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Wish me luck! I'm about 10bpm away from a heart attack 😭

Edit: After removing my hoodie and revealing my top, my mother gave me the dirtiest look I've ever received from her. She complimented my jorts and belt, that was it. This sent me into a really bad dysphoric spiral. Grandma keeps misgendering me. Everyone treating me like a person feels forced. Currently crying in the bathroom. I want to die

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[-] Lehmuusa@nord.pub 11 points 2 hours ago

I'm super envious for your style! (And body, you're lucky with that one!)

And it feels horrible what you now tell your relatives have done with you. It's entirely unfounded. What did your cousin think of your style?

[-] AnxiousMiisha 6 points 2 hours ago

He didn't even see me properly. I swapped my pretty red top for a T shirt and a bra under that.

I feel like a failure. Once, just once I wanted to wear something cute in front of other people and then this happens.

[-] aketawi@quokk.au 5 points 1 hour ago

relatives can be the nastiest, I'm sorry.some people just can't reconcile that someone can change so much. for what it's worth, I think you look great in it, genuinely

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