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[-] Squorlple@lemmy.world 39 points 3 months ago

The users are taking issue with the admins falling for the troll and allowing the troll to make the space hostile. Their engagement is with the admin/mod response, not with the user.

If you genuinely believe dragons are real and they are able to type and have some understanding of the English language, go gather the data, get it peer reviewed and objectively verified, and go collect your Nobel Prize. Otherwise, if you occupy a space in which people must act as if dragons or Santa or Groot are real, that is an improv roleplay in which failure to say “Yes, and” is a bannable offense. Reality persists. Eppur si muove.

fantasy creatures

By using that adjective, you are implying there are creatures which do not exist. You’re defending the admin response by partaking in the same act which got the users banned.

[-] copygirl 42 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Why are you hung up on the "dragons aren't real" thing? That was never a requirement. Some people will argue that being trans isn't real, being plural isn't real, being genderfluid isn't real, being bigender or another gender entirely isn't real. (Not that you are claiming this.) As such, the admins there simply decided that there won't be a line drawn. Let people do what they want. Heck, you could consider it "roleplaying" if you're more comfortable with that, or alternatively, simply don't engage. It's disrespectful and not to mention disruptive to make it an issue.

[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 26 points 3 months ago

Why are you hung up on the “dragons aren’t real” thing? That was never a requirement.

It was never a requirement that serious expressions of identity be real?

[-] copygirl 26 points 3 months ago

Yes. Them's the rules on Blåhaj Lemmy.

[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 30 points 3 months ago

I mean, apparently so, but I was not operating under the assumption that "We don't believe in gender, this is all roleplay" was the base state of the instance, and many others seem surprised by it too.

[-] RedSeries@lemmy.world 16 points 3 months ago

Three feet to your right is "trans women are roleplaying women". You may not hold that view explicitly, but the rules around respecting identity in that instance exist for that reason. And that means accepting identities that are challenging, even if they are being used by shitty people.

[-] Serinus@lemmy.world 14 points 3 months ago

They're exactly the opposite of what he just said.

[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 13 points 3 months ago

It's not about the person being shitty, it's about the identity itself being absurd and contradictory to reality.

[-] Sekoia 15 points 3 months ago

You missed the point of the comment you're replying to. To a lot of people, garden-variety binary trans people are "absurd and contradictory to reality". To even more people, nonbinary people are.

Blahaj lemmy's admins have decided that they will not draw a line, because they don't want to be the arbiters of what is valid. That does mean some extreme cases don't get decided the way you would, and that's fine! Just block those cases.

Whatever identity they have, I don't care. The internet's big enough for everyone. It's not my problem, not my life, live and let live.

[-] RedSeries@lemmy.world 8 points 3 months ago

You're so close to getting my point. It's like right there.

[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 18 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

"Transphobes hate trans people because they don't think trans people are real; therefore, in order to not be transphobic, you must admit reality doesn't exist" isn't very compelling.

Most ordinary folk would opine that transphobia is bad precisely because trans folk do exist in reality and are valid.

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