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[-] ThunderComplex@lemmy.today 10 points 15 hours ago

Do people in high school really know when your birthday is and give you gifts?

[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

not gifts, but i'd throw parties every year with about 50-60 people attending. my 18th had about 100. We had a large yard.

[-] ThunderComplex@lemmy.today 3 points 4 hours ago

Dayum. I always thought big birthday parties were a Hollywood thing.

[-] Jiggle_Physics@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Nah, the hollywood portrayal, outside of everyone looking like 25 year old models, and having stylized dialogue, was pretty on point from my experience.

[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago

i'm a musician. had several larger social groups, and then there's the people who haven't figured out how dorky musicians actually are and think we're cool.

[-] ThunderComplex@lemmy.today 2 points 3 hours ago

I’m a musician too but back then all I was was extremely socially awkward (we’re talking Bocchi would look normal next to me).

[-] Ephera@lemmy.ml 3 points 7 hours ago

If people were generally nice to him, I can see someone with autism getting excited for their birthday and announcing it to everyone weeks beforehand...

[-] compostgoblin 3 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Sometimes! At my high school, it was a thing for your friends to decorate your locker for your birthday as a surprise. One year my friends covered my locker in Christmas wrapping paper with a giant drawing of a dog on it, because our running gag at the time was that my hairstyle made me look like a spaniel

[-] SkyeStarfall 3 points 12 hours ago

Depends on the people, but sure, sometimes!

[-] Luffy879@lemmy.ml 5 points 15 hours ago
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