Looking for saphic BDSM starter guide (self.lascivious_lesbians)

submitted 6 days ago by SharkWeek to c/lascivious_lesbians@piefed.blahaj.zone

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/42631968

So, this is not for me, but for my wife ... long story short, she's never done this before, but has met a nice but very subby lady and wants to try some b/d d/s (but definitely no s/m).

I've tried talking her through, and demonstrating, some basic stuff, but she said it's weird learning from me ... I've given her my old copy of Learning the Ropes, but outside of that everything I've found online seems to just be porn rather than an instruction manual.

Does anyone know of additional resources for this?

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[-] dumples@piefed.social 1 points 4 days ago

Both are worth reading.

I also recommend Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns. It's definitely not sapphic specific (the man is the dom and women is a sub in the couple and they use that languages throughout the book) but got some more specific instructions. Tristan Taormino (who does a lot of sex positive books and activism) has one as well that's worth looking into called: The Ultimate Guide to Kink. Have fun

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