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[-] ada 66 points 4 months ago

I scored the highest tertiary entrance rank in my school without studying a day in my life and had my pick of any university course or career. I went to university, and excelled at exams, but because I had undiagnosed ADHD and had never learned time management, I couldn't cope with assignments that couldn't be thrown together at the last minute in my lunch break. I was academically excluded.

So there was that. Basically, my life has continued to look like some variation of that experience since then :P

[-] funbreaker 18 points 4 months ago

I'm in this answer and I don't like it.

[-] Krejall@ttrpg.network 2 points 4 months ago

This also happened to me. I dropped out of game art & design school. Now I'm doing art and animation for a game dev company. I took the scenic route, but I got here eventually!

[-] silentdon@lemmy.world 57 points 4 months ago

He worked as a chemical engineer until he was killed by police over non-existant drugs. None of the officers involved got into any trouble.

[-] Odelay42@lemmy.world 46 points 4 months ago
[-] QuarterSwede@lemmy.world 43 points 4 months ago

No idea, I moved away and moved on. Have a great life. Don’t care what the others are doing. Hope they’re well.

[-] TheButtonJustSpins@infosec.pub 41 points 4 months ago

I'm still here.

Kidding! How do you determine who the smartest kid was?

[-] Death_Equity@lemmy.world 16 points 4 months ago

Valedictorian is a way, but plenty of valedictorians aren't the smartest kid, just the smart one who had the motivation to become one.

Can't even use SAT or ACT score to pick, because the smartest kid may not have cared enough to bother or try to do as well as they could.

[-] TheButtonJustSpins@infosec.pub 9 points 4 months ago

Plus, there are so many different types of smart; test taking is far from the only one.

[-] chahk@beehaw.org 4 points 4 months ago

Wait 5 second, they will tell you.

[-] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 33 points 4 months ago

Works in open source charity driven software - he's having a ball.

[-] funbreaker 32 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I gradually, but absolutely fell the fuck apart after middle/high school. I'm working with a therapist and job coaches so I can get my shit reasonably back together. As it turns out, Gifted kids are most likely just neurodivergent kids who would really like someone to see them as something other than test scores and probably are smiling through a bunch of unaddressed problems. I hope the other TAG kids from my year are doing way better.

[-] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 27 points 4 months ago

I mean we had a few that were al up there. From what I recall Jamie dropped out and had a couple of kids, Mark still lives at home 'cause he's got no job and Just plays guitar and smokes a lot of pot. Jay committed suicide. Brandon OD'd and died.

[-] Bitrot@lemmy.sdf.org 10 points 4 months ago

Should’ve known we’d never get far.

[-] snapoff@sh.itjust.works 9 points 4 months ago

What the hell is going on??

[-] Maeve@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 months ago

Society doesn't reward intelligence and drive, together or singly. Society rewards mediocrity (make boss look good, not yourself) and undercutting.

[-] snapoff@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 months ago

The cruelest dream - reality.

[-] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 2 points 4 months ago

Chances thrown, nothing's free

[-] snapoff@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago

Longing for what used to be. Still, it’s hard

[-] fuck_reddit@lemmy.world 25 points 4 months ago
[-] raspberriesareyummy@lemmy.world 23 points 4 months ago

it's reading lemmy right now :p

[-] skulblaka@startrek.website 20 points 4 months ago

It was me. I was the smartest kid in my class for most of school. Then I dropped out of college and now I fix cars for a living.

Not saying that's a bad thing, the world needs mechanics and I'm paid well enough to live, but the sense of lost or wasted potential is overwhelming.

[-] Addv4@lemmy.world 8 points 4 months ago

I wouldn't worry about it. I was one of the gifted kids, got my Bachelors then Masters in Computer Science with good grades. But also I got massively depressed and it took me a while to get a job after graduation. One of the more valuable lessons I learned from that experience was that I was often not seeing the forest thru the trees. After all, going to college is just a means of hopefully ensuring that you have an easier time covering the cost of living long term. So, overall, if you're happy and don't have to constantly worry about your bills there was no real loss of potential.

[-] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 17 points 4 months ago

Everyone left. There’s nothing the state can offer to keep the most productive people. Most ended up going to California.

