how do i take things slow with my gf? (thelemmy.club)

submitted 2 weeks ago by nonBInary@thelemmy.club to c/lesbians

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so, we are holding hands but she doesn’t wanna kiss or anything because she wants to wait a while so we take it slow because i started dating her a week ago. however, i am very attached and expressive with my love and she is… less?? how can we make things work and how do i make it so i change and take things slower??

Right now, i’m too bummed out and depressed to want to be romantic or attached, so that’s “good” i guess

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[-] oftheair 4 points 2 weeks ago

This is bad and nonconsensual advice and likely to end the relationship or at least give someone trauma.

[-] spykee@lemmings.world 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

@Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world
Alright alright alright
Yes, I know OP is asking for suggestions & I'm being a dildo.
I take it back.
Just lemme hang out with y'all.

[-] oftheair 2 points 2 weeks ago

Thanks, though we'd say there's nothing wrong with dildos, especially in a lesbian community 😉

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