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Lesbians being anti-trans is a lesbophobic trope (www.gaytimes.co.uk)

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[-] Blahaj_Blast 9 points 1 year ago

I agree. As a newly realized member of this community this stuff is very difficult and disheartening for me. It makes me afraid to pursue finding a more authentic self, because, what if I end up more alone? I already have a very lonely life, and can't imagine becoming more unlovable.

[-] Zummy@beehaw.org 9 points 1 year ago

Seek out others in the community, we are all here for you!! :)

While I also can't say this as a 100% guarantee, it's a pretty common story for those seeking their more authentic self to become happier and that usually helps them find and maintain some social ties easier! It's amazing how much more comfortable and confident you can be when you're really you, and other people love being around someone like that! (This was the case for myself and like 5 other people I know out of my rather already small friend group)

I hope you find somewhere where you can put those anxieties to rest for a bit <3

[-] Blahaj_Blast 1 points 1 year ago

I have known I need some irl connections for a while, and was browsing Meetup looking for the right event at the right time and then covid basically killed half the groups I was watching. I've been trying to find some local LGBT+ groups because I really need some open minded friends.

I've been hanging out on blahåj lemmy for a bit, and it has been by far one of my favorite instances. Beehaw is up there too though! Definitely the best two larger ones I've come across.

I've been checking out some discord servers too and it's nice sometimes to drop into an ongoing chat, but these really only go so far as they're still fairly impersonal.

I've not found any local discords, assuming they must be private if they exist.