Tl;dr i dislike hypocrisy of those whonare silent until it affects the privileged who arent conditioned to not be in the shoes of the marginalized.

Vanilloids in the thead need to take a fuckin joke. See my other post in thread. I dont have the energy nor obligation to unpack the deeplore (tl;dr incels appropriated/co-opted the term from a woman and femcel memes are a kind-of spiritual successor and reclamation which is fuzzywarmbutedgyposting) and the MRA's in the thead are soggy about what is imo fairly mild humor given the traumas we commiserate. (Not like it matters but im happily partnered in >1 lesbian relationships; heart goes to my sadgrrl club all the same)