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[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 15 points 2 days ago

Thought this would be a joke about how the titles of AITA posts that sound innocent are typically the ones where OP is the asshole. Like "Can I give someone my old headphones?" Yes, obviously. "Wrapped as a gift," um, that feels a little insensitive. Probably just give them unwrapped and don't say it's part of the gift.

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[-] mortemtyrannis@lemmy.ml 31 points 2 days ago

This green text, like every post on AitA is a work of fiction.

[-] samus12345@lemmy.world 80 points 3 days ago

Yes, he'd be an asshole for giving her them as a birthday present, regardless of the fact that he got her other presents as well. Just ask her if she wants them after he gets his new ones.

[-] SuperSaiyanSwag@lemmy.zip 27 points 3 days ago

This is actually what the consensus was in that post, but the 4channer was blinded by his own assumption of “men bAD, gIRls gOoD” rhetoric

[-] gmtom@lemmy.world 30 points 3 days ago

Lmao I've actually done just that before, swapping the genders of a previous post, and people do say the complete opposite even though it's the same situations.

[-] zloubida@lemmy.world 138 points 3 days ago

Fake, but even if it was true, the problem would have probably been the age change and not the gender change. Teenage relationships and adult relationships have different rules…

[-] Phoenix3875@lemmy.world 84 points 3 days ago

Also, teenagers are poorer, so any gift would carry more weight.

[-] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 38 points 3 days ago

Yeah, I have to assume 18 year old women are on average way, way, way poorer than 40 year old men. That’s true regardless of the gender, 40 tends to be a pretty high spot in personal capital.

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[-] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 36 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

That sub is a circlejerk for white knights and femenists Women are never wrong there.

[-] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago

Also a great place for training bots and gauging responses.

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[-] SuperSaiyanSwag@lemmy.zip 11 points 3 days ago

I’m pretty sure most stories are made up too. They just seem so well written with no grammatical errors or anything.

[-] AlexisFR@jlai.lu 33 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Yeah they just don't act like thus stereotypical over there.

Also, "femoid"?

[-] festnt@sh.itjust.works 14 points 3 days ago

i think femoid might mean a feminist who goes overboard and instead of equality, believes that women should have more rights than men

[-] LarmyOfLone@lemm.ee 42 points 3 days ago

No, it's a term to dehumanize women they don't agree with. Don't be stupid and explain how there are good people on the incel side.

[-] festnt@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

oh ok. thats why i said "i think it might mean etc" and not "it means etc" but thanks for explaining anyway.

also how was that explaining there are good people on the incel side? what does that even mean?

[-] LarmyOfLone@lemm.ee 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Sorry I was a bit aggressive. I was mocking Trump's 'very fine people on both sides' because it felt like an attempt to say there is a justified way to use that term. But they use it just as a general insult for women.

[-] Riven@lemmy.dbzer0.com 41 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

It's just what they call women because women aren't people in their eyes. Classic neckbeard sexist shit.

[-] VerticaGG 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

This.

Pretty much sums up the thread.

[-] festnt@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 days ago

that makes more sense, thx

[-] WILSOOON@programming.dev 34 points 3 days ago

Thank christ i left reddit for lemmy, this place is so muchnicer and better for my mental health.

[-] Dadifer@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

I haven't missed it at all

[-] Tja@programming.dev 5 points 2 days ago

I miss it every day, even tempted to go back. Niche hobbies, local communities, not so niche hobbies...

[-] Dadifer@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Only at the cost of your soul

[-] psud@aussie.zone 3 points 2 days ago

Old Reddit + adblock + visiting a specific subreddit is hardly soul destroying

I wouldn't browse my old Reddit feed, I would visit a few subs that don't have representation here. All hobbies and interests.

[-] Tja@programming.dev 2 points 2 days ago

The admins are evil, but the small communities were quite alright. The bigger ones (soccer, formula1) are good enough to get the news and meme a bit.

