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[advice] she acts like she doesn’t like me but she seems to? (Platonically) (self.lesbians)
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yeah, i’ll probably seek advice on this community a lot now that I’ve found it.

so this girl nadya acts like she’s kind of avoiding but kind of not, it’s so weird. nadya and i used to be quite close since we met 3 years ago.

nadya has been really quiet lately though, specifically around me. she considers us friends and continues to talk to me, and will be normal sometimes. sometimes she smiles and waves back so i know she doesn’t HATE me.

anyway, i’m putting this under Lesbians bc i’m wlw (or more specifically, nblw) and i like this girl 😓

i guess what I’m trying to say is that she acts differently around me, but it doesn’t seem all negative?

I’m not certain she’s interested in me since this one “mean girl” thinks nadya likes her and very well may, but i wanna know what this might mean, especially as an enby with a sapphic crush 😅 (if i qualify as sapphic)

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[-] Sas@beehaw.org 2 points 1 day ago

Difficult one. So if she suddenly acted different from one day to the other there might've been an information gained. And from the way you described it she's unsure what to do about this. She might've realised you like her that way or she might've found feelings for you and doesn't quite know how to handle this information. She likes you as a friend but might be unsure about her sexuality or she likes you as a friend and is unsure what to do about your crush.

Honestly I don't feel qualified to give advice on the matter but do you know if she even is sapphic?

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