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Banned over fish joke
(lemmy.sdf.org)
This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.
Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.
All posts should follow this basic structure:
Expect to receive feedback about your posts, they might even be negative.
Make sure you follow this instance's code of conduct. In other words we won't allow bellyaching about being sanctioned for hate speech or bigotry.
YTPB matrix channel: For real-time discussions about bastards or to appeal mod actions in YPTB itself.
Some acronyms you might see.
Relevant comms
Y'know, concentrating power in the hands of a single person / group defeats the purpose of decentralisation.
I can understand if the damage is limited to communities within a single instance, but when a ban is so far-reaching - across so many instances - it makes me wonder what's the point of choosing Lemmy over, say, Reddit.
It's still the same problem again, just with different people in charge - like Bluesky vs Twitter.
lemmy fixes admin abuse, not mod abuse.
It doesn't "fix" admin abuse either - see feddit.org situation. It only helps with admin abuse as the bans apply to part of the universe rather that to the entire Lemmy.
Yes, that's how it fixes it. You cannot be banned from lemmy, only individual servers.
That is not "fixing". It is partial remedy.
Life isn't perfect.
Sadly.
If it were perfect for you, how many more would find it intolerable? Ideally, we can live and let live. Life isn't ideal, either.
I think it's as much of a fix as is possible. If your problem is the owner or admin of the server your best solution is to leave. On reddit that meant leaving reddit. On lemmy it means you have to find another instance
My understanding is it works slightly differently.
It means that all users of an instance which banned you won't be able to see your comments even if these are made on another instance. It therefore stops you from participating with all the users of the instance which banned you, even on other instances.
Thus my comment about the limited remedy.
The alternative would be taking away power from instance owners, which is its own form of abuse.
The only 'problem' here is that most communities are proud to abuse their power when it suits them.
The solution is to make more communities that do not abuse their power. Unfortunately, people are afraid to do that because the abusive instances with threaten to "defederate" from instances that do not share the same agendas.
How is it only a partial remedy?
Because you still can be banned across individual servers so multiple communities, sometimes very large - and there isn't anyone who can unban you when it happens.
I don't see any solution to that that doesn't end up horribly.
I do.
Admins should have an ability to unban but not to ban people so essentially to control moderators but not to be moderators themselves. Moderators shouldn't be allowed to moderate more than a couple of communities.
Alternatively "membership" of Lemmy would be conditional upon acceptance of appeal process where admins of different instance(s) would decide if someone should be unbanned.
The second part is almost completely impossible to do.
Difficult, yeah. Impossible, no. It could be one of conditions of using the software. But I am not claiming it is easy.
Lemmy's license forbids doing this.
Other software could be developed to use it instead.
Yeah, the problem of modreach is definitely not a solved problem. The other problem, of all discourse being directly controllable from on high by a profit-driven company, however, is solved by lemmy. I believe that was the original issue lemmy was meant to handle. And that problem does seem to be solved. We'll just have to handle the problem of public official reach the way we normally would.
Mods can accidentally hit the ban all option on the Tesseract frontend. Accidents do happen.
Distrust me if you want to.
how did OP get banned in servers from so many different instances?
thats why lemmy needs to adopt a crowd sourced, prestige based moderation system and get rid of individual mods
Yeah no, this would not work well. Minorities often experience being downvoted in great number and out-ratioed by those that have no understanding of what they go through (your regular lemmy user). It would just result in the ultimate echo chamber where largely only liberal white cishets have anything to say. At least as things are now queers can have a queer instance and feel safe there, even if things are not ideal.
Sorry no, it's clear no one here is capable of rational thought. Maybe consider researching what a prestige based moderating system is.
Tell us rather than insult us? There's nothing useful on the first page of results if I search for "prestige based moderating system" in duckduckgo.
Crowd sourced moderation squashes small voices, squashes unpopular voices. It's not a good solution
So what you're saying is you don't understand what prestige based moderation is? Ok. And no I'm not wasting my time educating your intellectually dishonest ass
You do seem to be putting a lot of effort into telling people they don't know what you're talking about rather than telling people what you're talking about
And calling me a liar? I made it clear which part of your comment I was addressing.
Nah, because any mod that didn't subscribe to groupthink would get banned by you all.
I can see how your modlog got so full. Are you always like this? How do you get but in the real world?
Like each person could vote things up or down, and if they vote them up they get more attention and down votes would bury the content!
Not really.
You can make your own instance and moderate it better. You can split up power however you want.
There's a fine line and I guess it can happen when one isn't experienced enough or jaded.
For example, I don't think banning pitbull or staffie dogs is great. They are loving, loyal dogs if well-socialized by someone with the time, temperament, and consistency to do so. Banning these beautiful animals often means they are sent to shelters and euthanized wholesale, because they can't be placed . They didn't ask to be born, either.
Nonetheless, when I saw a pinned post in the"Ban Pit Bulls” community, I refrained from posting, even if it did seem rather an incongruent view alongside militant veganism. I'd already argued my points which were vehemently rejected.
But yptb just seems like a lot of whining by people unable to self-soothe and self-validate, imo, and I know people are going to be extremely offended by my saying so.
When was this? The one I used to see in All got new moderation (the mod being discussed) who introduced, what I thought, were reasonable rules to encourage actual discourse.
I get what you're saying about it before but, assuming they're being fairly enforced, I assume it's got to be better there now.
Oh that's encouraging. Maybe I missed it before. I don't currently own any, but I'm still ok with the breed in general.
We do and I feel like you do. That's why that community used to bug me so much.
I learned first hand that having a pit or pit mix is a lot different and they take a very patient owner and consistent method of training.
Yes, they can be stubborn! That said, I've been guilty of that.