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[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 103 points 5 months ago

live... Cross examinations

Of minors in a court setting. What better way to intimidate children into not coming forward than the idea of being put into a spectacle to relive your horror.

[-] Mirshe@lemmy.world 48 points 5 months ago

Yeah, imagine putting a 13-year-old girl on the stand, in front of reporters, judges, lawyers, potentially their rapist, and definitely their parents, and having them go blow-by-blow with a lawyer who's already adversarial in nature and out to catch them in a lie, or confuse them, and likely has been doing this work for years.

No, this couldn't possibly be a good reason for kids to shut the fuck up when a teacher or another kid molests them. Being a kid is already hard enough, going through a sexual assault is hard, so let's pile a huge media spectacle (that will likely make it onto everyone at school's social media feeds) on top of all that trauma AND force them to relive it in front of everyone for the express purpose of the defense lawyer trying to catch you in a gotcha.

[-] Schadrach@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 5 months ago

Not the structure of these things. Presuming as media has been reporting Trump has basically just tossed the Biden changes (which were largely a reinstatement of Obama-era rules and reverting the 2018 Trump changes, barring some of the ones that lawsuits were lost over) and rolled back to the 2018 version, the way it works is more like this:

  1. You have a specific person whose job is to function as a judge-analog for these hearings, and a specific person who functions as a prosecutor-analog. It's typically the Title IX coordinator and someone working under them. Under Trump rules, these are required to be different people while under Biden and Obama era rules your judge-analog and prosecutor-analog could be the same person.
  2. The accused is allowed to have a lawyer present under Trump rules, and must have a faculty assistant familiar with the process if they do not have a lawyer. Under Biden and Obama era rules it was acceptable for a school to bar the accused from having a lawyer present or any other representation.
  3. Yes, live hearings are required, but it's not what you're implying. Either party can request the hearing be done by teleconference if they don't want to be in the room for any reason. Normally it's only the accused, accuser, a lawyer or faculty assistant for the accused, prosecutor and judge analogs and possibly parents or corroborating witnesses if either party requests them present. There's no huge media spectacle like you're implying, it's normally a closed hearing.
  4. Yes, cross-examination is required, but it's also not what you are implying. The accused is not allowed to ask questions directly and any questions have to be approved by the judge-analog before they can be asked. The main difference between Biden/Obama and Trump guidelines here is that the questions are asked and answered on the spot, rather than questions regarding testimony by the accuser being submitted in writing and allowing them as long as they need to write the most effective possible answers they can think of. Testimony of the accused has always been live and subject to questioning with no real guardrails.
  5. Let's not forget that the standard for punishment in this case is at the strictest "clear and convincing" (more convincing than preponderance but less than beyond a reasonable doubt) and is often "preponderance of the evidence" (literally slightly more likely than not). The Obama/Biden guidelines were that the standard must be "preponderance".
  6. The accused is required to have timely access to what they are being accused of and what evidence will be brought, so that it is possible to formulate a defense.
  7. The accused is required to have access to the training materials used to teach faculty about these procedures and standards, so that the accused can know what to expect at all.
  8. Under Trump guidelines, you cannot punish the accused until after the a finding is arrived at. You can make changes as needed for the comfort of the accuser before any hearing, but nothing punitive (for example you can change the schedules of one or both so they don't share classes, change housing arrangements, etc but not for example suspend someone for having been accused without a hearing and finding happening).

Most of these are pretty basic fairness and due process things.

I don't think you realize what Title IX guidelines were like under Obama, some of the shit that was allowed or expected. Like the accused having no guidance or representation through the process and in some cases explicitly not being allowed to have a lawyer. Not being allowed to know what evidence was being brought against them or even necessarily exactly what they were accused of until the hearing or very shortly before. Having faculty trained using training materials (which the accused was not allowed to see) that explicitly say that women never ever lie but that men will say whatever they need to, in a system where the margin to be found liable is slightly more likely than not (note I said men and women here and not accused or accuser, because the materials in question were explicitly gendered once the guy accused in one case sued to be allowed to see them). There was a case where a guy accused a girl, and after being informed of the accusation responded by accusing him so his accusation was deemed retaliatory and shut down while hers was allowed to proceed.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Of minors in a court setting.

Hopefully, this is mostly about colleges. I really don't want to think that minors raping minors is a common issue in the US. ...Somehow, I am afraid to check now.

What better way to intimidate children into not coming forward than the idea of being put into a spectacle to relive your horror.

