont believe anyone on the internet.

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[-] Anissem@lemmy.ml 103 points 1 day ago

Don’t pick up the phone if someone is online… I’m old

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[-] Pyflixia@kbin.melroy.org 59 points 1 day ago

I'm a faithful follower of never using your real name in social parts of the internet. We don't need to know and we don't want to know. The only ones who would want to know are scammers or people wanting to give you a shitty time. I only use my real name online for people and places in where it's required like talking to agents from my bank, insurance .etc And very few friends know my real name through FB and the circle anyways.

Don't send nudes online to anybody. I know of some communities where people happily are flaunting it one moment then they make a post later whining about them being exploited or that they thought they were crafty hiding the nudes from someone they're married with. They delete it but they're too naive to think that what's already out there, has most likely been saved by hundreds by now, so you're fucked either way.

Another is, is that if you want to be understood, then you need to use proper spelling and grammar. I miss the days when you got kicked at because you used 'u' in replacement of 'you'. It's just two fucking extra letters you lazy asshole. These days saying stupid shit like; 'yah fr u tha fam' is somehow a complete sentence. No, I'm going to give you shit for it and if you want me to bother caring with what you have to say, fucking make some sense. I don't even get offended by insults when they're poorly spelled, it just tells me what kind of an inept moron you are.

[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 1 points 4 hours ago

yah fr u tha fam

The only abbreviations in that are fr and u. Fam is slang for family, not a text only abbreviation. "Tha" is just a transcription of how someone may say "the". Like "da bomb". "Yah" is either a typo of "yeah" or the same as "tha". This feels more like an insult against people transcribing vernacular literally. Are you racist?

[-] BigBootyBoy@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 hours ago

yo u needa chillax bro lol

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[-] MudMan@fedia.io 80 points 1 day ago

Social media killed online aliases and I have a hard time deciding if we're all worse for it.

Instinctively I still stick by that, though, as you can tell by my anonymous profile with no bio, but when I volunteer any amount of personal info these days people are often confused that I'm not sharing openly who I am or where I'm from. Every time someone does that it weirds me out because in the 90s telling (and asking) people those things would have been such a suspicious, sketchy move.

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