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[-] chumbalumber 132 points 4 months ago

"There are two books whose final lines make me cry without fail, irrespective of how many times I read them," Rowling told BBC Radio 4. "One is 'Lolita.'"

(The other one, based on the context of the interview, seems to be "Emma.")

Like many other admirer's of Nabokov's novel of a pedophile who pursues a 12-year-old girl, Rowling loves it for the writing style.

"There just isn't enough time to discuss how a plot that could have been the most worthless pornography becomes, in Nabakov's hands, a great and tragic love story, and I could exhaust my reservoir of superlatives trying to describe the quality of the writing," she said.

Source: https://www.businessinsider.com/jk-rowling-favorite-books-2016-7?op=1#lolitaby-vladimir-nabokov-19

[-] Zagorath@aussie.zone 172 points 4 months ago

Like many other admirer's of Nabokov's novel of a pedophile who pursues a 12-year-old girl, Rowling loves it for the writing style.

Oh ok, fair enough. Not an especially controversial take.

"There just isn't enough time to discuss how a plot…becomes…a great and tragic love story

Oh…oh no…

[-] BitchPeas@lemmy.world 127 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

She missed the whole point. The great writing is what is supposed to make you realize that you can be manipulative by narrative to condone evils. Stupid.

[-] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 27 points 4 months ago

I feel like George R.R. Martin was doing that with incest. Starts out with shocking incest between twins, and then spend a bunch of books getting you used to the idea until you find yourself reluctantly cheering for a dude hooking up with his aunt.

[-] Zagorath@aussie.zone 8 points 4 months ago

cheering for a dude hooking up with his aunt.

Which dude, exactly?

Only one example immediately springs to mind, but that hasn't happened yet in the books. And the way it happened in the show, I'm not sure was executed very well, but I don't think it was really portrayed as a case where we "cheer for a dude". He barely seemed into it, definitely not as much as she was.

[-] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 8 points 4 months ago

I've given up on anything happening in the books ever again.

[-] zloubida@lemmy.world 110 points 4 months ago

It's a great novel, but not a love story.

[-] Ragdoll_X@lemmy.world 84 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Although I haven't read Lolita myself I recently came across a great video explaining how many people misunderstand the book as being some sort of tragic romance. LOLITA: The Worst Masterpiece

It's ironic that one of the most famous and successful writers in the world made this same mistake of trusting and sympathizing with the pedophilic murderer protagonist while claiming that she wants to protect women and children from the evil trans agenda or whatever.

[-] lobut@lemmy.ca 20 points 4 months ago

I haven't read the book either but I heard this Lolita podcast series and it was a great breakdown about how it was misinterpreted. I couldn't believe everything I knew about it from mainstream media was off.

Will definitely be checking out your video!

[-] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Jamie Loftus’ Lolita podcast? She’s AMAZING. I love when she* is a guest on Behind the Bastards too!

[-] Zagorath@aussie.zone 5 points 4 months ago

Jamie being a unisex name, I dunno if "she's amazing" is the typo or "he is a guest" is.

[-] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 4 months ago

Rushed typing, nervous at animal hospital D:

[-] poplargrove@lemmy.world 6 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Hope your critter gets better!

[-] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 4 months ago

Thank you, much love. It’s looking promising. About 2k USD more than our highest expectations though before we took him in @c@

Gonna make a GoFundMe for the first time and share it with my workmates and friends. I feel bad doing it because I feel there’s more important causes, but he’s not even four yet and he’s so important to us… not to mention his twin brother.

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[-] magnetosphere@fedia.io 7 points 4 months ago

I haven’t read the book. I’ve only read about it… but from what I know, I don’t think I’d go with “love story” either. Ick.

[-] Baggie@lemmy.zip 46 points 4 months ago

JFC if good prose is enough to make you okay with pesophilia maybe you weren't that far away from it in the first place

[-] chumbalumber 82 points 4 months ago

pesophilia

love of the Mexican currency.

[-] BeMoreCareful@lemmy.world 26 points 4 months ago

I just think it's neat.

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[-] lone_faerie 34 points 4 months ago

"There just isn't enough time to discuss how a plot that could have been the most worthless pornography becomes, in Nabakov's hands, a great and tragic love story"

But there's plenty of time to discuss the opposite when it comes to trans people, apparently.

[-] abbiistabbii 11 points 4 months ago

Oh my God she said this on BBC Radio 4, which is basically the main, national Radio station in the UK. To put this in context, this is like if Orson Scott Card said he agreed with the Main Character in Points of Origin.

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[-] niktemadur@lemmy.world 105 points 4 months ago

Never ask her anything at all. I mean... who cares? Why do people constantly try to squeeze infotainment from the emotionally ill? It ain't healthy, all around. For anyone.

