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submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml to c/adhd@lemmy.world

I'm completely inept at organizing changes in my life, which means I waste a many weeks being 'stuck' when I could be out living/working somewhere interesting/etc. I was watching Top Gear the other day and I realized that what I really need is to have 'producers' like they do on the show who take care of the logistics of things so that the protagonist can just sail through. I realize that this doesn't come for free so I would be willing to join a group where one such plan is made for the whole group, or switch to a job where having someone plan your life (at least the working part) is a requirement of the job. In other words, I am willing to trade some of my sovereignty/independence for this. Any recommendations? (Just for context, I am not in the US and I'm not old.)

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[-] SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago

I wish! The latter unfortunately hasn't cut it so far so I'm looking to get myself into situations where someone does the former for me as an inherent part of that situation (hence for free).

[-] BenLeMan@lemmy.world 9 points 18 hours ago

If the therapist doesn't cut it you best cut the therapist. Make sure it's not you who is preventing the therapy from being successful, though.

[-] BaroqueInMind@lemmy.one 12 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Would you do this for someone else for free?

I am asking you this because I have no idea why anyone would want to do this for free for anyone, let alone you (no offense and apologies if I'm sounding abrasive).

Also, how in the fuck is therapy not cutting it for you? Please elaborate!

this post was submitted on 08 Mar 2025
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