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[-] Roflmasterbigpimp@lemmy.world 81 points 3 days ago

AmITheAsshole is 99% rage bait and fan fiction. "Am I the Asshole for letting my wife only sleep with 8 different guys, while cucking myself and paying everything for her? I'm totally unsure if I'm, in this Ludacris Situation in which I'm clearly being abused, being unreasonable.... PLS BE NICE, GIVE ME ATTENTION! PLS PLS PLS PLS PLS PLS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

[-] way_of_UwU@programming.dev 12 points 3 days ago

Hot take: AITA (and even moreso those "Reddit Stories" channels on TikTok and YouTube) is just The Jerry Springer Show for Gen Z.

[-] Clbull@lemmy.world 40 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

This is actually a real post but I cannot find the genderswapped version. Presumably because the duplicate nature was identified and OOP was banned.

[-] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 30 points 3 days ago

Maybe because it sa fake story? Lol

[-] undergroundoverground@lemmy.world 17 points 3 days ago

I does have a certain "and then the whole bus clapped" energy to it.

Good thing they left reddit and went to 4chan where they could get away from ultra thirsty guys acting all kinds of crazy over women.

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[-] match@pawb.social 20 points 3 days ago

I'm gonna go ahead and hope that neither those redditors nor those channers ever find Lemmy

[-] ghen@sh.itjust.works 15 points 3 days ago

The sucky answer is if lemmy gets popular it'll just be Reddit without the ban lists

[-] psud@aussie.zone 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I like that many of the people who should be banned here herd into instances that are defederated

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[-] yegambit@lemmy.world 46 points 3 days ago

I guess it would be nice to have people think equally of men and women, but I don’t think the better way to do it is to create fake stories on 4chan

This guy is full of shit, communities on plebbit start with p/

He's talking about reddit

[-] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 22 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I do think the age changes it. If it's an 18 year old guy asking about his girlfriend, I also would be like, "hey, that may be a bit much. Old ones are fine." cause they're young. The expectations are lower. If it's an adult woman asking this for her husband, I would say to not give it on their birthday. "Hey, here's my old pair. Happy birthday" may be a bit flippant, but saying, "Hey, I got a new pair, want my old one?" doesn't seem like a bad deal.

Also, we didn't see the post. Maybe the other gifts were also bad. Not saying that AITA isn't a dumpster fire. But he changed the factors and didn't give us all the information.

Edit: I just saw the post. He bought her airpods a few years ago and, with how he's talking, it sounds like he got his around the same time. His wife's are glitching and just generally failing, but his used ones are fine. He says she takes care of them as with the rest of her things. He has the option to get free, new pair. Yeah, that is kind of dickish. "Here's my old headphones that could very well be on their way out as well and have been worn for x years. Please enjoy while I get my brand new set that I've openly told you I don't need. Happy birthday."

If this wasn't her birthday, fine. But on the day? That kind of fucked imo

[-] MBM@lemmings.world 42 points 3 days ago

Reddit, well-known for always siding with the woman in the story (?)

[-] tfw_no_toiletpaper@lemmy.world 20 points 3 days ago

Wtf why would anyone (I know, I know, fake story, but hear me out) gift their USED in-ear headphones. I wouldn't touch that thing with a ten-foot pole, regardless if it was "cleaned".

[-] qjkxbmwvz@startrek.website 56 points 3 days ago

An incidental exchange of earwax with your (romantic/sexual/life) partner is


how do I put this?


not particularly noteworthy for a lot of folks...

[-] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 25 points 3 days ago

I'll eat ass, but using your headphones? That's where I draw the line.

[-] Hellstormy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 3 days ago

If you change out the rubber front part, then I would have no problem with it.

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[-] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 14 points 3 days ago

This is not a Reddit thing this is just double standards…

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[-] Clear 22 points 3 days ago

Fake AF, there isn't any post with reverse genders on the subreddit.

[-] NateNate60@lemmy.world 30 points 3 days ago

The AITAH people are nothing if not weirdly observant of what happens on that sub. This would be caught immediately

[-] UnityDevice@startrek.website 16 points 3 days ago

The text is probably made up, but people have done such swap posts several times before and got similarly opposite results. Usually the posts get removed from the sub when someone eventually notices the deception, but you can still read them if you have a link. It's a very toxic sub.

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