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[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 214 points 5 months ago

Vegans are correct, people just don't want to change their lifestyle. I am not a vegan (yet) for what it's worth, but they are definitely correct.

[-] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 42 points 5 months ago

Would you like to go vegan and need advice?

[-] Barbarian@sh.itjust.works 34 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Not the same person, but I'm in a similar position, just further along. Getting meat out of my diet was actually really trivial. Cheese is the big problem.

Fully vegan when I cook at home, but vegan options in restaurants and fast food are non-existent where I live, so I have cheese whenever I eat out. I've also come to terms with the fact I can never be fully vegan because I have 2 cats who need their cat food.

[-] gorysubparbagel@lemmy.world 41 points 5 months ago

That's still a big improvement. Even if you don't go full vegan, cutting out meat has massive benefits

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[-] interrobang 23 points 5 months ago

If you're offering, im always looking for good cheese, yogurt or dairy substitutes

[-] yoyolll@lemmy.world 18 points 5 months ago

Honestly, I’ve stopped chasing substitutes a while ago. Giving up meat and dairy is going to be a lifestyle change, that’s why people struggle so much with it. You can’t expect to just sub in imitations and keep eating the same foods. They’re not close enough to fool anyone, and they’re usually expensive and unhealthy.

The best way eat vegan is to fill your diet with minimally processed legumes, grains, fruits, and vegetables. Learn to cook a few staple meals from cultural cuisines where animal products are expensive (most cultures outside US/Canada and Western Europe) and you’ll realize how much great food you can make with a few simple ingredients and one or two pots. A huge number of them fall into the same basic formula, so if you learn one, you can easily make them all. Plus, it’s much, much cheaper than eating meat.

I’m not vegan but I do eat 95% vegan because my wife is and I agreed to buy and cook solely vegan in the house. I come from a culture with plenty of (accidentally) vegan home cooking already, so it wasn’t hard at all. But those substitutes are gross to me. Apologies to those who like them.

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[-] chetradley@lemmy.world 16 points 5 months ago

I live in the US, so depending on where you live these may or may not be available to you.

Cheese for me depends on the application:

On a pizza, I like Miyokos liquid mozzarella. I'll often get a chain pizza with no cheese, add a little on top and bake for a bit.

Melted in a quesadilla, etc., I'll usually go for daiya.

Cold on something like a burrito bowl, I like Violife or Vevan. Violife also makes a great feta.

For parmesan and blue cheese dressing, I'll usually go with Follow Your Heart.

For cheese sauces and mac and cheese, I like to make cashew cheese sauce.

My favorite non dairy for drinking and baking is oat or soy, I just like to make sure it's not sweetened.

I started making my own yogurt in an instant pot with cheap Asian grocery store coconut milk and vegan cultures, and it's fantastic.

Hope this helps!

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[-] ImplyingImplications@lemmy.ca 21 points 5 months ago

Yep. I'm a vegetarian for environmental reasons. There's a huge amount of will behind ending humanity's reliance on fossil fuels, but very few care about ending our reliance on meat, the most inefficient source of food.

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[-] DumbAceDragon@sh.itjust.works 142 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Vegans can be annoying, but at the end of the day they're right about a lot of things. It's just that the ethics of consuming meat and animal products can be a delicate conversation, and requires a pretty big change in how one views not only themselves but life as a whole. A lot of online vegans like to approach it the with tact of a sledgehammer.

Trust me, irl vegans are usually way more chill in my experience.

[-] SigmarStern@discuss.tchncs.de 77 points 5 months ago

Online vegan here. Just wanted to add that after a couple of years of the same jokes and arguments and demeaning comments that were forced upon you because you had to explain why you don't want to eat what everyone else around you eats, you kinda lose your tact a bit.

Never went to somebody with a burger in hand and called him a murderer. Been called an emasculated pussy and wittle little rabbit for eating a salad so many times. Same people then complain about annoying vegans. It's a bit infuriating.

[-] Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com 27 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I can understand that. Constantly needing to justify your existence or preferences is exhausting, especially when there's a stereotype that people are using to project.

[-] lobut@lemmy.ca 16 points 5 months ago

I went vegetarian for a bit. I was never vocal about it. I just skipped ordering meat from the menu and asked for veggie options from the waiter. I was surprised the amount of people that gave me shit for it. It was like, "you know animals eat other animals right?" I used to respond with: "yes, but I want to do it for ecological reasons because factory farming is destroying our environment". I remember getting short with people after a short period of time and started saying: "I graduated from university, what do you think?"

