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Did you even say 'thank you'?
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While this person definitely sounds like a giant douche, it is in fact best practice to send a thank you email after an interview.
Yeah, it's unfortunately good advice. Hearing it from a hiring manager in a "dance my puppet" way makes me want to vomit though.
The asshat in OP's image isn't representational of people who hire people in the average, every-day world.
In reality, most hiring is done by mid-level managers who have to interview dozens of people a week on top of doing their own work, and it's tiring and you don't get paid extra for it, and if you pick the wrong candidate your own ass is canned.
Yah, it really does help your chances if you show even a shred of actual desire to work there.
Grovel at their feet from the beginning to show they can walk all over you in the future.
LOL fuck that. We each shared our precious time. I will thank you for yours at the end of each session.
Actually, this did remind me of the time that a recruiter gave me a thank-you gift at the end of an interview. He was very respectful of my time.
The interviewee is getting an opportunity. There's a clear imbalance of power, but it's not wholly exploitative.
That being said, I do remind my interviewees to not worry about my time during the interview, because I'm getting paid to be there, and it's more fun than a meeting.
Yes, thank your masters for considering you for further exploitation
This is normal
This is good
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You know, you don't HAVE to get a job.
Do you have a good relationship with your parents?
Do you have any older, wealthier people in your neighborhood who expressed that you're attractive?
Do you or your family have paid-off land that can be worked for sustenance?
There are TONS of options other than working!
The other perspective is that after digging through literally hundreds or thousands of applications, I picked you and we both took a huge chunk out of our day to try to connect. Did you like the interview? Did you have questions after? Did I do a good job explaining the role? There's so much left unsaid after an interview that it does help to give a hiring manager closure, particularly if they have to interview a dozen other people that day. You're not dancing for my enjoyment, you're showing you care more than the 11 other people who shrugged and wandered off after without thinking about it. And the hundreds more in the following week or weeks.
I'm just more likely to remember people who seem engaged and enthusiastic to work.
It's so weird tbh. It's a mutual need, they want people I want a job โ why don't I ever get an email thanking me for my time?
To increase your chances send an additional email offering to wash your interviewer car for free. /s
Just no.
Say 'thank you for your time' when leaving the interview.
This. It's time consuming and it sucks, but it makes you stand out. Job hunting is truly half skills, half theatrics after all
Lol half? I'd say about a 20-80 split.
I've hired (low) dozens of people in public sector environments, and neither myself nor anyone on my hiring panels has ever cared if we receive a post-interview thank you. Maybe private sector is different, but I'd just as soon not have you clog up my inbox with thanks or make a post-interview pitch about your skills/excitement.
If you say thanks in the room, we're square. Likewise, I always thank people for their interest and time in the role.
Not in software development. Maybe in other career paths though.
if a thank you email is the difference between being hired and not, you are a cog
keep your resume up to date