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 24 points 4 months ago

I mean I'm somewhat interested in how the Wizarding world manages to keep hidden despite all the kids from the muggleworld supposedly having friends and connections and things before Hogwarts.

I mean, which 11-year old wouldn't want to tell their friends they're special? Hmm.. perhaps ones which fear some sort of "witch-hunt" if they out themselves as being different?

How about why don't muggles just address the weird looking wizards who they see on the streets (at least in book 1 chapter 1) and on King's Cross station. I mean, I can always spot a wizard.

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[-] Crow 89 points 4 months ago

Transphobes be like "think of the children", then recommend you a book about a pedophile

[-] Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com 40 points 4 months ago

Tbf, they clearly are thinking about children.

[-] Potatos_are_not_friends@lemmy.world 26 points 4 months ago

Wait, all this time we thought "think of the children" because of security.

But they've been saying like "we wanna bang them".

[-] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 25 points 4 months ago

Which wouldn't be a problem if she didn't call it a tragic love story...

[-] Ibaudia@lemmy.world 82 points 4 months ago

The more you read into the themes of Rowling's work, the more you realize she just has very poor media literacy in general.

[-] idiomaddict@feddit.de 13 points 4 months ago

This is the problem.

When the author of the most widely read children’s books is media illiterate, how are we surprised that critical thinking skills are down?

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[-] uriel238 57 points 4 months ago

So part of the significance of Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov is how our society has responded to it, and for a truly deep dive (that I'm in the process of going through, myself), check out the Lolita Podcast by Jamie Loftus which begins with the story of how Daniel Handler (that is Lemony Snicket) suggested Lolita to Jamie when she was still a kid looking for book recommendations.

Also as noted by Jamie, both the 1967 Stanley Kubrick film adaptation and the 1997 Adrian Lyne adaptation portray the story with Humbert Humbert as a sympathetic character (with James Mason and Jeremy Irons playing Humbert, respectively.)

So yeah, the story simultaneously invites the reader to walk a razor's edge between sympathizing with a child predator and watching the story unfold the way one looks at an automotive collision, watching a monster deeply past the moral event horizon justifying his behavior.

Lolita doesn't play out as a love story. Delores isn't precocious or mature nor is she mentally equipped for an adult relationship, and yet Humbert insists his pursuit of Delores is proper and justified, despite not only Delores' age and minor status, but also the power relationship, with Humbert the legal guardian of Delores. The story is psychological horror.

And the story plays out showing in older Delores the psychological consequences of child sexual abuse. This is not a story of a May / December couple in love living happily ever after. Despite Lolita being described as an Erotic Novel by critics and literary indexes.

But then, in the 1980s, one in three American women surveyed were victims of child sexual abuse. Also in 1987 Suzanne Vega put out the song Luka highlighting a long standing culture that whatever happens in your house is none of my business (🐸☕), and before the Satanic Panic and the SRA scares, CSA was not an oft-prosecuted crime (it was assumed incest laws covered them) and the believe was kids who were victimized not by drunken daddy were instead victimized by strangers in white vans offering candy (rather than say, John Wayne Gacy, who held frequent neighborhood barbecues, or the coach of girls' physical education). Only in the 1990s and the new century have we taken CSA and human trafficking of children seriously, and then, not very, considering how some US states are letting kids work in hazardous conditions and letting children marry. So it doesn't really surprise me that Lolita is thought of as romantic or erotic even when it is the testimony of an abuser.

[-] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 12 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

It's even more insidious than this. In many conservative value sets, children are viewed as property, and domestic issues are viewed as household business. Many many cases of obvious CSA (and physical abuse in general) over the decades have been dismissed as "I'm sure the parents know best," or "it's not our business," or "I'm sure we don't know the whole story." It was only very recently that this veil was pierced even a little bit, but it was not without significant struggle. And even now there is a growing backlash to the idea that children are to be allowed any autonomy or agency beyond their parents. Many people still believe it is is ok to hit children, or that children should not be allowed to use a nickname in school. These are all vestiges or even new iterations of this exact same attitude which has enabled all manner of child abuse over the years.

Make no mistake, in the conservative worldview, child abuse is still, to this day, only bad if the parents say it is bad.

[-] Schadrach@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 4 months ago

and letting children marry.

Most still do so long as the line being drawn is "is there any hypothetical situation in which a 17 year old can legally marry?" Most of those specifically allow older teens (16 or 17 depending on the state) to marry under narrow circumstances, usually requiring any minor have parental consent and/or court approval before allowing it. All states allowed under-18 marriage in some conditions until 2018, and only about a dozen have set a hard 18 limit with no exceptions since then.