Most of my vegan friends are so nice. Their partners eat meat and they let them live.

Very rarely will you get a "vegan gainz" type person that laughs at people that die or have cancer because they've eaten meat. Those type of people are completely repulsive but they're rarely the people I've encountered that are vegans.

[-] davepleasebehave@lemmy.world 21 points 5 months ago

it's tiring to have to use tact around people in order to placate their sensibilities.

[-] mriormro@lemmy.world 16 points 5 months ago

That's what being a part of society entails.

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[-] Sniatch@lemmy.world 84 points 5 months ago

I find it always irritating how people constantly say "vegans are annoying". Being Vegan would be waaaay easier if meat eaters wouldn't be so damn annoying about their meat consumption. Just say the word "vegan" and some will lose their shit.

[-] chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 5 months ago

I've never met a vegan in real life who is annoying (about veganism. Maybe about other things...) Most of them it even takes a while to find out they're vegan. Several bosses I only found out because a team lunch. Several others I only found out because I befriended them at work and after months of talking to them it finally came up one way or another. Never even be criticized by them, and likewise, I've never criticized them (in general I have very few issues with veganism. Maybe I disagree with them on honey bees, and not even sure that's all vegans. Oh, and perhaps the belief that one cannot love any animal if they eat meat, but its not a topic i wish to agrue so I dont bother engaging anyway.)

Online you may have someone being more abolitionist or mutant about veganism, but even them it's hardly an issue unless you go into vegan spaces or are commenting about certain things like that dolphin shooting, and even then it's not really mostly on the level of whataboutism and being really extreme and preachy.

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[-] Crikeste@lemm.ee 15 points 4 months ago

Meat eaters: Vegans are annoying

Also meat eaters: lOoK at the bAbY wItTlE VeGaN bAbY pAnSy LoSeR WhO CaReS aBoUt aNiMaL wElFaRe bOoHoO

[-] Donkter@lemmy.world 14 points 5 months ago

Vegans were annoying...

20 years ago, when veganism was getting traction in modern culture and it was all they could do to spread the idea that we might be able to not consume meat.

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[-] madcaesar@lemmy.world 60 points 5 months ago

People who "are something", in general are annoying as fuck. As soon as you make something your identity you've probably fucked up.

That said I've tried to reduce meat consumption as much as possible, for the environment and the animals.

[-] RecluseRamble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 41 points 5 months ago

I agree. Militant meat eaters are just as annoying as cliché vegans but there seem to be more of the former.

Reducing meat consumption is probably the best way to go for most people (I've reduced mine because of my vegetarian wife and don't feel like I miss anything) but eating strictly vegan doesn't seem right to me. Anything that requires supplementation in the long run cannot be the final answer.

[-] Barbarian@sh.itjust.works 27 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Anything that requires supplementation in the long run cannot be the final answer.

Not trying to start an argument with you, you do you, but are you aware that most factory farmed animals are supplemented with B12? Meat and dairy consumers are taking supplements, just indirectly.

Also, anybody living in cloudy areas (North Europe, North US, Canada, etc) should be taking vitamin D supplements anyway, meat eater or vegan.

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[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 17 points 5 months ago

Militant meat eaters are just as annoying as cliché vegans but there seem to be more of the former.

I eat meat from time to time, so definitely not even vegetarian, but I've absolutely run into more offended meat eaters than vegans IRL, but meat at dinner is a big part of my home country's culture.

I remember my sisters' boyfriend fuming, thinking we were trolling him by not having meat at a family dinner. The meat eating mind cannot comprehend.

[-] MilitantVegan@lemmy.world 15 points 5 months ago

Literally the only strictly necessary supplement for vegans is b12, and if you understand the science of b12, then you know that you either should be supplementing it anyway, or you're just rolling the dice.

By contrast there are entire whole-food plant-based communities who routinely report the near-miraculous benefits they gain after adopting the diet, such as cholesterol levels that aren't deadly.

[-] RecluseRamble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 5 months ago

there are entire whole-food plant-based communities who routinely report the near-miraculous benefits they gain after adopting the diet, such as cholesterol levels that aren't deadly.

That is a far more complex topic than just meat consumption though. People don't just go vegan but completely change their diet and actually look at what they consume.

I've never had high cholesterol even back when I ate meat daily. Always ate lots of salads and veggies though and didn't snack sugary shit all day.

