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[-] Justas@sh.itjust.works 41 points 6 months ago

I hate how relatable this community is to me, a straight cis male.

[-] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 27 points 6 months ago

Nothing wrong with liking our hecking honkarinos as a straight man ❤

[-] Justas@sh.itjust.works 16 points 6 months ago

But I like a lot of posts here, and not all of them are about honking badonkadonks.

[-] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 30 points 6 months ago

It could be because most of the posts here focus on our vulnerabilities rather than external norms. We're fairly self depreciating, but we also celebrate things we were told to hate about ourselves like not being dominant or in control, being horny and dumb, or showing love to each other in openly queer ways.

Spaces that are more male dominated or less openly queer also self depreciate, but mostly to reinforce ideas of how people should be. Judgement is passed based on popular social norms that don't inherently matter. That isn't to say we're perfect over here, but we don't hold that normality as sacred, constantly suspicious of shit that binds us for seemingly no reason.

I don't know what in particular bothers you about relating to us, but people can relate to us without being a silly Sapphic transfem nerd with mental health issues. You only need to be a transfem or queer if feel better that way. Everyone is welcome as long as they don't hurt the vulnerable without consent.

[-] Justas@sh.itjust.works 15 points 6 months ago
[-] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 9 points 6 months ago

Np! I love sharing my wisdom(the meth I cooked) with all who will listen(get high with me).

If you ever need answers(hallucinogens), I can usually give you the one most likely to be true(give a good trip), as well as its likelihood of being incorrect(give a bad trip).

this post was submitted on 28 May 2024
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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

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