The ones that returned became educators.

[-] AdamEatsAss@lemmy.world 13 points 4 months ago

From high school: went to an ivy league, coasted with Bs and Cs, has a high paying job in NYC in finance. Saw on insta that he privately booked out a bar in Manhattan for his birthday, so I guess he's doing good. From college: Currently over-employeed, married, owns a house in the inner suburbs, expecting first child. My life is pretty great, could be better, could be worse.

[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 12 points 4 months ago

He got a degree in architectural design and now tours the country playing the fiddle. He could have been anything he wanted and that's the life he chose, but I respect him for it. He's happy and that's what really counts.

[-] Meltrax@lemmy.world 11 points 4 months ago

I got a job as a software engineer and I live in one of the major cities in the US pretty comfortably.

(I was high school valedictorian, objectively average in college, and am maybe the high end of average in my career. My high school set a pretty low bar.)

[-] BruceTwarzen@lemm.ee 11 points 4 months ago

He became addicted to drugs and fell off. Last time i heard anything off him, he lives in south america somewhere as a street performer and found love. So i dunno.

[-] ElderberryLow@programming.dev 9 points 4 months ago

She is currently a doctor, married, has a kid, and is doing quite well for herself.

[-] scytale@lemm.ee 9 points 4 months ago

Honestly don’t know. In grade school we had a classmate who was always at the top of our entire batch. As expected she graduated as valedictorian. We all took the entrance exam for one of the coveted high schools and surprisingly she didn’t pass…and I got in lol. She kinda faded away after that. She’s probably fine though, just didn’t meet expectations going into high school.

[-] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 5 points 4 months ago

Damn. That's kinda why I'm not a fan of exams. People have test anxiety. In a lot of my math classes, some of the smartest people in there can't take tests for shit because of so much test anxiety they have. This person probably had the qualifications to get in but unfortunate that the exam was too big of a hurdle.

[-] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 8 points 4 months ago

She was killed in a traffic accident senior year.

[-] CoolMatt@lemmy.ca 3 points 4 months ago

Well, fucking shit man.

[-] That_Devil_Girl@lemmy.ml 7 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I went on to enlist in the military, got out after one enlistment, and eventually became a machinist and shipwright welder. I'm working on my SCUBA & underwater welding qualifications.

In a high-school out in the boondocks of Texas, I was easily the smartest kid. Everyone else was concerned with their parents farm, chores, football, and dating.

Nobody was interested in reading or higher education, and the teachers put no effort into encouraging students to reach higher.

[-] Nomecks@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 months ago

Looks like he's a Ph.D bridge engineer. Good on him.

[-] slazer2au@lemmy.world 6 points 4 months ago

Which class? we had different students depending on the subject.

[-] timmytbt@sh.itjust.works 6 points 4 months ago

He went on to become an internationally renowned heart surgeon

[-] Decency8401@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 4 months ago

As far as my knowledge goes, she went to a private school then got pregnant with, like, 20 or 19-ish. Then she did lose a little control of her life. But I think that she might've been successful with her career and may have gotten her life under control.

I don't know if she was the smartest kid, but she definitely got good grades. My class was honestly full of lazy people, including me. I've changed a lot, so I would say that I would now be the smartest kid, because I was one of the first who actually did realize how tough life is.

[-] Alexstarfire@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

In my class/homeroom? I'm sitting on the couch. Just trying not to let life get me down. In my grade? Fuck if I know. I did know like the top 5 in my grade, of 600+ students, but I didn't keep in touch once we went off to college. At least 2 went to Ivy League schools for undergrad. Don't know about the other 3.

[-] fubarx@lemmy.ml 3 points 4 months ago

They got a PhD in science from a well-known university and worked on research for a while. Last I heard, they got married and ended up selling real-estate.

[-] 1hitsong@lemmy.ml 3 points 4 months ago

I have no idea. I've only kept up with 4 or 5 people from high school.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 2 points 4 months ago

She was my coworker, but I left her when I moved.

[-] DavidDoesLemmy@aussie.zone 2 points 4 months ago

One became a high school teacher and another works in tech. Not too shocking I guess

[-] Admetus@sopuli.xyz 1 points 4 months ago

GCHQ. Need I say more...

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