I only apologize if i mean it. But I do mean it when I say "I'm sorry for how my actions have impacted you as that was not my intention."
Sometimes people are hurt because of something that's not entirely fair to expect of someone else. That's reality. And I'm sorry that we're not more aligned. If I have to establish a boundary for my own well being I'm not enjoying the difficulty someone else may have with that, but I prioritize myself out of necessity because I an the only one who I can expect to do so.
Based is already old though