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- The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
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- Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
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- TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
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- The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
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- 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.
I've been playing with nail polish for a bit, and definitely enjoy it as a bit of a creative outlet on top of personal expression.
I had not thought of a fetish store, I'm not sure if I have one or not, but will definitely keep that in mind. I've been trying to figure out my skin tone so I can get a reasonable idea of where to start.
One of the first things I bought after cracking was those "programmer socks" the thigh highs, but it turns out I'm too thick for "one size fits all" 😅
I think I know which ones you mean. But have you tried the thin ones? Those are super stretchy and come in many sizes. Just try the largest ones, but there's always the sizes written on the back. I imagine those are also visible when you buy them online.
I think I know what you are getting at, but could you share an example?
@Blahaj_Blast @xilliah have you looked at sockdreams.com? I’ve got a couple thigh highs from them and they offer socks for everyone regardless of size and gender.
I think I have heard of them! Is that the company that has larger sizes catering more towards transfem people?
@Blahaj_Blast Yup, that’s them.