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[-] KyuubiNoKitsune 97 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I think that a large majority of trans girls don't have body shapes like that, so the idea kinda falls flat and you end up hating yourself because even after bottom surgery, you still can't pull off that look at all.

Not that I would know anything about that 🤥

Edit: Yes, I get that this is on the extreme side of things, but as I said in another comment, there is a phenotype and often we don't fit into the one we so desperately want to.

I often times hate these trans/hrt memes because of how comedically unrealistic the results they portray are and how shitty they make me feel.

Its a bone of contention for me.

[-] usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca 82 points 2 months ago

a large majority of trans girls don't have body shapes like that

Cis girls too. These are extreme body types (likely a good bit of photo fuckery too)

[-] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago

I at least notice heavy photoshopping on the middle and right one, especially apparent from the front. Yeah, cosplayers often do a lot of photoshopping, especially the erotic ones. Sometimes to a laughable amount, to still get an hourglass-shape while someone's plus sized (which wouldn't be a problem for me, except other men).

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 42 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

A large majority of us born female (female-bodied) also do not have that shape either. In fact even those models probably don't have that shape.

[-] KyuubiNoKitsune 3 points 2 months ago

Sure, not that extreme a shape, but there is a phenotype. I don't have that phenotype, so I go for expensive surgeries to fit into the correct phenotype.

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 76 points 2 months ago

Every time I see or hear the phrase bottom surgery, I imagine going in to get a fatter ass.

[-] JadenSmith@sh.itjust.works 38 points 2 months ago

I had a dream once that a pimp was in charge of alteration surgeries, and trans people walked in and he would go "FO' YOUZ I GIVE MA BOTTOM SURGERY, SHE DA BEST SURGERY, MY MAIN SURGERY" and he was the best doctor in town for it.

[-] nerdy_bisexual_mess 14 points 2 months ago

iirc in college humors Dimension 20, a transmasc character gets top surgery from the sketchy mob surgeon

[-] Excrubulent@slrpnk.net 4 points 2 months ago

I think they've dropped the College Humor name, now they're Dropout.

Which season is that? Is it Fantasy High Senior Year?

[-] nerdy_bisexual_mess 3 points 2 months ago

Unsleeping city season 1

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[-] programmer_belch@lemmy.dbzer0.com 40 points 2 months ago

Spider-man wears something similar, I'm sure a skilled tailor can make your dream come true

[-] NegativeInf@lemmy.world 27 points 2 months ago

Or a latex fetish shop.

[-] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 31 points 2 months ago

What's stopping you?

[-] lud@lemm.ee 12 points 2 months ago

They don't look as good, duh.

[-] felykiosa@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 months ago

Im sorry but Henry cavill look THAT GOOD

[-] lud@lemm.ee 13 points 2 months ago

Ok, but will I or the average person?

This is probably the best I could do

(Yes I know that most probably couldn't pull off a good looking Spider woman either but yeah.

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[-] Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online 30 points 2 months ago

Yes I really want it. I don't really care about wearing these tight looking outfits. I just want to not have these things (my penis and my testicles) hanging between my legs, they're disgusting. HRT has shrank them a lot but I would be much happier if they were completely gone and I had a vagina, or even nothing at all. I'd rather have nothing than have them. I did actually try to cut them off before but I didn't have it in me to get little more than through the surface before backing out from the blood and pain.

[-] RubberElectrons@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago

Wouldn't that potentially cause a lot (a loooot) of blood loss? Genetalia seem to be pretty well circulated, see: what stays warm when cold.

Hope you're doing ok

[-] Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online 11 points 2 months ago

I'm doing better now. That was before I was on HRT that I tried to do away with them myself. I'm feeling better now, less grossed out and uncomfortable because of how much they've shrank. I still wish they were completely gone though.

[-] Korne127@lemmy.world 29 points 2 months ago

You still can :D

[-] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 months ago

🥵

[-] celeste 5 points 2 months ago

Cyclist?

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[-] Cattypat 27 points 2 months ago

one word. tucking. good luck bestie

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 28 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

coward, if people can't handle your glory that just means they're envious.

athletes wear tiny tight pants all the time and no one tells them to tuck

[-] cannibalkitteh 32 points 2 months ago

I tuck because I don't want to look down and see the thing either.

[-] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 months ago

Good point, in that case a "dance belt" may be a good choice. It helps keep your balls from getting stuck on that seam between your legs, provides freedom of movement, and makes the total bulge more prominent (while also smoothing out the actual details).

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 2 months ago

ideally the suit would just actually be designed to contain your artillery

[-] Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online 5 points 2 months ago

Tucking literally isn't enough for me, I feel dysphoria because I have it, not just because other people see it. I still feel it and know its there. It feels gross, it makes me feel gross. I just wish it was gone 😭

[-] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Issue is, it's not just the looks, but also:

people just feel dysphoric about it in general,
some people would like to (primarily) be penetrated, but anal sex is too painful for them,
even then, it needs preparation, unless you're a special kind of pervert that likes the fact, that people poop from there,
genital preferences of others.

[-] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 24 points 2 months ago

You can Photoshop your body just like they did.

[-] smiletolerantly@awful.systems 19 points 2 months ago

Ngl, being able to wear leggins is about 90% of the benefit of SRS for me.

It's been 5 or 6 years, 100% worth it.

Sent from my phone while wearing leggins

[-] yuri@pawb.social 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

whats funny is they genuinely would look better to me if they had realistic proportions, i’m attracted to humans not skeletons w/ass

[-] morphballganon@mtgzone.com 9 points 2 months ago

"This body is unattainable for me personally, thus it is unrealistic on others in media" ok buddy

[-] yuri@pawb.social 3 points 2 months ago

maybe you meant to reply to someone else? i said “i don’t think this is attractive or realistic” not some whack ass shit about my own body goals.

[-] morphballganon@mtgzone.com 4 points 2 months ago

No, I replied to the right person. When you call proportions that exist unrealistic, you are calling the people who have them fake, so you deserved some light ribbing.

[-] desktop_user 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

adjust your standards, acknowledge Rem supremacy.

[-] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 16 points 2 months ago

Try a tucking thong first, it's cheaper

[-] princessnorah 14 points 2 months ago

Gaff is the usual term for these, and yeah that's what I came to the comment section to mention too. If you can't afford one (anyone reading) then Point of Pride has a program to get a free one: https://www.pointofpride.org/free-femme-shapewear