I'm not lecturing, I'm asking for help on how to approach this. This is closer to frustrated bitching than lecturing.

Most of the folks I talk to hear agree with me that things are going wrong, or that x,y, or z is a problem, but not enough to do anything about it. I have heard a few times that, " I want to do something, but I have to protect myself."

Wait until you learn about the Honored Matres.

I have professional help

I mean, this is probably the right answer, lol

I've had really bad experiences with LGBT groups/events, especially trans events, in the past. Working in a professional capacity has been the most rewarding way for me to feel connected, while also (hopefully) using some of the privilege I have to help others.

I'm working on online guides at work right now, so maybe I can upload those at some point if folks are interested.

America - where you can get any kind of fast food you want, as long as it's a hamburger.

-Neil Gaimen

I don't use Linux, but I love penguins, and I want to chill with this Lil guy

I did at the restaurant I worked at when I transitioned, although I switch to initials instead of a female name. Everyone was super cool about it, just went, "ok cool."

Don't be surprised if people mess up, especially people that know you better - it can be harder for people that know you better to make that initial switch. But if your workplace seems cool with it, it probably will be.

Good luck! This is one of the most nerve wracking parts of transitioning, but also the most rewarding. Reach out if you need any help processing when it's over!

It truly embiggens the spirit of the game.

I'm really hoping me being a trans woman and the first point of contact will make patients feel safe and be more willing to be honest.

Honestly, that's probably just your self perception. I always think my hands look masculine, but none of my cis female friends think so. We are often our own biggest critics.