I am not saying it is ideal, but it is not an unmoderated spectacle either. There generally are protections for underage witnesses and witnesses in general even in courts, which this is not. Between that and just assuming a person is guilty, it is the lesser evil to have them testify.

In addition, the fact prosecutors repeatedly refused to prosecute for false accusations when those came to light clearly shows this policy was never done in good fate. Life destroying consequences for the accused with next to no recourse but no consequences for the accuser when they are caught lying is just ridiculous.

[-] curbstickle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 27 points 5 months ago

Hopefully, this is mostly about colleges

It is not.

Title IX rules for federally funded K-12 schools

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

You made me think for a moment it was only about K-12 since you left out the "and colleges" part.

Anyway, it is even shittier if they forced minors to face such serious accusations without a lawyer or other adequate representation.

[-] prole 10 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Why are you here? You see people upset about Trump, and your first reaction is "these people are overreacting".

Then people explain to you why it's not an overreaction, and once you actually understand what's happening, you agree?

And yet you continue anyway?

I see you.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

You see people upset about Trump, and your first reaction is "these people are overreacting".

When did I say that?

[-] prole 6 points 5 months ago

Did I fucking say you said it?

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

Are you able to read minds? If I didn't say it, why are you assuming that was my reaction.

[-] prole 8 points 5 months ago

The word of the day is "implication."

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

Then you are bead and understanding implications because I did not imply anything of the kind.

[-] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 5 points 5 months ago

You absolutely did, stop backpedaling. Own your ugly.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

You just prove my point of so many Americans being too dumb to understand nuance exists.

[-] Bronzebeard@lemm.ee 6 points 5 months ago

This is the same kind of dumbass shit we saw defending him during the impeachment. "He didn't literally say the words quid pro quo so you can't claim that's what he was doing".

Smart people do not think this way. They don't need actions to have corresponding exposition to figure out what is going on

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

Smart people do not think this way.

Then you are not as smart as you think you are, because you are imagining things that I did not do.

[-] prole 3 points 5 months ago

Listen... Nobody here knows who you are. You don't need to save face... Maybe you can take this time to reflect.

[-] ayyy@sh.itjust.works 23 points 5 months ago

There’s no “hopefully” or benefit of the doubt for this guy. He has been proven to be a rapist in court.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Who? Trump? Are you literally incapable of forming two sentences without talking about him?

[-] FauxPseudo@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago

Your comment reminds me of cars with Lets Go Brandon bumper stickers. Which all started with "impeach, the president and her husband too" bumper stickers during the Clinton administration. That's when people got so delusional. They started putting the opposition on their vehicle and letting them occupy space in their head full time.

And I know that's where you were going with your comment. The problem is in this particular situation you look like the person who is unhinged. The entire purpose of this group is about Trump. Every Post in it will be about Trump. Anybody replying to a post is replying about something Trump did. Any comment someone is replying to will be about Trump. This is like the one place where literally everyone has Trump on their mind because that's the entire reason for existing. So you comment just doesn't work. If someone wasn't thinking about Trump while commenting in here that means they've gotten off topic.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

My point is more along these lines: https://lemmy.world/comment/14877800

That people are bashing on a policy that is IMO good or at least not that bad because of who put it in place.

[-] FauxPseudo@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

If that was your point you did a horrible job of making it because you didn't address their point at all. You talked about their mindset. That's a complete failure of communication.

[-] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 4 points 5 months ago

It's bad because of what it is, it's gross because of who pushed it. You look like a child rapist apologist bud.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

Must be old, because I don't give a shit what I look like to stupid people.

[-] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 3 points 5 months ago

It's pretty fucked up that an accusation on such a level wouldn't even cause you a moments reflection. You're arguing in bad faith, making ad hominem attacks, and really look like a fool. Maybe stop replying to every single comment, show this to a friend you disagree with sometimes, and get their opinion. I reckon you're too cowardly for any of that but it's worth showing the way.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

ad hominem attacks

Oh no, watch out, he uses big words! Does that make you feel smart?

While judging arguments based on their speaker?

[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 15 points 5 months ago

Which would you rather have: more rapes, or more kids kicked out of school for false allegations?

If this is a hard question, then I hope you gain experiences that make it easier to decide. Learning is important.

Plus, the false allegation thing is kinda bunk. If it happens, then sue them for libel. Since there isn't a lot of that going on, I think it's less of an issue than, ya know, rape.

