13
submitted 18 hours ago by dipshit@lemm.ee to c/asktransgender

Do you think it's purely hateful or do you think it has some merit in certain contexts?

Personally I think it is a transphobic and dehumanizing term that objectifies and sexualizes trans women based on our anatomy, that should never be used in any context, but I'd love to hear what other people think.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[-] i_dont_want_to 7 points 11 hours ago

I'm not cis but I'm not a trans woman.

That term seems a bit icky to me. It seems to originate as a porn category. Using it outside of the context of porn makes it seem like the focus on the woman is about what she is sexually rather than who she is.

I can't really see a more charitable use of the term, besides someone reclaiming it for themselves. (Much like "queer" or the f slur for gay men.)

this post was submitted on 23 Feb 2025
13 points (100.0% liked)

AskTransgender

342 readers
51 users here now

A place to ask transgender people questions and get answers about the trans experience.


Rules:

  1. Respect other people's identities

  2. No Fetishizing Trans people

  3. No Gatekeeping about not being "trans enough"

  4. No Inciting Drama

  5. No personal Agendas

  6. Posts should encourage discussion


founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS