I feel bad for not waking up 😭 (lemmy.ml)

submitted 3 days ago by wendyz@lemmy.ml to c/lesbians

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So, I was on a call with my fiancée and I started to get really tired.

I fell asleep and she whispered my name several times before saying it and having to shout it 😭 I feel so bad, she had a nightmare and wanted me to comfort her.

She felt bad about waking me, but i tell her to when she has a nightmare so I can be there for her. She says I look peaceful asleep though, so she hates doing it 😓

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[-] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 16 points 3 days ago

She had a nightmare while on the call with you? So she also fell asleep?

I dunno, to me it seems like a good sign that you're both so comfy with each other that you fall asleep on a call. I tend to have nightmares too, so I try to stay awake as long as possible (not on purpose, it's just how it is). So when I find someone that makes me feel safe enough to sleep, that's a big deal.

[-] alucard@feddit.org 5 points 3 days ago

Some people do sleep calls, where they are on a call the whole night while they sleep. So the purpose is to fall asleep and being on the call until the morning.

I don't do that, it's not my thing at all, so I can't tell anything beyond that. Also not sure if that's what OP does, but it reminded me of it.

[-] wendyz@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 days ago

That’s exactly what I do!! :)

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