Anecdotally, I know four rape victims that didn't come forward. I know zero men who were falsely accused. I'm sure I'm not special in this regard.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Which would you rather have: more rapes, or more kids kicked out of school for false allegations?

It's a false dichotomy. There are other ways to prevent rape at schools without throwing away due process.

Plus, the false allegation thing is kinda bunk. If it happens, then sue them for libel. Since there isn't a lot of that going on, I think it's less of an issue than, ya know, rape.

Yes, because common students routinely have 10s of thousands of $ to pay for lawyers to probably not even get back the same amount.

Anecdotally, I know four rape victims that didn't come forward. I know zero men who were falsely accused. I'm sure I'm not special in this regard.

So you are saying throwing away due process did not even work to make them come forward in the first place, since this was repealed just now.

[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago

If there were other ways to prevent rape, they would be there already. So you're clearly wrong.

I agree we should provide free law services to people without money so they can get justice just like the rich people. Let's do that. And we can do that without endangering young girls.

There is no due process being thrown away. These people aren't going to jail. They're being kicked out of school. A school can kick out a child for literally anything that isn't a protected class. Rape allegations seems like a pretty good reason to kick someone out, especially compared to some other reasons people have been kicked out, like protesting.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

If there were other ways to prevent rape, they would be there already. So you're clearly wrong.

Ah, my bad. I did not realize a good government healthcare is not possible because it is not already there.

Also a shame safer roads are impossible to build, otherwise they already would have. Or walkable cities. Mass transit.

Yeah, something good not already existing clearly means it is not possible. I will give up any attempt to improve anything at once. /s

There is no due process being thrown away. These people aren't going to jail.

Oh, my apologies. Did not know anything that does not put you in jail does not deserve due process. You must be so angry at Luigi and his fans since clearly rejecting insurance claims is also not putting you in jail and does not deserve any due process. It is just financial ruin, same as having student loans without a degree. Not an issue at all. /s

A school can kick out a child for literally anything that isn't a protected class.

Ah yes, the "things are already bad so we should make them worse" argument. Also, its not even really true.

Seriously, what the fuck are these arguments of yours? You can't possibly believe them yourself. Are you just trying to retroactively come up with arguments for a policy you just insist on believing because the guy who said it had (D) after their name? Just making up arguments for others, without actually using them to shape your own opinions?

[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

Ok, so you agree there aren't things in place to prevent rape. Only that there could one day be. Great. Go do that. The lack of its current existence makes it irrelevant to the conversation. That's my point.

Due process is very very clearly a legal term. Private institutions aren't required to follow anything like it. You need to differentiate between what IS and what you wish were the case.

I don't care who made the rule. Fuck the Democrats. I care that women who are raped are being silenced. It's literally that simple.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Go do that.

Go elect me for office and I will. Until then, there is nothing I can do for you.

Due process is very very clearly a legal term. Private institutions aren't required to follow anything like it.

What the fuck do you think we are talking about this whole fucking time? Title IX mandates a process schools have to follow. Trumps changes bring it closer to what is considered a due process. The whole fucking conversation is about whether that is a good thing.

You need to differentiate between what IS and what you wish were the case.

It literally IS. You are the one seething that men are now actually granted reasonable due process protections.

I care that women who are raped are being silenced.

How the fuck are they being silenced? It literally requires the opposite, that they testify properly.

[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

I honestly can't make you understand this.

Just because a law says you have to do something doesn't make it due process. Registering your car isn't due process. You don't get due process unless you're in court. This isn't that. There is no court. A "hearing" of school officials isn't due process. There's no sentencing. There's no lawyers. There's no guilty or not guilty. There's a bunch of school admins doing a dance and then picking if you get kicked out.

How are they being silenced? Because anytime you make something harder, more embarrassing, or riskier, people won't do it. This is also not hard to understand.

Again, I can hear it in your words and tone. You WANT this to be true. You want women to be brave enough to always stand up for themselves. You WANT a fair process with legal style standards to impose true justice based on facts. This isn't that. It doesn't get you closer to that. All it does it shut women up by making it harder for them to do the right thing.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Just because a law says you have to do something doesn't make it due process.

So your entire argument is that I am misusing a word, because I am using it in the context of how it is commonly understood vs the legal definition? Yeah, great argument.

How are they being silenced? Because anytime you make something harder, more embarrassing, or riskier, people won't do it. This is also not hard to understand.

I understand that. I don't understand why you believe it is significantly harder or more embarrassing to have one more person (lawyer) in the room and to answer their questions, in addition to already having to tell the story to strangers appointed by the school anyway. It's nearly insignificant difference compared to how much damage false allegations do.

