Like everything else in the real world, there are far more shades of gray than the singular black and white way of handling things than how you're representing it. Stop for a moment and think about your own actions growing up, going to school, getting a job, being in a relationship, etc. In every scenario, I guarantee you've made mistakes or poor decisions of varying degrees. I also guarantee you that some of those were abuses of power, even if most of them were very small ones. Being caught making those mistakes doesn't always have to end in a 100% revocation of whatever power or potential power you have. Good responses tend to take into account all the nuance, including stakes and severity, and punishment is often used only as a tool of reinforcement that then lets the person have the opportunity to later show that they can and have grown and won't make the mistake again. That is what's happening here. If they do something like this again, even and especially with the changes being made, then yeah, it's time for further action. Until then, the actions themselves that were harmful have been reversed and they've taken the time and effort to make the changes they described. Let them learn and grow.
TL;DR: You don't get put to death for every crime, even many bigger ones; you get a measured response and an opportunity to grow.
This confusion about the time and day explains part of the loneliness, I think.