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[-] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 134 points 1 year ago

🙄 this is why I only date bisexual women. If I said this to any women I'm in a relationship with she would probably say something like, "fuck you" then peg me while annoying asking if I got the pun.

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 53 points 1 year ago
[-] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 48 points 1 year ago

There's not one. Bi women treat but men as equals in bed and straight women bore me

[-] midnight_puker@sh.itjust.works 40 points 1 year ago

It's a win-win, most definitely.

[-] edinbruh@feddit.it 74 points 1 year ago

Straightest Griffith interaction.

Also, fuck Griffith

[-] PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee 30 points 1 year ago

A sentiment shared both by Griffith haters and Griffith stans

[-] Magnetar@feddit.de 8 points 1 year ago

Griffith is the best best quantum mechanics book I've ever read, what are you on about.

[-] A_Very_Big_Fan@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Greatest villain, also transition goals

[-] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago
[-] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I could go for some chicken wings.

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[-] x4740N@lemmy.world 60 points 1 year ago

One of my high school teachers was called miss bussy and I'm not joking about this ethier, that was her actual name

[-] Steamymoomilk@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 year ago

Thats wild! I did aswell Must be a common name LMAO!

[-] A_Very_Big_Fan@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

I bet she's thinking about a career change, if she hasn't done it already.

[-] Sanctus@lemmy.world 59 points 1 year ago

Smh can't stop thinking about Guts

[-] mrgreyeyes@feddit.nl 38 points 1 year ago

Rearrangeing Guts has a whole new meaning now.

[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 56 points 1 year ago

Maybe it's my man brain that's stupid, but can someone explain to me why "boy pussy" is so offensive that you give him the silent treatment?

Like, it makes zero sense. Wtf is a "boy pussy" anyways?

Am I too straight to understand this?

I don't want to offend, I genuinely do not understand. Help me out here.

[-] figjam@midwest.social 37 points 1 year ago

Itz yo butthole

[-] Gaspar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 1 year ago

Disclaimer: this isn't really my thing, so I have kind of an outsider's understanding and may be incorrect. I'm sure someone will be happy to correct me if I'm wrong about something.

Ok, let's break this down a little. First of all: boy pussy, or "bussy", is not an actual biological orifice that exists, as you may have guessed. Rather, it's a slang term meant to convey the metaphorical sexual concept that a male asshole - usually belonging to a sub/bottom or twink (but the term can apply to anyone willing) - has become an erogenous zone, possibly (depending on usage in dirty talk) that it will never again fulfill any other purpose.

Naturally, since it is a BOY pussy, it's not something that you would find on a woman, so the man in this story, while having sex with his wife, let slip that he was fantasizing about having sex with someone else. This does not seem to be her issue, as she mentions that they are at least somewhat in an open relationship and so him having sex with another woman would not be out of the question. However, she seems to take offense at the idea that he is fantasizing about having sex with another man, which is not something they would presumably have discussed prior to opening their relationship.

Hope this clears things up a little. Cheers!

[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago

Thank you! For some reason my brain didn't make the connection between the slag of "bussy" and "boy pussy".

Dunno why she would be upset by it in an open relationship, but okay.

[-] pixeltree 9 points 1 year ago

I mean, if I was getting fucked by someone and they were actively fantasizing about me being someone else, I would be upset, open relationship or no

[-] CaptainEffort@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago

They missed this, but she’s upset because he’s imagining her as a man

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[-] nifty@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Okay fr, i think bussy also may refer to intersex vagina. I think sex slang is often described only along heteronormative boundaries and it can get annoying and confusing.

[-] Gaspar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago

That's interesting! I've only ever seen it as slang for boy and/or butt pussy. I will fully admit that you're correct in that these terms tend to fall along the heteronormative gender divide and I try to keep these explanations as gender neutral as possible (though there's only so much you can do with "boy pussy"), so I'll keep that in mind for the future. Thank you.

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[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

It's the butt. Also it is a bit offensive to be thinking about someone else in that context.

[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago
[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

Not sure, you should gather more data. Next time you are with someone keep mentioning a different person. Share your results.

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[-] dvoraqs@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Saying "that boy pussy" might not be about another person, so I'm also not sure this should actually be offensive. He might just be thinking about anal sex while he is in a vagina.

I'm making a big assumption though:

  • women can have a boy pussy since they also have an anus
[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

I am not getting into a debate about the semiotics of anal sex with you or anyone else.

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[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 9 points 1 year ago

I wouldn't be offended by this, but other phrases about my body might offend me. As an example, the term "man boob" really disgusts me and makes me feel ashamed of my body. My wife knows this. If she said that during an intimate moment it could very well make me upset. It's hard to know how I'd react in the moment. It could be that he accidentally said "boy pussy" then didn't apologize or acted like it wasn't anything wrong. It could be that OOP was already very self conscious about their vagina and having it compared to an asshole (what "boy pussy" usually refers to in cis males) was upsetting.

Emotions are weird and often don't make logical sense. It's less important exactly why something was upsetting and more important to acknowledge that it was upsetting and apologize.

[-] rustydomino@lemmy.world 38 points 1 year ago

I read the post title as “Busey”, then opened the post, and got really confused as to what Gary Busey had to do with any of this.

[-] sagrotan@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Of you really think about something, somewhere Gary Busey has to do with it. In a weird Busey way, of course, but there is done relation between every single thing in the universe and Gary Busey. Thanks wishes to be him.

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 year ago

He's so hot

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago

As a boy pussy, I am offended. And I am going to mince around in frustration.

[-] sagrotan@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago

She should get a strap-on and be happy, that she's apparently not as floppy as her grandma.

[-] cumskin_genocide@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago

It's so disgusting fucking a girl pussy. Boy pussy is the best.

[-] HipHoboHarold@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I do have to come to homeboys defense. She heard bussy and though he was picturing a twink. While that's fine and dandy if that's what he's into, maybe he was actually thinking about bears. Sounds like she's the issue cause she thinks we can only be twinks. My beard says otherwise.

[-] nifty@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

And your problem is what, exactly?

[-] Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com 24 points 1 year ago

I think the person is concerned that their partner doesn't feel comfortable with them.

[-] Obonga@feddit.de 18 points 1 year ago

Yeah thats why you make sure to NOT talk about your feelings like this "concerned" person. If you have problems in a relationship, it is important to talk to anyone but your partner. Best thing to do is, get some advice from complete strangers who do not know you or your partner and have very limited and skewed information. This way you will surely get the right answers! /s

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[-] clot27@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

that she thinks she have no bussy

[-] nifty@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

But she’s getting laid tho, so what’s her problem?

[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 7 points 1 year ago

Wtf does this even mean lol

[-] nifty@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Look, I get that when someone’s perception of you is incongruent with your self-concept it can create an internal conflict, and perhaps affect your self-esteem. The theory of self-perception is essentially based on these ideas.

Here’s how I evaluate the situation in this meme, this lady’s vagina may or may not be a bussy but it’s being perceived that way by at least one partner.

Regardless of the perception of that partner, we don’t know if that lady’s vagina is indeed a bussy, and there’s no way for her to say so herself based on a sample size of 1. So her effective experience is that of someone who has a partner who finds her genitals pleasing, but she’s distorting that experience for herself because of the dissonance between her self-concept of her vagina and whatever her partner thinks that vagina is.

Essentially tho, if her “bussy” is helping her get sexual attention and gratification, then I fail to see the problem. To me, it’s like saying “yeah I have a cake, but it’s not the cake I thought I had”, and I am like, a cake is a cake. Enjoy it.

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[-] Willer@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

and reddit will ban you if you dont take this seriously and clown on this post.

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