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Help in the boosum department
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this post was submitted on 15 Apr 2026
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Interesting, now I regret telling my wife to throw out her old bras last month lol. Dunno if they would have worked but maybe I would have gotten lucky. Oh well
Lol I am just glad they're a bit of a pack-rat, and they've got a couple bags of "old clothes", some never worn, gifts etc, they've been meaning to donate, but once we found out about an LGBT group that hosts a "free market" where you basically bring donations (or not if you don't have any) and browse for things you might need. It's been pretty much a clothing swap for all the trans members lol
I'm just lucky they canceled the last two meetings, or I wouldn't have anything left. Sucks they canceled this month though, I would have loved to go. I've got a bunch of clothing I never plan on wearing and some of the transmascs in the group are close to my size, one of whom explicitly said they wanted to find some shorts like the ones I had on at the time.
Sorry I tend to ramble....
Maybe you could find a foam push up bra at a thrift store, and might be able to utilize it? Worth a try!
Thank you for sharing your advices!
As a clothing swap organizer myself, I can only suggest that you consider offering help to make it happen next month 😘
Ramble away I love it! I will definitely check out the local thrifts and see if my town has similar clothes swap! Thanks again, you are being super helpful
No problem, girl! Good luck finding something!