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[-] finestnothing@lemmy.world 19 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

My MIL went full plant based (vegan but also only raw or minimally processed foods, doesn't even eat tofu or olive oil if she can avoid it) after watching some documentary on Netflix and it is her entire personality now, including trying to force it on my wife I who already eat vegetarian 95% of the time (everything at home is vegetarian, occasionally eat meat out if none of the vegetarian options sound good) primarily for environmental and health reasons. Every time we visit her she makes some snide and not even veiled remarks about us still occasionally eating meat and still eating dairy, her favorite is referring to any sort of cheese as "congealed cow puss".

She also 100% believes it can cure diabetes, Alzheimers, dementia, and cancer in a matter of months and that meat and dairy cause autism.

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[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 35 points 5 months ago

At a high level, I have no control over your actions, you have no control over mine. We can argue until we're blue in the face, but when someone walks away after that argument, they're free to do as they please.

Physically, you don't need to eat meat. I'd recommend a good dietician if you want to go vegetarian or vegan, at least until you figure enough out that you can maintain the intake of all your required vitamins and nutrients as you transition. There are more than a few of them that are typically provided by meat products for most people's eating habits, you'll want advice on how to suppliment that without relying on pills. Suppliment pills can be helpful, but you probably don't want to have to take them all the time.

Eating meat can certainly be healthy too, speaking mainly for ones nutritional needs. The nutrients in meat are, in some cases, fairly rare in plants, so it can vastly simplify the job of meeting your nutritional needs.

For vegans, on a social and societal level, I agree with the concepts surrounding factory farming and the unethical treatment of the animals that become meat. No argument from me. However, thinking that any meat consumption is tantamount to murder, is not a view I share. Animals, and their meat, are eaten by other animals (including humans - separate from farming... I'm talking about actual hunting here). In nature, there's no hesitation about this, no remorse, and no known sorrow from the animals who "lost someone" to being food. Sadness over the passing of an individual is almost (but not entirely) a human phenomenon. Same with morals and ethics... To name a few. Ethically, I don't personally have a problem with animals dying for food. I do however have a problem with the abuse and maltreatment of animals that will become food. While alive, animals should be given some measure of dignity and respect. They should not be forced into living their lives in small cages and jammed together with hundreds of their kin in a confined space the way factory farming often does.

Eating meat does not and should not imply that a person is complicit nor agrees with the concept of factory farms or anything they do. Some people do not have the time, effort, money or focus to dedicate to finding alternatives. You don't know their life and you should not judge based on their eating habits alone. It's presumptive and arrogant to think that people have the bandwidth to even grok the concept of changing their entire lifestyle because of factory farms. In the same manner, vegans and vegetarians should not be negatively judged for their decisions either.

The only points of contention I have in the whole debate is that eating meat, in and of itself, whether you bought it off a shelf or obtained it through hunting, does not make one a murderer; and, while it's fine to share ideas, demanding that others change their ways because you have an opinion, is unacceptable. If someone is curious and willing to listen, sure, chat all you want. However, telling them that their choices are wrong and that they must do something differently, isn't a practice I can support.

At the end of the day, as most people learned from the lion king, there's a circle of life. Things will die so other things can live. Plants will absorb the minerals and nutrients from the rotting corpses of so-called "higher" life forms, and those "higher" life forms will eat the plants to live. Those plant eaters will be eaten by other animals, who will eventually die and become fertilizer for the plants. The cycle continues. Eating animals is something that animals do all the time, and it's not condemned. News flash, humans are also animals. We have the ability to eat and gain strength from meat. You have the free choice to either partake in that activity or not, but make no mistake, that's your personal choice.

IMO, we should all eat more vegetables. Meats have become so prevalent that there's basically meat included in every meal of the day. That's a bit much. Eat a salad. Everyone should reduce their meat intake, at the very least. If you want to go all the way to being vegetarian or vegan, go for it. It's your choice, your life, your body, and you're free to use it, and/or abuse it, in whatever way you wish.

For me, the ethical problems of factory farms are definitely an issue. Personally, I'd rather see a regulatory solution for the treatment of animals, since it would improve the life of all of those animals (at least for the duration they're alive), and improve their situation when they are slaughtered, so it is more humane. After they have been slaughtered, my level of care about how they're treated, pretty much disappears. As long as the resultant product is safe and not harmful, I couldn't care less. I'm only concerned with their life from birth to death. After that, meh. Regulatory changes would be simple and more effective than trying to change the hearts and minds of everyone in an effort to have the pubic at large, stop eating meat; bluntly, trying to convince an entire society to do anything for it's own good, is pretty much impossible. I'm not sure what the "annoying vegans" (not all vegans, just the ones who get in people's faces about it), are trying to prove. They won't convince everyone, it's basically impossible. It's like they've taken on this impossible task and it's not going well, and they're steaming mad about it.... Bro, you did this to yourself. I believe the only way to put an end to the animal abuse in factory farms, is to regulate it. I don't know what that regulation looks like, I'm not a lawyer, nor do I have any ties to nor interest in becoming a politician/government decision making person. I know change is needed and I have no ability to enact that change, but I would vote for anyone who did.

