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[-] pebbles@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

The only place I see those terms used to describe benign behavior is in rage bait. My guess is that you haven't heard someone use those terms in a serious way because of an internet bubble or something.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mansplaining Wikipedia says it originated as a call out for internalized misogyny, but now is used very generally.

I bet you could find info on the rest pretty easily.

Also its real ironic that your comment meets the definition of mansplaining lol.

"(for a man) to comment on or explain something, to a woman, in a condescending, overconfident, and often inaccurate or oversimplified manner".[1][2][3][4]

I'm not a woman though, but if any read your comment then you meet the strict definition lol.

[-] resipsaloquitur@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Asking someone to explain mansplaining is mansplaining. Got it.

[-] pebbles@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 month ago

Homie I gotta stop biting. If you can't see how your comment was:

  • overconfident
  • inaccurate
  • oversimplified
  • and could be read as condescending

Idk what to tell ya.

Good luck out there.

[-] resipsaloquitur@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Asking someone to explain something is none of those things.

[-] pebbles@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago

Oh yeah you are 100% right. It was the rest of the comment.

[-] pebbles@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago

BTW I think you are a fine fella. Sorry I didn't say that more. I wish ya the best.

[-] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

You asked, but then gave three inaccurate statements that have already had detailed answers about the meaning. It isn't mansplaining because you weren't directing it at a woman, but the comment as a whole would fit the definition if it was directed at a woman.

Can someone mansplain mansplaining to me? It seems like any time someone with a beard inhales sharply.

Kind of like how manspreading is men sitting down.

And the male gaze is men looking at things.

All three terms are more nuanced than that even if some people ignore the context and use them in a sexist way against men in general. There will always be a number of people who use words incorrectly.

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