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I'm a gay man. I absolutely hate people who pander to us just as much as people who hate us.

The same should apply to trans groups, I sincerely doubt every trans individual wants to be placed on a pedestal at all times.

Result? Banned from a community.

Power trip confirmed 👍.

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[-] androidul@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

don’t, just don’t waste energy with mods.

I’ve lost an account because I stated an opinion that was against the herd.

This is how moderation is on lemmy, one herd opinion, if yours is different you get banned

[-] MystValkyrie 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Do communites based on specific sociocultural groups not meant for general Lemmings have the right to set rules amongst themselves?

I want to pose the idea that there are forums better suited for discussion/debate on the philosophy of gender and its adjacent politics that are not c/transfem.

[-] androidul@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

it’s not about that, it’s about freedom of speech, which clearly doesn’t exist on Lemmy

[-] ada 19 points 1 week ago

To be clear, it explicitly doesn't exist on blahaj lemmy instances and their communities. We put the safety and needs of trans and gender diverse folk first and foremost. If someone does a transphobia, however civil and legal, it's going to get removed from blahaj communities, free speech or not, because protecting the needs of trans folk is a higher priority for us than protecting the ability for people to harass trans folk.

[-] androidul@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

understood, thank you for emphasizing that

[-] MystValkyrie 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Must it? I value Freedom of Speech and the First Amendment. I also value organizations creating rules to keep things on-topic and safe. I think this duality can be understood by the Nazi bar maxim, involving bartenders who kick out a patron with a swastika patch on their jacket. It's a delicate balance, free speech and effective community organization, but an important one. Free speech is important and should be protected to the maximum extent possible while preserving safety, but absolute free speech not worth setting the groundwork of a second Halocaust over. Modern Germany knows this and enacts this balance via its laws.

To be honest, it sounds like 4chan or the Libertarian-moderated parts of Reddit might be a better place for you, based on your use case. And that's okay -- Lemmy isn't a desert island. You could also try establishing and moderating your own Lemmy community. I'm not sure how much traction you'd get based on our userbase, but you could give it a shot.

[-] androidul@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

let’s just agree to disagree

[-] eugenevdebs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago

let's just agree to disagree that I can say what I want with no consequences, that's my freedom, not yours

[-] androidul@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

sure, if that’s your opinion, I respect it

[-] breadsmasher@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

Did you know!

MuH FrEeDum oF sPeEcH is an american thing.

[-] princessnorah 3 points 5 days ago

So glad to live in a country where hate speech isn't legal 😌

[-] androidul@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

go to bed kiddo, it’s too late for you at this time

[-] breadsmasher@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago

So you didnt know that?

[-] eugenevdebs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago

You have the freedom of speech. They're just not required to be your platform, or listen to it.

[-] androidul@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago
[-] technocrit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago

I’ve lost an account because I stated an opinion that was against the herd.

Ofc no mention of the "opinion" in question.

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