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I know comparison is the thief of joy, but if your shoulders are broad, then what are mine... 🥲 Anyway, yeah, Vinted is very cost effective once you know your sizes and are not outgrowing your clothes every month (guess who's getting a big butt).
buy skirts, i think they can adapt
I don't wear skirts because of dysphoria (and transphobic parents, that doesn't help) :(
Jealous of your big butt 😂. Also really, honestly happy for you. Everyone deserves a big butt :3
God I hope I'm not growing anymore (except for fat distribution, of course). If I could even maybe shrink a bit, that'd be amazing.
By outgrowing, I meant fat "redistribution", sorry if this wasn't clear (English is hard, boobs are soft).
My thighs are squishy now, it's very affirming. :3
But now I have only one jean left that I can fit into, at this rate I'm going to have to walk naked in the streets lol.
Ah, I understand.
Boobs are indeed soft :3
Why are mine so small tho? 😭
Your thighs are also soft, it seems. Happy for you girl!
You know, I've considered that once, when all of my clothes were dirty and needed to be washed. I don't think the other people would like that tho 🤣
Small boobs are best boobs too, don't let anyone tell you otherwise!