With CA being one of the worst offenders in that it has no hard legal minimum age of marriage at all and relies on parents and courts to prevent serious abuse (no minimum but requires approval from one parent or guardian and the court). MA was very similar with no hard minimum at all until recently passing a hard 18 minimum.

Which means if you have the right people in your pocket (a parent or guardian and a judge) you could hypothetically marry someone very underage in CA then cart them off to a state where marriage is an explicit exception to age of consent (such as NM) and engage in legal CSA.

[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 49 points 4 months ago
[-] chumbalumber 101 points 4 months ago

For what it's worth, I think it's an excellent horror novel told from the perspective of an unreliable narrator.

I would not describe it as a great romance novel.

[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 62 points 4 months ago

Funny enough, a friend of mine got into literature recently and he recently read it. He said it was fucking heavy but probably the best thing he's read so far in his life. I've been meaning to get around to reading it myself, but I am also WELL aware that it is not a, uh, 'great and tragic love story'.

[-] Ledivin@lemmy.world 52 points 4 months ago

Yeah, this. It's an amazingly well-written novel... seriously, one of the greats. But I would absolutely never describe it as a love story. That definitely requires some amount of reciprocation and not just grooming and rape.

[-] Silentiea 5 points 4 months ago

Whaaaaat!? Grooming? But Humbert isn't trans? This is just normal behavior, it only becomes wrong when you are already a persecuted minority.

/s obvs

[-] Bilbo_Haggins@lemm.ee 26 points 4 months ago

I'm a huge fan of Nabokov's and have read Lolita several times... But I've never heard it described as horror before and you are so right! I guess before I'd have classified it as tragedy but horror fits so much better.

It's basically a horror story told from the point of view of the monster.

The only "tragic love story" is maybe Dolores' mother trying to warn the world about Humbert being a pedophile only to be hit by a car and killed, unable to save her daughter. Or maybe Dolores' tragic battle to love herself and escape from all the men who want to take advantage of her.

Rowling with another steaming hot garbage pile of an opinion on sexual abuse, no surprise there. What an awful person.

[-] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 49 points 4 months ago

Lolita is a masterpiece in the true sense of the word. I just do not understand how J.K. see Lolita as a love story.

Yes, the ending of Lolita is amazing but even in it I could feel the "wrongness" of the narrator. Maybe it's me but you guys tell me if this doesn't read more like horror than romance.

The following decision I make with all the legal impact and support of a signed testament: I wish this memoir to be published only when Lolita is no longer alive.

Thus, neither of us is alive when the reader opens this book. But while the blood still throbs through my writing hand, you are still as much part of blessed matter as I am, and I can still talk to you from here to Alaska. Be true to your Dick. Do not let other fellows touch you. Do not talk to strangers. I hope you will love your baby. I hope it will be a boy. That husband of yours, I hope, will always treat you well, because otherwise my specter shall come at him, like black smoke, like a demented giant, and pull him apart nerve by nerve. And do not pity C. Q. One had to choose between him and H.H., and one wanted H.H. to exist at least a couple of months longer, so as to have him make you live in the minds of later generations. I am thinking of aurochs and angels, the secret of durable pigments, prophetic sonnets, the refuge of art. And this is the only immortality you and I may share, my Lolita.

[-] flicker@lemmy.world 22 points 4 months ago

Wow. My skin was crawling the entire time.

[-] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 21 points 4 months ago

I have always taken that to be the author's intent. J.K., on the other hand, read a love story. I do agree with everything else she said about Nabakov though.

[-] abbiistabbii 44 points 4 months ago

Ok so we can add pedophile sympathiser to transphobe, racist and anti Semite.

[-] Wirlocke 33 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

It may be understandable to view the novel as high art using pedophilic themes to craft an intriguing story, with no intention to titillate.

Then you check out the author's other work...

[-] joneskind@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

Oh fuck no…

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[-] LinkOpensChest_wav 33 points 4 months ago

J.K. Rowling to give her opinion on ~~the novel "Lolita"~~ anything

Joanne is incapable of summoning a good take about anything. No surprise I suppose since she also cannot write a good book.

[-] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 20 points 4 months ago

I always considered it a great tragedy and a warning about how everything is connected and one person's lack of self control destroys another person's life. I never got a tragic love story out of it. She hates him.

[-] Donjuanme@lemmy.world 17 points 4 months ago

Man if I had a billion dollars me an bill Waterston would be living it up.

[-] Colour_me_triggered@lemm.ee 7 points 4 months ago

If I had a billion dollars, no-one would hear from me again.

[-] casmael@lemm.ee 8 points 4 months ago

Lolita is shit Nabokov can’t write for shit the whole thing is terrible and I don’t understand why it’s considered such a good book.

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