I don't consider death, in and if itself to be inhumane. I consider torture to be inhumane. I consider forced imprisonment in a small space to be inhumane. I even consider suffering to death, it be inhumane. Euthanizing something, can absolutely be humane. I don't believe that factory farms are being humane by my standards.

I don't think that asking them to be humane to their flock is too much to ask. Our food deserves it. They're giving their life for your ongoing existence and enjoyment, the least we can and should do, is ensure they're not spending that life in pain.

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[-] Zoldyck@lemmy.world 34 points 5 months ago

Be careful OP. There are angry meateaters among us using Lemmy.

[-] TheBat@lemmy.world 27 points 5 months ago

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[-] Coskii 17 points 5 months ago

I would hope that most people who have seen much of anything about industrial ranching would have a hard time not showing a bit of empathy.

Some descriptions of hell aren't as upsetting as seeing how those animals are kept and handled.

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[-] Hadriscus@lemm.ee 31 points 5 months ago

The dissonance is real

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[-] rajarizer@lemmy.world 20 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I have stereotypical vegan friends (Somehow squeeze their veganism into conversation every time!) I have slowly tried to adjust my diet for doctor mandated health reasons for the better, never been healthier but I dare not mention it, I don't want to give them the satisfaction, one of them will try to take credit, I just know it. :P

[-] MrScottyTay@sh.itjust.works 38 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

As a vegan myself I notice the opposite a lot. Veganism becomes the topic of conversation IRL more because of everyone around me asking questions like "don't you miss bacon" and "how long have you been vegan now?" And "would you ever eat meat again".

And when it's not about veganism specifically they often bring up meat when talking about food they had and then instead of contributing to the conversation, since that feels disingenuous to my ethics and I'm not a fan of lying in general, I'll tell them "sorry I'm vegan".

Also a lot of the stereotypical vegans that end up bringing up veganism on their own all the time is mostly just due to them likely being activists and quite honestly having to deal with the worst of the worst trying to ruin their day every day. And that shit takes it's toll, not to mention directly staring a lot of what makes them physically sick and upset right in front of them day in and day out. Constantly being reminded of what to them is genuinely horrific. That can change a person and make them very jaded and cynical in life. And in that case, tact no longer becomes an issue to them because to them it's a matter of life and death, and they mostly see death and this becomes desperate to make a change, even if it's a little one.

Sorry if this made me look like a stereotypical one, I'm not trying to preach. Just trying to share what it can be like on the other side.

Also they totally would take credit. We would call it "planting the seed". Making you conscious of the choice and hope you come to your own decision on how to and when to make it. ;)

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God that's a wall of text, I'm sorry -.-

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[-] Noodle07@lemmy.world 18 points 5 months ago

I have nothing against vegans, just do my cooking and I'll eat anything

[-] drgeppo@lemmy.world 15 points 4 months ago

vegans have noble intentions but they are fighting the wrong battle: the root evil is not meat consumption per se but capitalism and the resource exploitation that it implies

[-] NightShot@lemmy.world 13 points 4 months ago

The root evil is your meat consumption. If theres nothing wrong, then go to your local slaughter house and stand in line. If you dont like to do that you know what they feel. The feel the same fucking way about it as you do. And they dont get any sedation as they get during an execution. They get the first row experience to fucked up death.

Fuck your dumb ideas and go eat some fucking beans and shut the fuck up.

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[-] No_Change_Just_Money@feddit.de 15 points 5 months ago

You could reduce meat intake and buy higher quality meat whenever financially feasible. Then you help fight the problem but can still look down on vegans

[-] illi@lemm.ee 43 points 5 months ago

This is solid advice, but... you know... don't look down on vegans maybe? They are trying to do the same thing (reduce animal suffering) but are able/willing to go above and beyond.

[-] Zoldyck@lemmy.world 27 points 5 months ago

Or you could just not support abuse and murder. Also an option.

[-] illi@lemm.ee 14 points 5 months ago

Small incremental changes are easier to make than big ones. It is also better to have many people reducing meat than just a few full vegans.

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