the tiktok “any intercourse information made public should be an assault charge”

You and I have very different FYPs lol

I agree. What we call the "Left" in the US is a largely heterogenous group of people separated by decades of infighting and a mountain of conflicting interests. There's the types you mentioned, then there's the trans activists, the eco activists, black/BIPOC activists, socialists, anarchists, liberals, feminists, and on and on.

Suppose you are a Democratic House or Senate candidate. To actually win the election, you need two things, votes and funding. You know there are things your voter base cares passionately about, that they have no hope of ever getting from Republicans, but unfortunately they are also things the big ticket donors despise. So, what do you do? You'll have to steer away from policies that will break the coalition and split the vote. You'll have to steer away from topics that will frighten the donor class. When faced with that challenge of keeping the Left (mostly) united AND getting that sweet donor cash, most mainstream Democrats tend to pivot away from wedge issues and policies, and focus more on process. Y'know, uncontroversial things like bipartisanship, decorum, and compromise. And while we're all sick of the lack of these things in DC, they're not things Democrats can make happen all by themselves, and more importantly, none of them are results, they're means.