Join the Trans Housing Network matrix room (matrix.to)

submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) by xilliah@beehaw.org to c/mtf

16 comments fedilink hide all child comments

If you are having issues finding housing as a trans person or would like to help others, consider joining this new matrix chat room.

I’ve recently been helping some folks with their housing needs and thought that creating a network could be incredibly helpful. By pooling our resources, whether it’s sharing links, tips, or even just advice, we can support each other more effectively. ❤️

We have a privacy-focused collaborative document to organize our resources and ideas. It'll grow over time. 📄

Let’s make this a supportive space for everyone! 🌸

Sharing and updoots appreciated!

top 16 comments

sorted by: hot top controversial new old

[-] cannibalkitteh 15 points 11 months ago

Some concerns... Providing housing is a position of power, and inviting a relative stranger into your home requires trust. While I firmly believe that most folks are well-intentioned, the possibility of abuse is there.

[-] cowboycrustation 10 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Unfortunately that is true, but there's really not an alternative for a lot of the people who need help. Sometimes it's a matter of trusting strangers vs being out on the streets. This is a good thing to have for those people.

[-] cannibalkitteh 5 points 11 months ago

Yep, I'd agree that overall, this is a good thing, and I maybe came off a bit more negative than I'd meant.

[-] xilliah@beehaw.org 3 points 11 months ago

I imagine a lot of people are already in such a situation right now.

[-] xilliah@beehaw.org 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Thanks for sharing. I'll be sure to bring it up so perhaps we'll be able to avoid it as much as possible.

If you have any actionable ideas? As in what to watch out for. Or perhaps any resources related to this topic.

[-] cowboycrustation 5 points 11 months ago

I'm having problems joining. When I click on the link it says you're not invited

[-] xilliah@beehaw.org 1 points 11 months ago

Hey, can you try again?

[-] cowboycrustation 2 points 11 months ago

It worked. You fixed it.

[-] okasen@slrpnk.net 5 points 11 months ago

What an awesome thing. Reminds me of the Trans Couch Network on tumblr back in the day, I always wondered if there was something else to take its place.

(I have the same concerns as I did then of the potential for abuse, like someone else said, but I don’t have any actionable advice/etc yet. But queer housing is a major Thing to me so I might do some research/thinking on the subject of abuse mitigation, if that’s welcome)

[-] cowboycrustation 3 points 11 months ago

Please crosspost this to trans and ftm

[-] xilliah@beehaw.org 3 points 11 months ago

Could someone else do it? It doesn't work properly in my client.

[-] cowboycrustation 2 points 11 months ago

[-] Arkhive 3 points 11 months ago

I’m also getting the “you are not invited to this room” message.

[-] xilliah@beehaw.org 3 points 11 months ago

Try again

[-] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 11 months ago

This is genuinely a good idea. Collecting knowledge always helps.

[-] RatBastard 1 points 2 months ago

Has the link expired? It says I'm not invited :/

this post was submitted on 08 May 2024

50 points (100.0% liked)

Transfem

4029 readers

5 users here now

A community for transfeminine people and experiences.

This is a supportive community for all transfeminine or questioning people. Anyone is welcome to participate in this community but disrupting the safety of this space for trans feminine people is unacceptable and will result in moderator action.

Debate surrounding transgender rights or acceptance will result in an immediate ban.

Please follow the rules of the lemmy.blahaj.zone instance.
Bigotry of any kind will not be tolerated.
Gatekeeping will not be tolerated.
Please be kind and respectful to all.
Please tag NSFW topics.
No NSFW image posts.
Please provide content warnings where appropriate.
Please do not repost bigoted content here.

This community is supportive of DIY HRT. Unsolicited medical advice or caution being given to people on DIY will result in moderator action.

Posters may express that they are looking for responses and support from groups with certain experiences (eg. trans people, trans people with supportive parents, trans parents.). Please respect those requests and be mindful that your experience may differ from others here.

Some helpful links:

The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.

Support Hotlines:

The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.

founded 2 years ago

MODERATORS

LadyAutumn

ada