how and when did you find out your sexuality? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by Bicyclejohn@lemmy.ml to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

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Here's my story.

Sometime in April a guy who was a friend of a friend started touching me, yes I know I should have not let this happen but I found him kinda hot so I let him touch me. Started questioning when I got home. I then developed a slight crush on him but got over it after a few weeks. At this point I figured out that I might be bi. I'm currently questioning what label of bi I fall under. I might be omni or just plain old bi

I should have handled the situation differently but it caused me to learn about myself.

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[-] interolivary@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

Honestly so am I. I'm much happier.

[-] Bicyclejohn@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I wish I had the balls to come out to family. Hate being closeted but I'm not sure if coming out is safe. Family is kinda open minded but super religious

[-] interolivary@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

Yikes, that does sound like a conundrum. I haven't come out to my parents either, they're in their 80's and I've figured I'm getting off easier by not telling them and basically haven't bothered. But I get why someone would want to have their family know, too.