PS: If you want to pointlessly focus on word lawyering.

Citizens may also be entitled to have the government observe or offer fair procedures, whether or not those procedures have been provided for in the law on the basis of which it is acting. Action denying the process that is “due” would be unconstitutional. Suppose, for example, state law gives students a right to a public education, but doesn't say anything about discipline. Before the state could take that right away from a student, by expelling her for misbehavior, it would have to provide fair procedures, i.e. “due process.”

But I was never trying to talk about legal definition but the common sense right not to be punished by government law/regulation without reason.

[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Ah, okay. I'm sorry that I assumed you meant the word that you said and couldn't read your mind. I'll keep working on that telepathy, and you keep working on being accurate. One day we'll understand each other.

Now if what you want is fairness, explain to me how the administration on these panels can be unbiased when their salaries and jobs rely on the fact that they're not known as the "rape university". Explain to me how these victims could appeal an unfair judgment made by biased administration.

Our legal process is filled with ways to make sure you get a fair trial, and even then not everyone does. This kangaroo court they're setting up does not have any of those provisions and will not be fair. All it does is dissuade people from reporting.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

Our legal process is filled with ways to make sure you get a fair trial, and even then not everyone does. This kangaroo court they're setting up does not have any of those provisions and will not be fair. All it does is dissuade people from reporting.

So your alternative is, let's not even try to have a court with evidence, let's just have one kangoroo decide whose life gets ruined based on their prejudices.

Now if what you want is fairness, explain to me how the administration on these panels can be unbiased when their salaries and jobs rely on the fact that they're not known as the "rape university".

How is that not the current situation already? Also, since when this does not work the other way as well, not wanting to be known as "university that protects rapists"?

[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Ok good. Almost there.

So both systems (current and previous) are horribly unfair and prone to abuse by the administration. Right? We now agree on that, yes?

If I have to pick between an unfair system with extra rape, or an unfair system with extra kids getting kicked out of school for no reason, I'm picking the one with less rape.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

So both systems (current and previous) are horribly unfair and prone to abuse by the administration. Right? We now agree on that, yes?

Just because both systems are unfair does not mean one of them is not worse.

If I had to guess, I think we disagree on how much difference does having a lawyer present make. I believe the difference for victims is small. Making a rape victim slightly more uncomfortable compared to the current system and a rapist slightly more likely to go unpunished.

Many rape victims did not speak up even before this, because adding a lawyer is a drop in a bucket compared to everything else.

At the same time, the chance of expelling an innocent person goes down much more if you add the minimum protections of having someone speak up for the accused.

unfair system with extra kids getting kicked out of school for no reason

If the only consequence was being kicked out of their current school, I would agree with you. But being kicked out for SA will follow them. What other school will accept them? What employer will want to give a job to someone that they believe probably committed SA?

Sure, if they are a rich kid with a trust fund, expulsion probably does nothing to them anyway. Not having representation is going to screw over people who are vulnerable to begin with much more. People that are already unpopular. That the administration and others already have prejudice against.

But the biggest difference is not even this. Even if it was just a trolley problem with 3 people getting raped on one side and making one innocent person homeless on the other side (which I don't believe is the real ratio), there is an important difference with a hypothetical. That one innocent person sees you pulling the lever. His friends see you pulling the lever. Every person who is worried about being in that place (being falsely accused) sees you pulling the lever.

The number of people who will accept being "sacrificed for the greater good" willingly is miniscule. Best case scenario, most will vote for literal Hitler as long as he promises not to "sacrifice them for the greater good". Worst case scenario, the innocent person on the rails grabs a gun and "takes revenge" on the lever pullers and the society that enabled it.

[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

How many false rape accusations are there compared to unreported rapes?

One in five women have been sexually assaulted. Do you know five women? Have a mom and a couple sisters? At least one has been assaulted.

I disagree with you because I look at the actual numbers.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Except the numbers prove my point. They go unreported before this change was made. There are clearly different reasons why they are not reported. Making the process unfair did not even work. It did not solve the issue.

[-] prole 9 points 5 months ago

Hopefully, this is mostly about colleges

"Hopefully"? So you don't even know the details of this, and yet you came on here to berate people who understand it more than you and are against it?

Cool.

[-] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

I did not look up the statistics for this specifically, because I never considered them relevant to this issue. If anything, minors would be even less able to defend themselves from accusations and need a lawyer.

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