You're confusing two different issues. I am aware the mods for this community rightfully eliminated my post to prevent harassment, which I would have preferred it be Directly messaged for me to correct. That, we agree upon, so I am thankful for the act.

However, this same praxis without messaging the person first is why the other community that shunned me is in dire authoritarian praxis. I found the actions here similar, if not better, than what I experienced in the shunning community I mentioned at the removed comment. That community in question has nothing to do with /c/Trans_Memes.

I am explaining why I have to live in woods, and live with like-minded folks. It's not being misgendered that troubles me, but society rejecting my intellect.

Regarding that NPD quote depends on a fact nice people exist, neutrals, and assholes. If you live in a society that wants to kill you for being trans, or in my case, too bright, am I the asshole for choosing to abstain?

Edited the comment where I see the confusion laid.