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[TW] Dating (self.mtf)
submitted 4 months ago by MicrondeMMMMMMM to c/mtf

Sorry this is a bit of a depressing subject but I've been feeling down and I kinda want to interact with ppl online.

Basically I'm feeling down because the girl I liked (I'm not out to her) is very likely into another girl (she's bi).

I never dated in my entire life, mostly because I feel like a freak and don't want to seem like a pervert trying to flirt with a girl. I don't know why I feel like this, but it's really taking a toll on me because if even as a relatively attractive guy I couldn't find anyone, how the hell can I find someone now?

I know T4T exists but there are so few trans women where I live, and the queer community is tiny here. I feel like I'll always be a second option to cis women(genital preference) and it just feels bad. I'm scared I'll end up alone. Moreover the HRT is making me crave intimacy so that adds to the pile...

Anyone feels like this too and found how to deal with it?

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[-] oftheair 2 points 3 months ago

We hope it works well for you, if you choose to do so ๐Ÿ™‚

[-] MicrondeMMMMMMM 2 points 3 months ago

There might not be big enough of a community though :(

[-] oftheair 2 points 3 months ago
[-] MicrondeMMMMMMM 1 points 3 months ago

My country has a small queer community and an even smaller portion of ppl who are tech savvy enough to use mastodon. And an even tinier portion might live in my region.

I should maybe make a post to see how it goes but tbh I'm not getting my hopes up...

[-] oftheair 2 points 3 months ago

Oh, you mean you only want to date people close to you in location, we see.

Thanks for explaining!

[-] MicrondeMMMMMMM 1 points 3 months ago

Yeah, call me old fashioned XD Thanks for your replies :)

[-] oftheair 2 points 3 months ago

We understand. We miss physical interaction sometimes as much as we enjoy our relationships for other reasons (such as liking the people).

You are welcome and we hope you can find what you are looking for.

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