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submitted 3 days ago by RetroHax@feddit.org to c/mtf

As explained in my Last Post regardfing Phimosis i do have a Dick which itd like to keep >.<

and for that exact reason i will never be able to wear Female Underwear or Bikinis :c
While Female Underwear i can atleast compensate for via Man Slips (because fuck Boxers theyre cringe even before i found out i was Trans >:c) but its very Frustrating that i cant do anything for Bikinis :c

Especially as someone who wants a Smol Boobs, Huge, Dick and Big Butt Combo and would love to be A Cup or Max B Cup due to me being Enby and also liking to wear Mens Clothes ts very annoying overall to be in such Situations :c

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[-] Kayday@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I don't intend to keep my thing, but I have been wearing these for about 2 years while also having said thing.

Don't let your dreams be dreams!

Edit: Also, lots of women have found ways to tuck and wear a bikini. I haven't tried, but it's possible.

[-] RetroHax@feddit.org 6 points 2 days ago

oooo these look nice :0
But sucks that theyre on Amazon as i dont even have an Account on there >.<
Will see if i can find similiar ones on Other Sites or maybe even in my Local Clothes SHops >.<
I never tried tucking because it feels very Scary and hurts for a long time >.<

[-] Nikki 5 points 2 days ago

tucking gets easier once you get some shrinkage from hrt, I still can't though it makes me nauseous :(

[-] RetroHax@feddit.org 3 points 2 days ago

I have Phimosis tho so i alrwady am scared of taking HRT due to it meaning i cant move my Foreskin at all :c

[-] Kayday@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

The key to get high waisted ones imo, wherever you find them.
These ones are meant for postpartum women, so they are meant to be a little more stretchy and accommodating in that area, which happens to also make them appropriate for our needs.

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