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"Still not over the American woman who was super surprised to see so many men walking around with strollers and generally looking after their children alone during her travels through the Nordic countries."

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[-] CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 26 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

This is a BS justification imo

Being alone with your own child is not considered suspicious. Hanging out alone with out a child at a playground sure. Having your own kid in your cart at the grocery store? Absolutely not

[-] ThirdConsul@lemmy.zip 30 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Hanging out alone with out a child at a playground sure

Here in Poland playgrounds are often extended with a public outdoor gym or something similar. That solves all problems, making them social centers for both child-free and parents.

E.g.

With fenced playground:

And no fence anywhere

[-] nevetsg@aussie.zone 9 points 5 days ago

Same thing in Australia. I love getting a quick workout whilst the kids play. The kids love the gym equipment as well.

[-] Mothra@mander.xyz 4 points 5 days ago

Wait, I haven't seen these outdoor gyms around in Sydney. Granted, I'm not paying close attention to playgrounds, in which cities have you seen them?

[-] nevetsg@aussie.zone 4 points 5 days ago

Nearly every largish playground in western Sydney has some near by. I have also seen them in nearly every playground I have visited in Brisbane area.

[-] Mothra@mander.xyz 4 points 5 days ago

I'll keep my peepers open

[-] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 days ago

But that’s the problem. People here see grown man + child, come to a conclusion, and only accept evidence that reinforces it. It doesn’t matter if it’s your kid, there’s enough idiots that refuse to believe that that your child and you are now in danger.

[-] rudyharrelson@lemmy.radio 14 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Don't buy too much into all the ragebait on the internet. I take my kid to the park all the time and no one has ever so much as looked at me sideways. And no other fathers solo-parenting their kids at the park have ever been accosted during the many, many hours I've spent there.

Yes, some idiots foolishly assume man+kid=danger, but this is not a typical reaction at all. People who react negatively and make a scene are an extreme minority.

[-] Instigate@aussie.zone 5 points 5 days ago

From an Australian perspective: I agree. I was a foster care case manager for a fair while and whenever I was looking after kids in public I was hyperaware of being accused of something, but I never was. Not even weird looks or glances or anything like that. On the contrary, random women would often compliment me on being a good guardian for the kids because I’d love to muck around and play with them rather than just watch while they played.I slowly deconstructed that fear over time and am in a much better place with it now.

[-] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 4 points 5 days ago

Are you an American? Because that’s pretty common here.

[-] rudyharrelson@lemmy.radio 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Yes, I'm an American. Are you speaking from personal experience, or going off of what you see online? Because the horror stories you see online are not representative of the whole of society. The scary and outlandish stories make headlines and get shared around by people. Nobody shares links to videos or writes articles about "Father goes to park with kids, everybody is chill and nobody panics".

[-] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago

I’m also American. This is what I see all the time.

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